“Three Models for Intentional Communities of Friends”: Leah Libresco

blogs: To close out this week’s series on friendship, I’d like to recommend three articles on people building intentional communities that make it easier to bring friends to the center of our lives — a space conventionally reserved for family and lovers. more … [Read more...]

A Couple Gay Christian Whatnot Links

Protestants! CAN YOU FEEL THE ECUMENISM.First, my friend Matt Jones looks at how his shifting understanding of vocation has changed both his emotional and spiritual life--very powerful: Two years ago, as I was just beginning to think more critically about my faith and sexuality, I attended a wedding. It has been interesting to revisit the memorialized emotions that accompanied the ceremony, to examine the well-worn paths down which my uncertain thoughts routinely fled when confronted by … [Read more...]

Supporting Friends & Family Who Have Cancer: Jim Henley

A lot of these "what not to say/do" lists strike me as... less "actual advice you might use" and more "venting about how nothing anyone says or does will actually fix the problem, everything anyone tries to say can be in its own way painful and humiliating" (which is totally true and important) but this one is not like that. Warning: Long.I have cancer right now! Here are a few dos and don'ts based on my personal experience. I am sure you'll find my preferences are not universal, but they … [Read more...]

Musical Rosary #9: Carrying the Cross

As they were going out, they met a Cyrenian named Simon; this man they pressed into service to carry his cross Today's entry will be brief, since I've written before about the embarrassment and even shame we feel at asking others to help us bear our cross. We think of friendship as a form of sharing in one another's joy, but resist sharing our suffering and struggles, because we don't want to be burdens. But at some point every true friend acts as Simon of Cyrene.Sometimes it's helpful to … [Read more...]

A Musical Rosary–The Visitation

During those days Mary set out and traveled to the hill country in haste to a town of Judah, where she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and said, “Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? For at the moment the sound of your gre … [Read more...]

My Best Fiend: “Let the Right One In”

It's only May and I've already watched three very different vampire movies. 2008 Swedish chiller Let the Right One In is the one which most thoroughly explores vampire imagery and lore; it's just as good as you've heard, achingly sad and genuinely awful and scary.A few notes which I hope won't constitute spoilers. But really, if you think you might like this movie and you haven't already seen it, what's keeping you? (In my case the answer was, "A Netflix queue which circles the earth like … [Read more...]

In Which I’m Inspired by Direct Mail. Really.

I just finished The New Evangelization: 2003 - 2013 Missionary Letters, which is basically a collection of fundraising letters from A Simple House, an intentional Catholic community which practices "friendship evangelization" among the poor in DC and Kansas City, MO. It's a genuinely moving book with solid reflections on the theory and practice of charity. There are good explanations of why the authors focus on friendship as vs. efficient meeting of material needs, and there are countless … [Read more...]


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