When God Is a Woman

A Galilean carpenter once famously said that the way we treat those who are the least among us is the way we treat our God (Matthew 25:31-36). It’s something Christians have taken to heart in the many years since, something we hold true in a way that is more than just symbolic. We believe that the way we love God is by loving other human beings—especially victims of injustice and oppression: the least of these.

In our world today, however, who is really the least? Granted, it often feels like injustice is everywhere we look, and stories that cry out to be heard are numerous. Some of the most heartbreaking examples, however, come from the lives of those that society seems determined to keep in their unwilling role as “the weaker sex.”

We are conditioned to see God in the stories of men. King David, Isaiah, Paul. Shepherd, prince, hero. Influential pastors decry the church for being effeminate, for having female qualities as well as male ones, subtly implying that the Divine shows itself better in maleness than in femaleness.

But, despite it all, God often shows up in the eyes of a woman.

God is the Indian widow blamed for the death of her husband (no matter what the actual cause) and made to be an “it” in the eyes of society.

God is the daughter, wife, or girlfriend beaten, abused, and endangered by the man in her life—often with little sympathy from leaders who caution her to remain “submissive.”

God is the baby girl in China unwanted, unloved, abandoned, or aborted, simply because she is not a son instead.

God is the college student in New Delhi who is rightly afraid every time she leaves her house and enters a public space, who has to fear for her life and her body in a society where the law is often against her and sympathy can be hard to find.

God is the motherless HIV/AIDS orphan in Africa, already assumed to be sick with a devastating disease.

God is the teenage girl in rural Nepal, tricked and sold against her will into the dismal world of forced prostitution.

God is the little girl in the American foster system, lost and alone.

God is the pastor’s wife blamed for her husband’s infidelity—with another man—because she was probably “unavailable” and had “let herself go.”

God is the homeless lesbian girl who was kicked out of her house and left with nowhere to go but the streets because her parents found out, who experiences unique risks because of her sexuality.

God is each of the hundreds of thousands of girls and women each year who are pinned down and forced to submit to the torture of female genital mutilation.

God is every single one of the estimated one billion women who will be raped or beaten in her lifetime.

Listen to their stories. Look into their faces. Pray for their hearts and lives.

They are least, and yet valued beyond measure.

In them, we see our God.

About Faith Newport

Faith Newport writes, knits, drinks lattes, and sings in the shower in a small Midwestern town. She lives with two cats, too many books, and her very patient husband. Follow her on Twitter @knittybarista.

  • http://www.fromtwotoone.com Danielle | from two to one

    Thank you for this stirring reminder, Faith.

  • Jeff Cavanaugh

    In so far as you’re elaborating on Jesus’ “least of these” statement, I agree and appreciate the reminder. I’m not sure, though, that it’s helpful to say it in the language of divine identity, given what a fraught theological topic that has been for the last several decades. There are a lot of evangelicals who very much NEED to be reminded that all those categories of women you mention are part of “the least of these.” I’m just concerned that introducing the reminder with such a loaded phrase as “God is a woman” is more likely to close ears and hearts to the reminder than it is to foster helpful discussion.

  • Faith Newport

    Jeff–women are equal bearers of the Imago Dei, and its fullness cannot be revealed in one gender alone. By using somewhat “subversive” language, my hope is that we would all be drawn to give these issues a deeper look–and by doing so, respond to the needs of women in crisis.

    And I have to wonder, if we cannot bear to see God in women even metaphorically in an article like this–how will we ever be able to rise to the occasion when faced with real women in need?

    Finally, I pray that those who have ears to hear will hear.

  • Ben

    Faith, I don’t think Jeff is suggesting women AREN’T equal image bearers, or that the fullness of God is revealed in one gender, or that he “cannot bear to see God in women even metaphorically.” I think he’s simply stating that the language around this issue is something to be careful with because God himself was so consistent in the way Scripture uses gender, and because many times using female gender language in reference to God is one way of subverting Scripture’s authority and ability to speak for itself.


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