“We are but a moment’s sunlight, fading in the grass.”

“We are but a moment’s sunlight, fading in the grass.” May 30, 2016

 

Mediocre illustration for Youngbloods' song
A pond, with cattail grass and sunlight (Wikimedia Commons)

 

My wife and I went to a viewing tonight for a young woman who died suddenly and unexpectedly a week ago last Sunday, at only twenty-two years of age.  We didn’t know her, but we’ve known her father for many years and have sometimes worked on shared projects with him.

 

It was a melancholy evening.  She had been full of life, a good daughter, with the confident expectation of many years ahead of her.  Her death was — is — shocking.

 

I find myself thinking of two appropriately melancholy poems that impressed me already when I was a teenager and that have been favorites of mine over all the intervening years.  I’m so fond of the two poets, in fact, that I’ve gone out of my way to visit the tomb of the first, in England, and the place on Bainbridge Island, in Washington State, where the second accidentally drowned.  Neither poem fits this young woman’s story particularly well, but both attempt (as the Hamblin/Peterson column on Saturday also did) to say something, at least, about the death of young and promising people.  It’s so unnatural, in a way.  So very wrong.

 

by A. E. Housman
The time you won your town the race 
We chaired you through the market-place; 
Man and boy stood cheering by, 
And home we brought you shoulder-high. 
Today, the road all runners come, 
Shoulder-high we bring you home, 
And set you at your threshold down, 
Townsman of a stiller town. 
Smart lad, to slip betimes away 
From fields where glory does not stay, 
And early though the laurel grows 
It withers quicker than the rose. 
Eyes the shady night has shut 
Cannot see the record cut, 
And silence sounds no worse than cheers 
After earth has stopped the ears. 
Now you will not swell the rout 
Of lads that wore their honours out, 
Runners whom renown outran 
And the name died before the man. 
So set, before its echoes fade, 
The fleet foot on the sill of shade, 
And hold to the low lintel up 
The still-defended challenge-cup. 
And round that early-laurelled head 
Will flock to gaze the strengthless dead, 
And find unwithered on its curls 
The garland briefer than a girl’s.

 

by Theodore Roethke
I remember the neckcurls, limp and damp as tendrils;
And her quick look, a sidelong pickerel smile;
And how, once startled into talk, the light syllables leaped for her,
And she balanced in the delight of her thought,
A wren, happy, tail into the wind,
Her song trembling the twigs and small branches.
The shade sang with her;
The leaves, their whispers turned to kissing,
And the mould sang in the bleached valleys under the rose.Oh, when she was sad, she cast herself down into such a pure depth,
Even a father could not find her:
Scraping her cheek against straw,
Stirring the clearest water.

My sparrow, you are not here,
Waiting like a fern, making a spiney shadow.
The sides of wet stones cannot console me,
Nor the moss, wound with the last light.

If only I could nudge you from this sleep,
My maimed darling, my skittery pigeon.
Over this damp grave I speak the words of my love:
I, with no rights in this matter,
Neither father nor lover.

 

 


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