O Wanderer, Come Home: Notes from the Gay Christian Network Conference

Jesus said, “Amen, I say to you, there is no one who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands for my sake and for the sake of the gospel who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present age: houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions, and eternal life in the age to come. But many that are first will be last, and [the] last will be first."-Mk 10:29-31 These are very scattered notes but let me s … [Read more...]

Acceptance as the Precondition for Change: Motivational Interviewing and Jesus and Gay Stuff

A second small post in my intermittent series about things people have asked me in interviews about Gay and Catholic.I did a long, fascinating interview, which I hope I'll be able to share with you all fairly soon, in which the interviewer is a secular progressive. He found aspects of my book intriguing, but at one point he said, "Look, I need to push back on you a bit here. You talk a lot about the need for the churches to change and become more accepting and welcoming of gay people. And … [Read more...]

Fra Angelico and the Sex-Hating Church

A really rambling post.Now that my book is out I've been doing a lot of interviews, and in many of them I've been asked to tell my conversion story. A huge part of my conversion involved realizing that the Catholic Church wasn't what I'd thought it was. For example, I had this image that the Church opposed and rejected the human body--the beauty of the body, the joy of the senses--and denigrated all sensual beauty and pleasure, from the beauty of a Japanese maple to the ecstasy of sex. (I'm … [Read more...]

I’m on Hal Ginsberg’s Morning Show

A bunch of topics covered briskly here. Mostly gay Catholic whatnot. If you want a short version of my shtik this is not a bad place to look. … [Read more...]

“Gay Christians Choosing Celibacy Emerge from the Shadows”

Good intro-type piece at the Washington Post, featuring many friends of mine! When Eve Tushnet converted to Catholicism in 1998, she thought she might be the world’s first celibate Catholic lesbian. Having grown up in a liberal, upper Northwest Washington home before moving on to Yale University, the then-19-year-old knew no other gay Catholics who embraced the church’s ban on sex outside heterosexual marriage. Her decision to abstain made her an outlier. “Everyone I knew totally rejected it,” … [Read more...]

Jose Mena vs Me on Christian Friendship

A critique of some elements of my book. Some of this misreads specific phrases (I don't use "ancient" as a pejorative!) but Mena is putting his finger on something which is really in the book. I should say that I'm just not in a position to respond to these arguments; my best friend isn't Christian (nor is my family of course), and that's obviously shaped how I understand the role of shared belief within friendship. ...In Gay and Catholic, Tushnet is primarily concerned with establishing that … [Read more...]

“Church of Gay Abandon”: I’m Interviewed by the Sydney Catholic Weekly

Some headline writer was having a long day there. Anyway I thought this turned out well: ...What do you like about being Catholic?The central thing for me is the Eucharist, including Eucharistic adoration and processions like Corpus Christi. Also the saints and artists: St Francis, St Aelred, Dorothy Day, Oscar Wilde, Michelangelo, Caravaggio, El Greco, Dali.I like the fact that there's a saint for everything, St Lydwina the patroness of figure skating etc, and the gallows humour of the … [Read more...]


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