“Church of Gay Abandon”: I’m Interviewed by the Sydney Catholic Weekly

Some headline writer was having a long day there. Anyway I thought this turned out well: ...What do you like about being Catholic?The central thing for me is the Eucharist, including Eucharistic adoration and processions like Corpus Christi. Also the saints and artists: St Francis, St Aelred, Dorothy Day, Oscar Wilde, Michelangelo, Caravaggio, El Greco, Dali.I like the fact that there's a saint for everything, St Lydwina the patroness of figure skating etc, and the gallows humour of the … [Read more...]

Listen to an Interview with Wesley Hill and Me

With Beyond Words Radio. We delve into our conversion/deepening of faith stories, reparative therapy, and what gay Christians can offer our churches. I'm consistently unable to remember that most people aren't gay. I do these shows and I act as if the majority of listeners are themselves gay. That's a useful approach--speaking as if the margins are the center and just letting the actual majority see the world through that lens--but it does mean I often speak to a fantasy audience I imagine … [Read more...]

Who Counts as Family? A Rich Connecticut Neighborhood* Tests the Boundaries

via Ratty, and super-relevant to conversations here about friendship as kinship: A neighborhood kerfuffle on one of the city's wealthiest residential streets has triggered a cease-and-desist order, fervent appeals and debate over what constitutes a family.The controversy centers on 68 Scarborough St., a nine-bedroom brick mansion shared by eight adults and three children — an arrangement among longtime friends who share monthly expenses, chores and legal ownership of the stately home, said J … [Read more...]

“The Universal Call to Christian Love”: Fare Forward on My Book

you could discuss it in your town too! On November 18th a group of young adults gathered in DC to talk about Eve Tushnet’s book, Gay and Catholic at a discussion hosted by Fare Forward. The focus wasn’t on the morality of queer sexual relationships, but on the opportunities our churches and communities offer parishioners (gay and straight) to offer deep, sacrificial love outside the “default” paths of marriage and monasteries/ordination. The discussion explored alternative ways to offer love and … [Read more...]

All of My Book “DVD Extras” in One Place

The menu screen, if we're going to extend this already-kinda-dumb dvd analogy. I've starred the ones which were popular or which I personally thought turned out especially well. Enjoy! (And buy my book!)* The "Gay and Catholic" Drinking Game. Possibly my favorite of these posts.*The Anima Christi*Celibacy in partnershipHow are gay, celibate Christians going to change the culture?When the going gets weird, the weird get spiritual direction.*Is "vocational discernment" just … [Read more...]

Vocation as the Next Right Thing: “Gay and Catholic” Tiny Book Extra

Okay, as I wrap up this series of "dvd extras" for my book, let me maybe relieve some pressure.A Queer Calling today has a thoughtful post about talking to teens about celibate vocations. I've tried throughout this series to flag some of the problems with the way we--I--often talk about "discerning a vocation." We can make it sound like vocation is navel-gazing; or like it's a self-directed quest where you pick which of the million possible paths ahead of you looks best, rather than sticking … [Read more...]

Leah Libresco Interviews Me on Vocations to Love

You'll have to put up with some technical glitches. Pretend that we're a slightly scratched record from that used-books-and-music shop you visit in your dreams.Libresco's post; also wow, my facial expressions are ridiculous. I look like I'm made of Silly Putty. … [Read more...]


CLOSE | X

HIDE | X