Miley Cyrus’ Contribution to Feminism

Ever since the most recent Video Music Awards show aired, there has been a breathless competition online to see who can be more offended by Miley Cyrus’ highly sexualized performance.  Yes, I watched it, and yes, much of it made me pretty uncomfortable. It was hard for me not to imagine my own daughter a dozen or so years from now, longing to replicate the gyrations and sexual gestures of another – but similarly overt – pop idol.

Basically, it was lowest-common-denominator entertainment: hardly anything new in the music industry.  Madonna did as much and then some decades ago, so why is this particular incident such a big deal?

For one thing, one of the most lurid moments of the performance had her grinding in a compromising position with a married man, nearly twice her age.  Interesting, though, that the criticisms of Miley online have far outweighed those of Robin Thicke, the married man in question who participated in said grinding.  Suffice it to say that women historically have been held to different standards of sexual expression than men, and when in doubt, blame the woman. Not that her dance was appropriate, but it tells us more about ourselves when we obsess about the shenanigans of the young woman far more than the borderline adulterous displays of a much older man.

Second, Miley’s childhood and the resulting fame that came with it was branded as fundamentally wholesome. Her father, Billy Ray Cyrus, is a bit of a Christian public figure himself  and is an active member of Parents Television Council, an advocacy group that is somewhat of a moral watchdog for the media. So there’s no small irony in his own daughter being the poster child for everything the Council stands against. Of course it’s really no surprise either, given historical precedent of kids rebelling against the mold created for them by their parents. It’s been going on at least since Biblical times, so why should they be any different now? Miley the child was sold as a sweet, spunky but wholesomely innocent youngster, so of course, as she seeks to assert her individuality, she’s going to shatter that image to bits.

Third, there’s the matter of her being one of the biggest Disney icons in recent years. Disney is quite intentional about creating an image of “wholesomeness” around their brand. But let’s be honest; they are not above sexualizing their child actors when it suits them, either. This became strikingly clear to me when my son, now nine, was watching an episode of iCarly a few years back and Miranda Cosgrove, who couldn’t have been more than in her early teens at the time, was bouncing around through the show in a coconut bra.

Just this week, my four-year-old daughter, Zoe turned on the Disney Channel, only to be met with a laundry list they had compiled of things a “good princess” should always do. Among the top  items listed: kiss boys.

Which brings me to my final point about what Miley’s performance contributes to the feminist movement in North America. Although in some respects, women and girls have made strides toward gender parity in our culture, there is still a persistent, if sometimes subtle, subtext narrated to our girls, which is that sex is the most efficient and potent mean of access to power they have. Yes, my daughter is told now at such a young age that she can be anything she wants when she grows up. And I hope that is true, but I already hear the comments from friends, family members and teachers about her appearance and anticipated future success with boys, and how it affects her behavior. and honestly, it only gets more pronounced as girls reach puberty and beyond.

So perhaps, rather than men in power resisting the progress of women being the greatest current barrier to parity, it now is the unpleasant reality that sexualizing young women works for innumerable purposes in our world. None more so, perhaps, than the popular music industry. So it’s really a bit disingenuous of us to express shock or disgust when Miley Cyrus fondles herself or engages in orgiastic dance numbers in front of an audience of millions. After all, the culture set up the rules of the game long ago and, in spite of our assertions to the contrary, the economies of power, money and fame depend heavily on appealing to our baser instincts.

So judge Miley if you must, but in doing so, realize that she is only a speck that is part of a much larger log in our collective cultural eye.

About Christian Piatt

Christian Piatt is the creator and editor of BANNED QUESTIONS ABOUT THE BIBLE and BANNED QUESTIONS ABOUT JESUS. He co-created and co-edits the “WTF: Where’s the Faith?” young adult series with Chalice Press, and he has a memoir on faith, family and parenting being published in early 2012 called PREGMANCY: A Dad, a Little Dude and a Due Date.

  • Dextermom

    Just nit-picking but iCarly and Miranda Cosgrove were on Nickelodeon not Disney.

    • Christian Piatt

      All one and the same in this perennially distracted parent’s world.

  • andrewshepherd

    It seems counter feminism to tell women that if they express themselves sexually, they’re doing a disservice to the world. There are problems with sexualizing children, but Miley is an adult, and did consent to that scene. Also, open marriages do exist, and Robyn Thicke has been pretty open about his relationship with his wife. Which isn’t to say there weren’t problems with the performance, (like race, in particular: http://groupthink.jezebel.com/solidarity-is-for-miley-cyrus-1203666732) but a lot of but this conversation sounds puritanical. Sorry for the critique. I’m really curious to hear more opinions.

    • Christian Piatt

      I think my point was missed, perhaps.

  • http://lotharlorraine.wordpress.com/ Lothar Lorraine

    Hello Christian you do touch on an important topic here.

    Whilst it’s clear to all of us that conservative dogmatic restrictions on sexuality can be extremely harmful, the typical liberal attitude (anything goes so long as it doesn’t cause immediate harm) can also have very bad consequences.

    Many modern feminists have bough the dogmas of consumerism and believe it is really great for women to dress very sexily to get everything what they while shouting “Sexual harassment!” whenever the wrong type of guy looks at them.

    The unwelcome consequence is that many secular men view primarily girls as objects for the satisfaction of their lust.

    Many more progressive Christians need to speak out against this situation.

    Lovely greetings from Europe.
    Lothars Sohn – Lothar’s son

    http://lotharlorraine.wordpress.com

  • Dana

    May I also add that as the media and journalist (not picking on you Christian!) continue to talk about this, express disgust, and keep it front and center – is all the coverage not doing exactly what she and her promoters wanted to do in the first place – give her more attention than she would have otherwise had! It seems that each time a performer pushes the boundaries, that is what gets the attention and not all those who provide quality entertainment that is appropriate. I may be a Polly Anna here,but it seems to me that all of this is about advertising and sales. Without sales as a result of the promotion, they’d stop doing it!! Wish we could talk about the good versus the ugly.

  • rachelamedee

    I think there is also room for a conversation about how the Disney/Tween wholesomeness takes its toll. Look at some of the former notorious Disney alums like Brittany Spears and Lindsey Lohan. Sexuality is an essential part of humanity, a part that so called wholesome media, as you pointed out, is not above exploiting. But it is also a part that wholesome media is unwilling to explore in any meaningful way. These young women are stifled by a combination of wealth, fame, and expectations that leave little room for growing up. Are we forcing them to act out so dramatically by holding them to such a rigid standard?

  • brianmurphy425

    Good stuff. My only thought is that perhaps just like people sought to brand her as wholesome they are now seeking to brand her as a “rebel” or “seeking to assert her individuality”.

  • Najwa Jai

    This was a beautiful piece. My first reaction to Cyrus’ behavior was appalled. I’m sure behind all the outlandish looks and inappropriate behavior lyes a very smart and industrious young women. Yet, like so many of us, that gets clouded by perpetuated sexual gratification. Plain and simple, we live in a culture where sex sells. I just wish those who have to power to use their brains instead of their butts would set a better example for young girls and women. Though as you said, Miley is a mere speck in a culture that needs changing.


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