“Actively Cultivating a Celibate Vocation”: A Queer Calling

with some excellent points: …Get to know people who live a celibate vocation Finding active models of a celibate life worth living is hard. I spent time hanging out at monasteries and reading memoirs of people who remained single throughout their entire life. One of the most helpful books for me is My Song is [Read More...]

Can the Church Imagine a Future for Gay Christians?: Matthew Franklin Jones

writes: …For most of my college career I was haunted by a singular image that I thought would define the entirety of my existence: When I closed my eyes I saw, I felt, myself closing the door to a cold and dark apartment, entirely empty, devoid of anyone who would witness my life and show [Read More...]

Rowan Williams on CS Lewis

via Wesley Hill–it’s Anglicans all the way down on this fine Guy Fawkes Day: Lewis is a brilliant storyteller; he’s not one of the world’s great novelists. But even so, what he does, he does wonderfully. He is always very good at depicting something about joy. If you look at an extraordinary episode in The [Read More...]

Evelyn Waugh’s Celebrity Ascesis

What on earth is going on in this “interview“? It is 20% actual interview, 50% psychoanalysis, and 30% inquisition. Never before have I thought, Evelyn Waugh is so patient! Fascinating, in a kind of sick way. [Read more...]

“Thanks for Sharing”: Let Your Inhibitions Run Wild

Helen Rittelmeyer is obviously right that we’re in a cultural moment where addiction and recovery provide almost the only common language we have for exploring subjects like grace, penitence, and hope. Thanks for Sharing, the sex-addiction romcom starring Gwyneth Paltrow and Mark “Ruffalo Ruffalo ruffalo ruffalo ruffalo Ruffalo ruffalo” Ruffalo (…sorry), is yet another example [Read More...]

“Demons in Exile”: Marc Maron on Addiction

Lots of stuff I liked here. I don’t buy sentences of the form, “Addicts/alcoholics are all [negative generalization]” (because I’m defensive of other people, not because I think those generalizations are especially untrue about me personally) but other than that, good for him. Not sure if I still need to notify you all when there’s [Read More...]

In Defense of Living With Your Parents

me at the Weekly Standard: A few years ago I was getting a ride home from a party with a guy in his early twenties. I lived in a gentrified neighborhood I could no longer pretend to afford, and he lived, it emerged, with his parents. “Good for you,” I said. “I think that’s great.” [Read More...]

Meal Scheduling When Friends Are in Need

Because these days traditions may need a little high-tech help. Take Them a Meal seems like a good idea. [Read more...]

“Pope Warns Comfortable Living Causes ‘Gentrification of the Heart’: CNS

reports: Pope Francis warned against “gentrification of the heart” as a consequence of comfortable living, and called on the faithful to “touch the flesh of Christ” by caring for the needy. The pope’s words came in a homily during Mass in St. Peter’s Square May 12, when he canonized the first Colombian saint, as well [Read More...]

“Other”: Gay Subtlety

blogs: …The reason I’m even commenting on these brief flashes of “unawareness” or whatever-it-is, of not being consumed with feelings of “otherness,” is because this is the last place I expected to experience something like this. I flew down to Central America alone, re-entered “la bodega”, and have daily come up against rampant and incessant [Read More...]