Objectifying Soccer Players Probably Won’t Help Fight Sexism

...Ronaldo, come on, you're embarrassing the Americans.

Amanda Hess' article for Slate, "Why it’s great to objectify World Cup players," is wonderful. In it, she argues that the hyperbolic and often hilarious "sexual gaze" at soccer players from Jezebel-esque journalists is calling out and offering a counter-balance to the over-sexualization of female athletes."These days, clicking through a slideshow of the world’s hottest female soccer players makes you look like a bit of a creep. But admiring the abdominals of male footballers? That just means … [Read more...]

The (Usually Ignored) Difference Between Sexual Identity and Sexual Event

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NSFW, or children, or anyone, really. Let's just put this one in the grave, alright? Sexual identity cannot be based on the object of our sexual arousal.I know this is how we've been doing it: If you are aroused by members of the opposite sex, you're a heterosexual, the same sex, homosexual, two sexes, bisexual, all sexes, pansexual, the intelligence, sapiosexual, and so on and on and on. But "how we've been doing it" has made us miserable, killed gender theory, and turned the beautiful, … [Read more...]

How “Cis” Killed Gender Theory

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Modern gender theory is dead, and we have killed it. Weep -- we were really onto something.We wriggled out from a dichotomy of a "normal" sexual orientation (heterosexuality) and deviations from that norm (homosexuality and lesbianism, largely), to a world of "alternative lifestyles" (homosexuality and heterosexuality as equally valid "life choices"), to a world excited and exploding with the hundreds of labels we are growing fond and familiar with today (sapiosexual, omnisexual, pansexual, … [Read more...]

Sexuality and Personality

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Sexuality is a microcosm of personality. It is a part of the person -- I can draw it out from other parts, like rationality -- but it also signifies the person. Like a fractal that contains within itself the governing idea of the fractal-pattern, a sanctuary in a temple, or a thesis statement that is both a part and the whole of an essay, sexuality recapitulates the fundamental realities of the person of which it is a part.This is the reason that sexual issues are controversial. … [Read more...]


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