For the first decade out of seminary, I was a campus minister with Reformed University Fellowship.  College students are a vibrant group, but you could always count on the Christian students believing a subtle lie - that God has the ideal spouse for me, and that if I find them, my life will be largely ideal.  They believed that if they could find the ideal spouse, then they would not have the marriage struggles their parents had, never feel isolated and lonely again, and/or be content for the … [Read more...]