Feel Insecure in Relationships? Healing the Roots of the Problem.

Last week we had a vigorous discussion (here and here, in particular) about the pseudo-scientific claims of the "cry-it-out" method of sleep training.  Specifically, I challenged the junk science that claims that letting a baby cry-it-out works  because it teaches a baby to "self-soothe."  We discussed the absolute absence of any evidence whatsoever from developmental psychology and neurology that an infant or toddler has any ability--or even potential ability--to self-soothe (a skill requiri … [Read more...]