Haters Gonna Hate

Yesterday a young, dynamic, new friend of mine posted on his blog that he was done with witchcraft. Definitively and decidedly done. His post is down now, so I won't bother to link to it. It was a problematic post in many ways, hurtful to his allies and dismissive of his own considerable talents. Yet there were some hard truths about the witchcraft 'community' in his post, some of which I want to address here, because he is not the first, and certainly won't be the last, to struggle with not … [Read more...]

Maxim Monday: Foresee the future

Foresee the future. I see this in two ways.I suspect this Maxim is relating to thinking ahead and planning wisely for what may arise. Looking ahead and making plansĀ  are important, whether that's for later in the week or for our 5 year plans. I am a planner by nature. I like to have at least a vague sense of where I'm headed. As I've gotten older I worry less about the details and more about the larger picture. To think of it in slightly different terms, I try to be more intentional about my … [Read more...]

In the Weeds

When the going gets tough, and it often does when one attempts 'advanced living,' what do you do?After my weekend in Canada, my week was a rough come down. My period started; I was physically exhausted and sleep deprived. My son turned five and we threw a larger than usual birthday party. My in-laws came to town. And my husband and I took some risks while at the same time excavating some intense relationship stuff. Did I reach out to friends? Did I fall back on the foundations of my … [Read more...]

Into the Woods

I went to Canada, into the woods, and thought I was going on vacation. How wrong I was.I expected fun, laughter, and trees. I got all of that. Fun was had, in a variety of forms. There was laughter. The grey mists against the deep greens of the trees and floating on the surface of the lake fed the Alaskan part of my soul. The camp site was not as spectacular as I'd hoped and the food wasn't very good. But it was the surprises...... Oh, the surprises.The first great surprise was mead. … [Read more...]

Sweet Vacation

Today I am leaving on vacation. I am going to Canada. Without my family. It's been nearly a year since I did something longer than 4 hours without them. I am ready to recharge my batteries.I'm headed to the Gathering For Life On Earth. Pretty cheesy name, but so far, I've found the people on the FB group friendly and the list of activities enticing. Plus, it's only an hour or so outside of Vancouver, BC, so it is guaranteed to be beautiful. It's been a decade since I've been to Canada. I … [Read more...]

Maxim Monday: Do a favor for a friend

I like this one. Probably because I'm already good at it. Probably because this one is in enlightened self-interest.This Maxim to me is one of the foundations of community building. Now that I have children I can see the needs and benefits of doing a favor for a friend (or neighbor) even more than before! Thriving in this world takes a group effort. While I believe we have to take responsibility for our own actions, we can only thrive (and by that I mean more than just get by) when we work … [Read more...]

Not of this world

On my way to the grocery store I pass two churches. The first is a Lutheran church, an open and affirming one. I visited it last year, and while I thought highly of it, I couldn't sit through an entire service. These days I barely notice the large brick building with its stained glass and preschool playground. Until it hosts the farmers' market in its parking lot. Then I am there weekly, even if I bypass its front doors and sanctuary.The other church is much larger (churches here seem to be … [Read more...]


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