“Prison and the Poverty Trap”: John Tierney

in the NYT: …The shift to tougher penal policies three decades ago was originally credited with helping people in poor neighborhoods by reducing crime. But now that America’s incarceration rate has risen to be the world’s highest, many social scientists find the social benefits to be far outweighed by the costs to those communities. “Prison [...]

“Of Woe That Is in Marriage”

was my original and IMO more accurate title for this article, on the dearth of good books about painful marriages.

“The Arts & Faith Top 25 Marriage Films”

for Valentine’s Day. My review of The Face of Another btw.

“The End of Premarital Sex”

The next installment in my marriage-and-family books series for Acculturated.

From “Some Prefer Nettles”

Kaname had seen the Bunraku puppets once ten years before. He had not been impressed–he could in fact remember only that he had been intensely bored. Today he had come solely out of a sense of duty, expecting to be bored again, and he was somewhat astonished that he should almost against his will be [...]

“Sex in the Meritocracy”: Helen Rittelmeyer

w/a really good piece: I rather think Yale is plagued by an excess of moral purpose—that purpose being the pursuit of perfection, however perversely defined. Its students are not relativists; they are not even radicals. They are ordinary modern liberals, with all the earnestness and all the moral blind spots the term implies. Concepts like [...]

From Junichiro Tanizaki, “Some Prefer Nettles”

tr. Edward G. Seidensticker: Clearly he would one day have to tell Hiroshi everything, to appeal to his reason. Kaname did not doubt that the boy would understand, and to deceive him seemed as reprehensible as to deceive a grownup. Neither he himself nor Misako was wrong, Kaname would say; what was wrong was outdated [...]

I review “Amour”

at AmCon. Spoilers.

“Engagement Inflation”

A fairly feathery piece from me at AmCon. And yes, I already know that I should have said “fondant” instead of “frosting”!

But it’s self-absorbed when Elizabeth Wurtzel says it!

I included this as a link in my previous Wurtzel post but I think it’s worth reprinting an old blog post. I liked Andrew Cherlin’s book quite a bit, but he did this several times: As other lifestyles become more acceptable, you must choose whether to get married and whether to have children. You develop [...]