What kind of man would marry a widow with eleven small children? Alice Lasack sometimes ponders that question as she stands in the kitchen of her family home in the small town of Lost Nation, Iowa, and stares out the window. And she remembers.

The events of that horrible morning in July, forty-five years ago, are still crystal clear in Alice's mind. She was cooking breakfast, and Henry Keitel, her husband of fifteen years, was going out to the pasture to bring in the cows for milking. First, he stopped to help three-year-old Cathy tie her shoes. Meanwhile, little Alice was mixing pie dough. After awhile, breakfast was growing cold and he still hadn't returned. A voice went through Alice's head: "You've got to get help." Her brother-in-law found Henry lying peacefully in the pasture, dead from a massive heart attack at age thirty-nine.

Alice felt more alone and afraid than she'd ever felt in her life. She had nine children under the age of thirteen. And she was six months pregnant. Alice remembers praying nonstop, "Please help me, Lord. All these kids are depending on me."

Divine gifts and miracles 

When Alice delivered three months later, her doctor was taken by surprise. He suddenly exclaimed, "There's another one!" She had given birth to twin boys. "I always felt it was a miracle. . . . God had sent the second baby to take Henry's place," she said. Henry had given her a dozen red roses when each of the children was born. When she came back from the delivery room the day the twins arrived, a dozen red roses were on the table next to her bed. She never found out who sent them.

Henry was a good man. He and Alice had wanted a big family and welcomed each baby as a gift from God. When they bought their farm in DeWitt, their children had room to run and grow. It was a life they both wanted. But somewhere along the line, Alice is sure God took Henry aside and spoke to him, because he took out a life insurance policy, and then, just months before he died, he took out a mortgage insurance policy.

Henry's foresight was a lifesaver for Alice and the children after he was gone. The farm was paid for, and Alice received a small insurance check every month. She rented out the land, and they grew almost everything they needed in their garden. All the children pitched in, working hard on the farm and getting jobs as soon as they were old enough. And yet, said Alice, "If I hadn't had my faith, my church, my friends. . . . I never would have made it through those tough times."

Answered prayers 

Over the next five years, she didn't think she would ever remarry. After all, who would want a woman with eleven children? "But," she admitted, "I did pray." She prayed, "Please God, if there is such a man out there, let him be a good Christian, a man my kids can look up to." So God sent Charlie. 

Every time Alice went to her women's church group meeting, her good friend Lula Horstmann teased her about meeting Lula's brother, Charlie Lasack. Finally Alice gave in. "All right," she told Lula. "He can call me if he wants to."

Five years earlier, Charlie had lost his wife, Opal, to diabetes, and he lived alone on the family farm near Lost Nation. Opal's illness had prevented them from having children, and Alice had no illusions about the likely intentions of a man who had never had a family of his own. So, when he called the following Thursday and asked her to go dancing on Friday night, she hesitated. "We'll go out with Lula and Bill," he insisted. "It'll be fun."