From Where I Stand: Coming of Age in The Village

"Life Together" Photo by Paul Soupiset

"Life Together" (2011) Photo by Paul Soupiset. Taken the Wild Goose Festival.

“It takes a village to raise a child,” or so the African proverb suggests.

By way of introduction, I’m one of those unfamiliar people Doug mentioned when he introduced this blog almost a month ago now.

What excites me the most about this blog is the rich diversity of voices that are present in the collective conversation. I’ll be contributing from where I stand and while my vantage point has much common ground with many of the other contributors, I’ll be writing from the perspective of what it has been like to come of age in Emergent Village.

I was introduced to the movement while still in high school and as I entered college at a small, private liberal arts college of the church my resonance with the conversation intensified. Soon the conversation gave way to an experiment as some friends and I planted an alternative community of faith in the Lutheran tradition. Planting a church and being raised in the Village as a young 20-year old has been a strange and wild way to come of age. At times I think growing up in this movement was challenging. Often times the movement has been a sanctuary for the wounded and a messy laboratory for crazy dreamers and innovators. Such a chaotic place is fruitful, but it can also be dizzying. I’ve often wondered if it’s already time for this movement to think about the next generation of young leaders who may benefit from the wisdom of our conversation and practices. Yet I want to be clear: is has taught me a few things too. The Village gave me the crazy idea that I could risk experimentation, that I could improvise with my tradition and that there are at least a few honest and safe places where theological reflection happens.

I hope to contribute to the conversation in a few ways. First of all, I want to tell stories, especially those that illustrate hope, but a hope beyond optimism. There are also many fine theological voices around the Village. I hope to apprentice myself to those conversations, but also to contribute to them in some way. I am especially interested in the relationship between theology and culture, so I’ll add my voice from where I stand at that intersection.

As I wrap up this initial post, I want to leave with a question and perhaps we can wrestle together with it:

What does it look like for this Village to pass on the wisdom of our movement to younger generations—to young adults, to youth, to children?

Is God Fun? [Improvisational Christianity #3]

This is the third post in my exploration of Improvisational Christianity. You may want to catch up by reading the first two posts:

1. Improvisational Christianity: I Hope You Like Me

2. Saturday Night Live, Modernity and Stories

The first rule of improv we looked at last week was “Tell a Story.” This week we look at the second rule I learned as an improviser:

Rule #2 – Everyone Plays.

Deeply embedded in this rule is that improvisation is supposed to be fun and communal.

So is life.

My friend Missy was diagnosed with cancer. Her life wasn’t fun. It was scary and painful and uncertain. She was given serious medical advice to find a hobby that could serve as a distraction from her illness.

Just like I wandered broken into the Second City in Las Vegas, Missy wandered sick into the SAK Comedy Lab in Orlando for her first improv class. The first thing she was told there was that this is “an ok place to fail.” Missy broke down in thankful tears knowing that she needed that more than anything else in the world. She needed a safe place to have fun again.

Missy recovered from cancer. (Twice actually.) But she never recovered from improv. She teaches it in Cincinnati and coaches a local troupe that I play with called The Q City Players.

Did you happen to notice all the “playing” in that last sentence alone?

I said that I “play” with The Q City “Players.” This is something you should know about improvisers. We are so serious about play that the word itself is never far from our lips. When we perform, we call it “playing games.” When we invite someone to do a show we say, “Do you want to come play with us?” If it sounds like the way little kids talk, it should. We’ve rediscovered child-like secrets that we lost long ago – that people were born to play, and to play in a community where it is ok to fail. Everyone Plays.

Just so you know this isn’t just right-brained bohemian hippie crazy talk. There is serious science behind it. Psychiatrist and adult play expert Dr. Stuart Brown said the following during at interview for his book, Play: How it Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul:

“It is that we, as homo sapiens, are fundamentally equipped for and need to play actively throughout our lifespan by nature’s design. While most social mammals have a life cycle that involves dominance and submissiveness (as in Chimpanzee troops or wolf packs) with play diminishing significantly as adulthood arrives, we retain the biology associated with youthfulness despite still dying of old age! By this I mean that our overall long period of childhood dependency, which is dominated by the need for play, does not end with our reaching adulthood. Our adult biology remains unique among all creatures, and our capacity for flexibility, novelty and exploration persists. If we suppress this natural design, the consequences are dire. The play-less adult becomes stereotyped, inflexible, humorless, lives without irony, loses the capacity for optimism, and generally is quicker to react to stress with violence or depression than the adult whose play life persists. In a world of major continuous change (and we are certainly facing big changes economically now) playful humans who can roll with the punches and innovate through their play-inspired imaginations will better survive. Our playful natures have arrived at this place through the trial and error of millions of years of evolution, and we need to honor our design to play.”

It makes one wonder if part of the God-image in us, that which makes us eikons reflecting his glory unlike anything else in all of creation has something to do with God’s (and our) playfulness.

An improvisational Christianity would have to be playful. The God of an Improvisational Christianity would have to have capacity for fun. So here is the question that I ask with a little uncertain trepidation:

Is the God of the Bible playful?

The short answer is yes…and no. God comes off very seriously and often perturbed in the Bible. Perhaps for this reason, most Christians I know are overly serious (and perturbed) people. Having fun in my specific evangelical heritage was, at best, a necessary distraction. At worst it was a damnable sin. (If the fun involved alcohol, dancing or a 12-sided D&D die, for instance.)

However, there is also a strange unqualifiable mirth, perhaps even a mischievousness, to the God reflected in the Scriptures. (Talking donkeys, floating axe-heads, prostitutes always saving the day, really old women constantly getting knocked up by their husbands, etc.)

G.K. Chesterton was either one of the smartest men who ever lived or such a masterful wordsmith that he comes off as such. What he says at the end of his masterpiece Orthodoxy has stuck with me for years:

“Now, to put the matter in a popular phrase, it might be true that the sun rises regularly because (God) never gets tired of rising. His routine might be due, not to a lifelessness, but to a rush of life. The thing I mean can be seen, for instance, in children, when they find some game or joke that they specially enjoy. A child kicks his legs rhythmically through excess, not absence, of life. Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, “Do it again”; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, “Do it again” to the sun; and every evening, “Do it again” to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike; it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.”

Chesterton takes the time-tested iconic image of the white-bearded-grandfather God and replaces him with  the eight-year-old-mischievious-boy-holding-a-muddy-horny-toad God.  A God who is younger than us would know how to really play. Maybe Chesterton’s Younger God is exactly what we all need after a few millenia of Grandpa God.

It all makes me think that the most urgently serious question to ask might be this:

Is the God we inherited playful enough to be considered seriously?

Are Christians having enough fun to be taken seriously with our claim to have good news? Are our Christian communities known for our scandalous mirth? Is my God fun?

My concern is that all of us our deceived. What if we are actually still simple seven-year old kids who want to play with our friends? But we now suddenly find ourselves trapped in aging bodies with monthly mortgages, unused business cards and cut-rate auto insurance.

This concern, along with my initial reading Orthodoxy ten years ago, lead me to write a fairy tale under that very premise. If you want it, you can find Between Two Kingdoms on Amazon. If you don’t want to pay for it, I’m sure it is pirated somewhere on the interweb.

I’ll end this post with one more Chesterton quote. It happens to be the same quote that begins my fairy tale.

Fairy tales are more than true; not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us dragons can be beaten.

We need to believe in dragons again.

So we can have fun beating them together.

Here’s to an emerging expression of Christianity where everyone plays, it’s ok to fail, and really old ladies still get knocked up by their husbands.

@JoeBoyd blogs daily at www.joeboydblog.com

Follow Joe’s friend Missy at @HotShotPR

Jesus and his marbles

Did Christmas Really Come?

Did you have a nice Christmas?  Everyone asks you that.  It’s a sort of conversation filler to use between Christmas and New Year’s since it’s too early to say “Happy New Year” yet.  So let me ask you a different question.  Did you have Christmas?  In other words, did Christmas come for you?

In the weeks leading up to Christmas, the cable channels are full of children’s shows, done in everything from claymation to CGI, in which the basic plot is always the same.  Some mean person or creature does something that will keep Christmas from coming this year.  In fact, this formula is so successful that I have noticed it has been expanded into Halloween shows as well.  There are now Halloween specials where the basic plot is, “Will Halloween come this year?”

So I was thinking, given all the screen time we devote to making our children and even ourselves wonder if Christmas was going to come this year, to ask ourselves if it really did. The mall moves on to Valentine’s Day and we move on too?  But did Christmas really come?

It’s not such an odd question.  In fact it’s a question people even asked of Jesus.  They didn’t quite phrase it as, “Jesus, how your Christmas?”  or “Did Christmas come for you?”  Instead, after Jesus began his ministry a few of John the Baptist’s disciples came to him and asked, “Are you the one who is to come, or should we wait for another?”

During Jesus’ presentation in the Temple as a child, Simeon, guided by the Spirit, enters.  He approaches the baby Jesus and takes him in his arms and starts thanking God saying, “Thank you God.  You promised I would see the Messiah before I died and today I have.  This child will bring your salvation (that is wholeness and reconciliation), not just to Israel but to the whole world.  I can die in peace now!”

The recognition of Jesus as messiah, was also confirmed that day by a prophet named Anna.  Yes there were woman prophets. Some forty years later, the apostle Paul would ask that women remain silent in church, but apparently Anna hadn’t heard of Paul yet.  So Anna, another elderly Spirit-filled person, tells people that Jesus would have a role in the redemption of Jerusalem.

Christmas had truly come for Simeon and Anna. They believed that in the birth of Jesus, the world had truly changed, that history had turned a corner.  Christmas was more than a date that had passed on the calendar. It was a world-changing event.  Things would never be the same again.

So I ask you again, has Christmas truly come for us?  Has it come for us the same way it came for Anna and Simeon?  Because if it has, that means we believe history has turned a corner, that the world has change forever because Jesus came into it.  You see, if everything Jesus said and taught, everything he did, his life, his death, his resurrection –just his whole way of being – if all that is true and from God – then the world has changed forever.

We say we believe it, yet we act as if we don’t.  We take the reality of Christmas and casually toss it aside as if it were an empty Wii box.  We take the demands of discipleship and leave them at the curb in the rain, hoping someone will take them away.

When Christmas truly comes, when we truly see Jesus as God’s messiah and light of revelation the world looks different.  The follower of Jesus doesn’t approach the world with the attitude of “Hey, it’s all good.”  The follower of Jesus walks in his light and sees shadows.  It’s not all warm and fuzzy praise-the-Lord platitudes.  Sometimes it means a sword is going to pierce your soul.  And that doesn’t always feel good.

If we want our lives to make a difference, we need to take a cue from Simeon.  He found fulfillment not in power, fame, or wealth, but in the mystery of a tiny child.  He spent his life waiting patiently for the messiah.  He never lived to see Israel fully restored, nor the whole world made right.  Yet he said he could die in peace because of what God had revealed to him in Jesus.  He could reach the end of his life with a sense of fulfillment even though he didn’t live to see God’s kingdom brought to completion.

You and I may not live to see the kingdom reach its completion either.  Yet we can make a difference and we can even die in peace.  To be a follower of Jesus, a true disciple is to have the audacity to stand in this world, knee-deep in crap, and brazenly declare that Christmas has truly come.  We are a people, who spirit-saturated like Anna and Simeon, have the faith to proclaim that our eyes have seen God’s salvation in Jesus Christ.