I very much like this essay by Maurine Proctor:
As I’ve said before, I am neither for nor against the ordination of women. If the Lord reveals that women should be ordained, I’ll be happy. If the Lord doesn’t reveal that women should be ordained, I’ll be happy. Everything, for me, hinges upon whether the Church is in line with God’s will. If I were to believe that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is merely led by uninspired humans, even by good ones using their best thinking with the best of intentions, I would have little or no interest in it — and even less interest in the question of women’s ordination in such a church.