Be careful what you pray for….

Because you just might get it.I've been quiet. There's been a lot going on in my house since Adam's grandmother died two weeks ago. As soon as he returned from the funeral, my in-laws arrived and then it was Thanksgiving. Then my daughter came down with a double infection and a bronchial thingamajig. Oh yeah, and I've been not so successfully fighting the cold and.....And dealing with so much stuff that I cannot talk about publicly. On top of some wonderful opportunities that I look … [Read more...]

Celebrating Diwali

Diwali is like Christmas. It's a festival of lights, a celebration of light over darkness, of ushering in the new, and giving gifts to loved ones.  There are many traditions, some vary according to community, but some of them are: new clothes for everyone, new jewelry for women, a new kitchen utensil for the house, closing up the year's account book and starting a new one, leaving all the lights on, and creating colorful mandalas, decorations and footprints leading up to the front door to let … [Read more...]

A blessed Diwali!

Diwali decorations are up. Candles are lit. Lights are on. Wine is poured. Gifts given. I'm wearing new earrings and I'm about to cook one of my husband's favorite meals.Tonight, after the kids are asleep, I'll make puja to Lakshmi, honoring her for the abundance and beauty in my life, and asking for her blessings upon my life, my family, and all who dwell in this house.Pictures (and more explanation) to come tomorrow.May we all find light in the darkness, may liberation and … [Read more...]

Holidays and Hinduism

Diwali begins today. Well, in some communities. The major Lakshmi puja is observed the day after the dark moon, on Tuesday. What's hard for me about observing Hindu holidays is that so many of the details depend on cultural traditions of the Indian subcontinent. Tamils observe slightly differently than Nepalese than the myriad other ethnic and cultural groups. The gods even have different names and sometimes slightly different mythology! While this is really confusing, it's also liberating. … [Read more...]

Morning Practice

Every morning I escape from the family routine of breakfast, showers, dishes, getting dressed, stop hitting your sister, and escape into my back room to sit. I used to get up before the kids and do this, but my son typically is wide awake at 6.30 ready to snuggle and be read to. Getting up at 5.30 would be wise, but just isn't going to happen, if I'm being honest.Sitting in my bathrobe (sometimes I'm dressed first, not usually) I light the candles and the incense, waving it in front of … [Read more...]

Maxim Monday: Vote

I didn't double-check, but I'm pretty sure this isn't a Delphic Maxim. Democracy comes from the Greeks, even if only the non-slave males were given the opportunity to vote. The Unites States doesn't have a direct democracy, which really only functions best among thousands of people. But we do have democracy, and I'm a fan of it. I don't use this blog for my political thoughts (although you can be certain I have many). Doing our civic duty is an ancient pagan value and so I'm using today's post … [Read more...]

The Not So Dumb Supper

I don't know the much about history and tradition of the dumb supper. I've been to a few communal suppers and really enjoyed them. A few years ago I decided I'd like to add this to my own family's traditions. Finding some balance to the commercialized candy-fest of mainstream Halloween and creating a container to discuss death and ancestors with the kids is important to me. This was our third dumb supper - and it certainly wasn't all that dumb (and by dumb, I mean silent).My ideal dumb … [Read more...]


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