Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell is Unjust

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“Matthew is gay and it makes me feel uncomfortable” – One of Matthew Sheperd’s detractors

Don’t ask don’t tell is willful ignorance to not know the person next to us. The flimsy principal behind the “don’t ask don’t tell” is the abstract principal of abjection. The direct irony of such a principal hides in the rhetorical intention, whereby someone doesn’t want to know whether someone else is gay, because if they did know, there would be a space for judgement and persecution. The problem with this idea is that in the middle of their desire to try and promote inclusion they endorse the spirit of false inclusion.

It is in our discomfort that the exclusion of the other arrives.

Homosexuality gets treated as the inherent ‘dirty little secret’ that should be kept secret. It’s in the belief of the heterosexual soldiers who share that if they don’t know the sexual orientation they can remain true friends in their staged relationships. The fatal flaw in this way of thinking is two-fold: (1) The truth of their relationships with their fellow soldiers are masked in their desire of ignorance and therefore only have relationships based on a forced discomfort (2) Most fears are found in superstitition. We as people need to make sense of our fears, which are naturally unknown entities.

Homophobia is one such fear.

Much like when we were children and were told about the monsters in our closet, (although they didn’t really exist)), because someone in a position of authority said they should, we easily believed the lie. Homophobia is the monster in the closet to which it should never have resided. There should be no closet where the fabled monster lives.

I think we have to come to a place where we meet truth without our superstitions.

The philosophy of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ enforces a duplicitous engagement with our existentialism. It promotes a life where we are compelled to live in a non-existent reality and accept it as real, valuable and truthful and to deny the reality that is real, truthful and beautiful. The scandal of such a philosophy, is that it is completely unjust which is masks itself as justice. Ignorance isn’t justice.

Ignorance is distance.

Ignorance is violent abjection that seems to keep the peace but in reality endorses more violence than it seems to curb. It is in the abstraction of such a concept that we notice it denies the concrete ideology of Christ’s invitation to love our neighbour as ourselves (Matthew 22:37-39).

It seems Christ has an idea of what love looks like.

It has flesh, in this regard it is counter-cultural to the abstract idea that is perpetuated in the philosophy of don’t ask, don’t tell. To Christ, love is concrete rather than abstract. Also, I think its important to remember that Christ spoke Aramaic more than he probably spoke Greek. When Christ invites us to love our neighbour it is a term of vulnerability and radical openness. The word in Hebrew is ahab. It is very close to the Greek rendering of this word which tends to be agape. Embedded within the spirit of each definition is the idea of self-sacrifice.

A self-subverting revolution hidden in this one word.

A dying to ourselves. To our ideas. To our pride. To our ignorance. To love. To openly accept and embrace the person next to us. In Hebrew, the idea behind the word neighbour finds its redemption in how we treat the other. It isn’t the person across the fence or someone who borrow sugar, its a brother or sister who might have a need you could meet. This was a new kind of radical hospitality that informed how we relate to one another. In this moment of love, of ahab, the person who borrows a cup of sugar now becomes the brother or sister who helps inform our existence. The person who has a direct affect on how see the world and those others around us.

One of the best things that the American government can do is to participate in this rule of love by repealing the law that would create the very division that Jesus so vehemently spoke against. To truly ahab one another means we are willing to break down the very fences we so readily make to save us from changing our own worldviews. If the government does nothing, than they agree that to be human is to be contained, constrained and imprisoned by a mass majority who is uncomfortable with what it means to be human and wants to allow the discomfort of ignorance to lead us into an era we were never meant to be in.

My time in the US Navy involves the awareness of the unnecessary tension between the gay community. I remember hearing stories of the homosexual persecution by the heterosexual community and how it seemed so acceptable and unquestioned as a normal behaviour. How is ostracizing another human ‘normal’? How can defining what equality is be considered equal? In the midst of such a violent silence there is a spirit of denigration that overshadows this ignorant uknowing.

When we choose to not know our neighbour, we are choosing to devalue them and to agree with the lie that we are more valuable then they are because they don’t fit a certain definition. This should not be so.

If we as Christ’s follower are to help make this world a better place, I pray we can intentionally participate in this new kind of reality where there are no gays or heterosexuals, but the human family that exists as one because that is how we were created to be. If we deny this truth, than we deny the very fabric of our being. If we embrace this, than we accept that the world has the ability to be what it always could be.

Ungrounding Ourselves into the Christ-Ethic

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For Lacan, public law such as “No Photos” or “Do not go on the grass” implicitly attracts the subject of that law to commit the very thing it prohibits (exactly in the way that if we tell the child not to eat the freshly baked cakes, we are simultaneously pointing out the method with which the child can ignore our demands). The point at which the attempts of prohibition by public law fail, like here, is precisely where superego emerges. And for Lacan, as it is for Žižek, the superego is not the moral conscience (as it would be for Freud) but rather the stigmatisation of our ethical betrayal, or in other words the invitation to transgress the law whether we like it or not, what is known as the superego injunction to enjoy! This adds something rather provocative to the pushing of boundaries.

Galatians 3:28: There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. – Paul of Tarsus

We tend to think ideas or truths are born out of tradition or something that has been established. In the narrratives where boats are involved in the New Testament, it does seem the idea that is being perpetuated is one where truths organically arrive out of what is ungrounded. Or said another way, out of the absurd comes the matieralistic. We use terminology like ‘we’ve been doing this for centuries’ or ‘we do this because others have done this’, and although they sound very poetic, these phrases induce a ritualistically bound coma where we live as zombies on the outside and ideologically are dying on the inside. Out of the darkness comes light. We must enter the darkness to experience the light. There is a 2nd century Rabbinic view that darkness is a good thing. That when God created the heavens and the earth and formed light, that the light isn’t what brought distinction, but it was the darkness that gives the light its purpose.

We must enter the darkness to experience the light.

The boat is an ungrounded object. The waves beneath it are not concrete, far from it. Peter was invited to step out of a boat, in that moment he walked out of something that itself was ungrounded into something itself that is inherently ungrounded (the waves). He found that he was able to believe in the midst of his ungrounding. He had to move away from the very thing he was sure of to find that Christ was present in the middle of his ungrounding. It when we move away from the solid things we have traditionally either been taught to or come to believe that we find that we truly have faith in ourselves and in the Christ ethic. It is in the pushing away of those things do we truly find ourselves.

I think Paul, the early church author, asks us to do the same in terms of understanding and relating to each other. That we can enter into a perpetual ungroundedness. Paul begins this ungroundedness in discussion of something that we tend to as westerners assume is the object of our groundedness. Paul refers to it as the Law.

In the verse above, Paul speaks of equality as if it supercedes the Law. We come to a place where we realize within the Law that the Apostle Paul speaks of is a perversion of transgression. That in the law there is an inherent expectation of breaking it. A good example is when we are casually walking across a patch of green grass and notice the sign that prohibits us from being present in the area. The ‘do not walk on the grass’ is a perversion in that it expects us to follow it yet realizing that the opposite itself is also true. That we might not follow it. It prohibits desire and defines desire as something to be transgressed. This is what I think was going in in the theology of St. Augustine who is repeatedly pointed to as the main ideological influencer of ‘Original Sin’; the idea that all of humanity is born with a permanent scar. St. Augustine seemed to call this permanent scar desire in era where the politicized Church got to define what was desirable and what wasn’t.

The Law represents that thing that is outside of us, for all-intense purposes it is the Objective. Paul redefines the Jewish law and opens it up to include the Greeks, the (majority) population of the known world. Paul introduces the idea of plurality and universalism by treating the law as something that is to be challenged. Which is in itself a challenge, because Paul himself was a Jew. Paul was re-envisioning the landscape of what it meant to be a Christian. By spending a lot of time on the Law, Paul was essentially distancing himself from what the Law represented. Its much like the person who overstates their case or exaggerates their position for the sake of direct irony.

The negation of something is found not in the public negation of it, but in the public acceptance of it. In fact, Paul’s re-envisioning of the Law from the ethnic to the personal took something objective and made it subjective. He seems to publicly accept the Law by speaking it, but he then changes the Laws focus on to the Christ ethic, the way we treat each other – Love.

Love is the

    new

Law.

The Christ-Ethic is the new way we see each other.

He took something initially meant for the small and made it big. He replace the Law with an Ethic. But this ethic is experience subjectively rather than objectively. If anything, in this regard was more a subjectivist act than not. (The danger is to hear this and assume that that is a bad thing). I see the letter of Paul not necessarily as a collection of modern-day handbooks with which to measure ourselves against, but rather as letters between himself and his communities. Almost like two-way journals into their ‘personal’ journeys toward understanding God.

In fact, in Pauls’ statement there is an anticipation toward a neutered identity. That there is a reality where all of our identities are suspended in the Christ ethic. That when we treat one another as Christ teaches us, there is something that occurs within the human condition – we stop seeing each other as labels. When we love there is no Methodist, no Baptist, no Mormon, no Buddhist, no Muslim and no Christian – because in this instance there is only what Christ represents.

It doesn’t mean we lose our distinctiveness, it means we lose the spirit of competitive aggression.

It means we die to ourselves.

Paul believes this reality can exist. I think it partially lies in what he says after the ethnic designation, that there is neither bound nor free. In our society there is a ritualistic addiction in having and not having. The have’s tend to compare themselves to the have not’s. Those who are ‘bound’ to the things they have seek justification in their violent comparison against those who lack. Paul says in this new landscape of hopeful equality, there are no have’s and have not’s.

That we all exist as equals.

That one religion isn’t better than another, nor is one house better than another, or one bank account is bigger than another, nor is one country better than another, that all exist as equals in this cosmic Christ. Paul is perverting the Law to the point that is beyond something that we could ever be bound to, in fact, in his talk of the law he continously turns the conversation back on to Christ. Essentially, make Christ the ‘new law’ or the new objective. And in Christ we are all one. We are all beyond the law, we are neutered yet defined in this Christ ethic, in the way we treat one another. When we treat one another in this new Christ Way we are perpetuating the dream of God.

Burning our Scarecrows: Re-redefining History

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Neo is a prefix signaling a “new” form or a revival of an old one.

Scarecrows are supposed to represent the real thing. They are meant to stand immovably in each of the fields they’ve been placed and protect it from unwanted invaders. They are a fantasy of what is meant to be. They are a perversion of the real world. It has everything but the heart it requires to sustain life.

There has been a hip new influx of re-ideology. Or neo-ideologies. So for example, there used to be fascism, but now there is neo-fascism. Or how there used to be evangelical, now there is a neo-evangelical movement in some churches. Along with the neo-evangelical, there is also a neo-monastic movement that has followed closely after. We could go on, but I hope this gives you a preview of this neo-movement of old philosophies. Its much like the straw men, they look like what they represent, but they depend on what is behind them to be informed.

This isn’t simply dissecting Christian neo-ideologies, this is challenging the concept of ‘neo-ing’ anything. If we are a society that embraces change than we should be willing to allow space for the new changes to lead us rather than us attempting to slow its progress. This isn’t to say that these changes won’t take time, but there is tendency out of either fear or the addictive need to control what we don’t know, to inform the progress of change. The problem with this approach is that it isn’t change if we’re in control of it.

We sometimes look at change as this gradual thrust towards something or somewhere. But, what if change was discovered rather than controlled? Rather than constantly trying to control the direction (and yes, there are times when we need to do so) we allow change to lead us?

This is an immanent kind of change that we get to work with but not necessarily manipulate. With these neo-ideologies there is a dependancy upon what is before us rather than what is ahead of us to tell us how we should move forward. This also gives us the power to creatively/forcefully direct its paths because we manipulate what is behind us to a certain extent.

The issue with that is we will only move forward as far as the history of that subject will allow. We are then bound by history rather than informed by the future. This is why we must be careful when introducing things like neo-ideologies, because it is incredibly dependant, almost like the alcoholic is to his beer bottle.

If we continue onto the path of neo-ideologies we will have nothing more than strawmen filling the history books we left behind. I understand this approach is scary especially if we see history as something we are under, part of, or dependant upon. Or history as the Big Other. But, what if history wasn’t any of those things?

We need a new form of history. A new way to see it, address it and live it.

What if history is now? This moment. What if like the ancient eastern religions thought, time was an event, it was when things happened that time was here. What if its an ethic, something we perpetuate out of ourselves into life? If time is an event rather than something that has always been happening, than progress is the event we have been waiting for.

Think of Christ on the Road to Emmaus. Christ who was completely recognizable is now completely unrecognizable. Christ is displaced from Christ. Essentially, the Christ before the Cross no longer exists because this New Christ has been resurrected. Or as one of the early church authors once wrote, ‘the old has gone, the
new has come’.

There is a process of estrangement from our history that needs to occur. Neo-Ideology tries to hold on to a bit of the past and attempts to stretch into the future but can only reach till now because of its direct connection to the past. As long as there is a dependancy upon our past, we will only be able to progress into the now.

How does this help us practically?

I think it speaks into the heart of fear we have become victims to for centuries. It empowers us to paint with a whole new brush with literally endless possibilities. It is a post-structural approach to living life and encountering the Divine. It is a complete 180 degree turn from everything we once knew, so it will challenge us, it will change us. So, I think what it will do, is actually put feet to the idealistic notion when we say ‘I like change’. If we completely change our minds, than we can truly be changed. Like Christ was on the road to Emmaus.