Vision for Society
Written by: Jeffrey Richey
Kongzi envisioned a society in which all lived in harmony, content with their place within the social hierarchy. He believed that if a ruler's moral character was exemplary, this would influence his people to behave morally as well.
If xiao exemplifies the spirit that Confucians believe ought to animate social interactions, then li (ritual) provides the model for the practice of social relationships. Indeed, Kongzi is said to have taught his students only three things: poetry, history, and ritual (Lunyu 7:18). The Han dynasty compendium of Confucian ritual lore, the Liji (Record of Ritual), begins with this description of li:
Always and in everything let there be reverence; carry yourself as if you were deep in thought, and speak calmly and composedly. How peaceful people will be then!
For Confucians, ritual properly performed renders society as tranquil and at ease. This peaceful image lies at the heart of the Confucian social vision. When speaking of li, Kongzi said: "In the practice of ritual, tranquility is most precious" (Lunyu 1:12). Moreover, ritual's power to order society peacefully lies with its essentially non-coercive, persuasive nature:
Direct the people by means of laws, unify them by means of punishments, and they will become evasive and moreover will have no sense of shame; direct them by means of moral charisma, unify them by means of ritual, and they not only will have a sense of shame, but moreover will be good by themselves (Lunyu 2:3).
But what do Confucians mean by ritual, that they credit it with the power to transform society without a single shot being fired? It is important to bear in mind that, for Kongzi and his disciples, ritual is not mere ceremony -- gestures choreographed for polite occasions. Rather, ritual is moral life at its most fundamental, lived out in social interaction. Kongzi's most beloved student, Yan Hui, once asked about moral perfection. His master told him:
To subdue oneself and return to ritual is moral perfection. If one is able to subdue himself and return to ritual for just one day, the whole world will call him virtuous (Lunyu 12:1).
In order for society to attain the Confucian ideal, its members must learn to subdue themselves. Like morality, ritual is relational; for a person stranded on a desert island, neither ethics nor manners have much meaning. For a person afloat in the sea of society, as most people are, the ritualization of everyday human interactions -- greetings and farewells, requests and thanks, births and deaths -- provides a way in which to enlarge one's sense of self by incorporating the needs and desires of others into one's notion of what is good, right, and desirable. "Without knowing ritual, one cannot develop one's character," says Kongzi (Lunyu 20:3). Thus, ritual is a school of virtue, a necessity for social survival, and the key to social harmony.