Holy Toledo

I spent part of last week in Ohio, and in four days visited three dioceses: Cleveland, Youngstown and Toledo. A highlight was having a chance to meet some of the deacons of Toledo, where I gave a talk to them and their wives about my own vocation and my career in the media. We all [Read More...]

Deacon Gary is back

Just returned from a trip to snowy Ohio. I’ll post more in the next day or so, but wanted to offer a glimpse of the parish where I led a Lenten retreat on Saturday: Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Aurora, in the Diocese of Youngstown. Two FOBs (Friends of the Bench) stopped by for [Read More...]

“Got the ashes. Now what?”

That’s the title of a one-day retreat I’ll be giving Saturday at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Aurora, Ohio. If you’re in the neighborhood, stop by and say hello! Check out the parish web page for details. I’m looking forward to my visit—which begins with a stop in the Diocese of Toledo, to [Read More...]

The hunger game: the challenge of fasting during Lent

The good people at Legatus Magazine invited me to write a few words about fasting for Lent. Check ‘em out: I was doing perfectly fine, sitting at the diner, scanning the menu and steadfastly determined to have a tuna melt for lunch … until someone at the table next to me made a fateful decision. [Read More...]

The deacons got ashes

With Deacon Bill McNamara, my classmate and the DRE at my parish.   [Read more...]

Back from retreat

Sorry for the long silence: I was away Friday night through Sunday morning at the Immaculate Conception Seminary in Huntington, NY, on retreat with deacons from the Dioceses of Brooklyn and Rockville Centre, and the Archdiocese of New York. It’s a beautiful place—still blanketed in snow, despite the warming weather—and a good time was had [Read More...]

Super Bowl fever: just another day in New York

I found myself this morning in Times Square, which was teeming with pre-Super Bowl festivities. It seemed to have a lot more people than usual. These guys below caught my eye. It occurred to me that we work in the same business—though their idea of Christian communications and mass media is a little different from [Read More...]

“How to Build an Awesome Altar Serving Program in 10 Easy Steps”

People who visit The Bench regularly know that I never tire of gushing about my parish’s altar servers. We have about 140 of them, boys and girls, aged 9-22.  As I’ve posted pictures and sung their praises, readers have asked repeatedly, “How do you do it? What’s the secret?” Well, after much prodding, the moderator [Read More...]

Flying south

I’ll be in scenic Seneca, South Carolina next week, at the kind invitation of Fr. Gregory West, giving a parish mission at St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church. If you’re in the neighborhood, stop by and say hello! The theme comes from one of the dismissals of the Mass. I hope it will offer a [Read More...]

Staying power

The picture below appeared in our diocesan newspaper, The Tablet: The caption: Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Church, Forest Hills, boasts more than 100 members of its Altar Server Society. College and high school members were among the 50 servers who joined with Auxiliary Bishop Paul Sanchez, pastor, and the parish priests and deacons at [Read More...]