Divesting Myself of Fifty Percent of My Belongings


So Betty, How is that plan to give away fifty percent of your belongings going?Well, it's going. I  have given away the equivalent of one kitchen garbage bag per week in items that are not actually garbage. This week so far I have a stack that includes seven issues of Poetry magazine, a children's melody harp without strings, six or seven clothing items, and a bunch of my daughter's shoes that no longer fit (including a pair of Real! Wooden! Shoes! from Holland). My husband would say that … [Read more...]

Lest ye lead anyone into sin…


It's summer time. People are wearing fewer clothes, and the modesty debates have begun. Skirts vs. shorts for keeping cool, and what about bikinis? I say, fine, let them wear bikinis, let them wear whatever they want, as long as they pair them with some of these:Pervert deflecting hairy stockings, Ladies, because we wouldn't want to lead anyone into sin. … [Read more...]

Lucky Ducks


It's June. I've been on vacation, and my sister has been in town, the kids are all out of school, and I have no idea what's going on in the world. Except for this:I read Simcha Fisher's announcement of an upcoming big announcement last night and went to bed feeling like a loser because I thought for sure she was going to tell us she signed a book contract with FSG or got her life story optioned for a sitcom, and I thought, "I don't know if I can stand to know her good news, because it … [Read more...]

Don’t Swim Alone


It's that time of year again, when everyone shares the article about how drowning doesn't look like drowning.It's true.A couple years ago, my son and I almost drowned together on the first day of our summer vacation. Below is the post I wrote about it on my old blog. I'd also add the warning that there should always be more than one adult on the beach. I'll never take the kids swimming alone again.   There's something conspiratorial about packing a … [Read more...]

Expert Service

 My cousin went into labor earlier this week with her firstborn. It was almost thirty years ago that she and I planned our weddings, and named our daughters-to-be and imagined them growing up together sort of how we had ourselves. As I drove the two hours to the hospital where she delivered, with my own baby just a few months older than hers, I had lofty visions of myself as Mary, rushing to the hill country to assist her cousin Elizabeth. I was going to be of service! … [Read more...]

Towards a True Sex Education

One thing that became clear during the roundtable discussion on Abstinence-only sex education is that it's easy to pin-point what people do wrong when talking about sex. But knowing the right way to speak to our kids about sex can be a daunting task.One mother called into the show wondering about how to present the Theology of the Body to her ten-year-old daughter.My answer, or rather, my non-answer was that Pope John Paul II's Theology of the Body was developed over a series of … [Read more...]

7 Quick Takes: Complain-a-palooza


 1. Jen writes: "Sometimes I think it would be cathartic to just blow it out and have a Complaining Olympics where we all write posts venting about what we’re struggling with right now, and no caveats allowed. " I think this is an awesome idea. Here goes... 2.Some people look really cute in glasses. I don't think I'm one of those people. Really, I know it's stupid to complain about being blonde (I like my hair, I really do), but it doesn't go well with glasses. I wore … [Read more...]