I have to say, I love Red’s list, and I love her “get it done while staying sane” attitude towards the Holidays. When I look at that list, I realize that there are really so many things that need to get done to prepare for a family Christmas celebration. I have streamlined my list quite a bit, and I try to do some things early, but every year I wind up in trouble by mid December. One of the main reasons that I have not been able to follow a list like that in the past is not procrastination, as others might think, but rather perfectionism. The thing about checking something off the list is that you have to accept that the task is done to a reasonable standard and move on. I tend to think that somewhere, out there, is a better gift at a better price, or that I should just try one more photo shoot to get the perfect holiday picture. I pick new menu items and add new traditions because whatever we did last year could be a tiny bit better, and I wind up scrambling at the last minute.
This year, I resolve to stop the insanity. We ordered our Christmas cards tonight. They’ll arrive in about a week and I’ll have a few days to write them before sending them out at a reasonable time. I didn’t have to pay extra for rush shipping and I won’t have to stay up until midnight addressing them all in one day because I worked with pictures that I already had and just gave myself permission for it to be good enough.
I put some gifts into online shopping baskets and — this is rare for me — actually finished the order. My brother’s baby will get what I ordered, my boys will have those Christmas ties and not some other ones, and the Christmas pajamas will be made from the fabric we selected when we were in the store today. I will not go on wild goose chases and add stress to my holidays by thinking that perfection is just around the next corner.