Justin Lee’s Final Post in Our Dialogue on Relationships for Gay Christians

is up:...Of course, respect does not mean agreement. Eve and I still disagree on several things. Eve believes the church needs to do more to recognize non-romantic forms of love, and I agree with that. It’s important for all of us, and especially for those who are celibate—by choice or by circumstance. But I don’t think that’s a sufficient answer to the challenges gay Christians face. As I argued in my original article, I believe romantic love is also a critically important part of the puzzl … [Read more...]

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My Final Post in Dialogue w/Justin Lee About Relationships for Gay Christians

here you go:I've greatly appreciated Justin's contributions to this dialogue. I don't expect this to be “the final word”—and I'm sorry these posts have been so long!—but let me try to give a bit more of a sense of where I'm coming from. Here are five things. What we long for. I generally write about the paths of love that are open to gay or same-sex attracted Catholics. That's because they are so much more varied and more fruitful than I realized when I became Catholic. I wish people had tol … [Read more...]

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Wesley Hill on Unchosen Sacrifice

and being gay and Christian: ...Julie and I both know that Christian churches and communities are often toxic places for LGBT people. Drawing only from my own small circle of gay friends, I could share stories of jobs denied, friendships lost, promotions refused and hospitality qualified — all because of what Julie describes, rightly, as “straight up homophobia.”And yet I’m not sure that such tragedies are the result of the traditional Christian teaching on marriage and sex in and of itself. … [Read more...]

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“Religious and Gay: A Catholic-Mormon Dialogue, Part 4″

lol someday I'll post about something else: What have you found interesting about each others’ answers? What was unexpected, enlightening? How might you try to apply things you have learned in your life and/or faith community?EVE: I really want to hear more about the extended family and ritual adoption in Mormonism! Is there a movement to bring back ritual adoption? What obstacles might that face, what new problems might arise, how is Mormon ritual adoption different from adelphopoeisis a … [Read more...]

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“Religious and Gay: A Catholic-Mormon Dialogue,” Part 2

posted: What cultural, theological, scriptural, or ritual elements of your faith have you found particularly helpful in your experience as a gay Catholic/Mormon? Have these faith-based resources helped you approach the underaddressed questions you’ve recently mentioned; if so, how? more (I'd talk a bit differently about models of celibacy if I were writing this now--as you may have noticed, monastic models have sort of simmered up in my mind lately) … [Read more...]

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What We See: Some Thoughts on Julie Rodgers’s Resignation from Wheaton

Earlier this week Julie Rodgers posted a characteristically forthright and gentle explanation of her shift in belief: "Though I’ve been slow to admit it to myself, I’ve quietly supported same-sex relationships for a while now." This is why she's just resigned from her post with evangelical Wheaton College's chaplaincy. The post touches on some of the topics that have shadowed my conversation with Justin Lee, and which I plan to return to in my final post in our dialogue, including the way that Ch … [Read more...]

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The Future of Gay Catholics

I am not the best person to contribute to a symposium on "The Future of Catholicism" because while I believe in Catholicism, I don't really believe in the future. I have the predictive ability of this Time magazine cover.So instead of doing predictions I'll briefly sketch out my dream scenario, and my nightmare. I'M SORRY THIS IS SO LONG.The dream: The challenge of shepherding gay and same-sex attracted Catholics has forced us to rediscover hidden treasures of our faith. Ordinary … [Read more...]

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