“A World of Good Intentions”

My new piece at Acculturated, continuing the marriage & family series with a look at What It Means to Be Daddy: Fatherhood for Black Men Living Away from Their Children and Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce. This is a piece where I really felt the word-count constraints. You guys should [...]

Advent post: Perfume and Earrings

Advent time is here, by golly! And Advent is, among other lovely things, a time for penance and almsgiving. I’ve been thinking about things I’ve done well and poorly in the past w/r/t almsgiving and charity, in particular, and I’m going to blog about some of those things this week. We’ll see how long this [...]

“Reference of Frame”

I review an art exhibit, at AmCon–and this exhibit closes at the end of December, so go soon! In the past several years photographers Claire Felicie and Lalage Snow have independently published pictures of soldiers taken before, during, and after their service in Afghanistan. It’s easy to project one’s own beliefs about the war, and [...]

“Last Minute Banquet”

delicious, delicious parables: If the stuff that is in the Bible isn’t true, if it doesn’t work today and if Jesus didn’t really mean what he said – I’m not interested in any of it. Thanks, but you can keep your rituals and your moral teaching. However, I believe what’s in the Bible is true, [...]

A Vindication of the Rights of Clip-Joint Girls

Recently watched “Marked Woman,” an early Bette Davis/Humphrey Bogart flick in which Davis is a nightclub hostess who tries to go up against the toughest gangster in town after he kills her sister. Bogart is the crusading, by which I mean lecturing, DA. It’s actually a startlingly powerful film, largely because it takes everything about [...]

“Last Comes Marriage”

I start a series for Acculturated, by reviewing Promises I Can Keep: Why Poor Women Put Motherhood Before Marriage. There’s much more in the book than I had a chance to cover in this piece, but I hope it will inspire more people to read it. Also, this piece obviously picks up some of the [...]

“Occupiers Battle Hurricane, Debt”

via Jesse Walker.

More on the “marshmallow test”

from Maia Szalavitz: …So, what determines which children will fall among the lucky 25% who can successfully resist the marshmallow? Is it an inherited genetic advantage that produces greater impulse control? Is delaying gratification a learned behavior? Or could children be making conscious choices about this specific task based on similar prior experiences — involving [...]

“Criminal Justice, Civil Liberties Issues Missing from 2012 Campaign”

Radley Balko with a must-read roundup post. Balko is such a hero.

Let’s play You Should Be Grateful

When Wilde extended a hand, he made no move to take it. “Prayer is the only thing that can console you in this place, prisoner. I trust you understand that. Prayer and a true spirit of repentance.” –Robert Reilly, The God of Mirrors (of which more later) There’s a way of saying true things so [...]