Georgetown University hides Catholic truth in the closet during “Coming Out Week”

What I saw today at Georgetown University:

The above video shows two large signs hanging above Georgetown’s Red Square: one advertising “The Spirit of Georgetown” and the other advertising the Georgetown University Office of Student Affairs’ LGBTQ Resource Center‘s “Coming Out Week.”

You can get a better look at the “Spirit of Georgetown” sign on the university’s “Mission and Ministry” page, while a larger version of the “Coming Out Week” poster is on the Facebook page of one of the Georgetown LGBTQ Resource Center’s faculty advisers.

What strikes me about the juxtaposition of the two posters is that each one includes “The Great Seal of Georgetown University.” It’s been said (and there is some data, albeit disputed, to back it up) that Catholic students who attend an inauthentic Catholic college—that is, one that does not uphold Catholic faith and social teaching across the board— are more likely to lose their faith than those who attend a secular college. I can see how that claim might be true.

Imagine a Georgetown University student who was raised by Catholic parents to believe, as the Catechism says, that “homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered” and “contrary to the natural law”; they “close the sexual act to the gift of life” and “do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity”; and “[under] no circumstances can they be approved” (CCC 2357). Then imagine that same student seeing his “Catholic university” place its Great Seal on “Coming Out Week” and an entire month of “OUTober” events such this:

Coming Out in Red Square
Five years ago, the Out for Change campaign worked hard to make Georgetown a more inclusive place. Today, coming out on campus still presents unique challenges. Show your pride this year by Coming Out through our closet door as a proud LGBTQ or Ally, and participating in the midday ‘Kiss-In’. Be sure to wear your ‘I Am’ t-shirt throughout the day to promote visibility and awareness about LGBTQ life on campus!
Time: 12:15pm
Location: Red Square
Audience: All

Do you think that such a student, away from home and seeing his “Catholic” school actively promote the homosexual lifestyle, would still believe that his parents had given him the truth about what the Church teaches on same-sex attraction? Or would he think that the Church had “moved with the times”?

Having given a talk to the Georgetown chapter of the Love and Fidelity Network, I realize it is indeed possible for students to emerge from the university with an orthodox understanding of Catholic teaching on human love and sexuality. But I also know that they have to fight the university’s prevailing culture in order to gain that understanding. Witness this description by Georgetown Love and Fidelity Network alumnus Justin Hawkins of the university-sponsored “Last Chance Dance”:

Having completed four years of rigorous study, the senior class is presented with a week of activities as the pinnacle and culmination of their undergraduate years. The Last Chance Dance is designed as a venue to air hitherto unexpressed romantic affection toward another student or students, and the intention of it is something far less than Platonic. Placed as it is, strategically after a university-sponsored keg party and only a few days before graduation, the Last Chance Dance is designed as the ideal opportunity for casual “hookup” sex between ebullient and inebriated couples who, either for want of ambition or because of the pesky influence of sexual morality, have thus far been prevented from enjoying their allotted and expected bacchanalia. And should social awkwardness ensue after the event, no matter. Graduation and departure are only a few days away.

The website of Georgetown’s LGBTQ Resource Center features a section titled “Our Jesuit Values” in which Rev. Kevin O’Brien, S.J., executive director of Georgetown Campus Ministry argues that supporting the center falls under “the Jesuit tradition of cura personalis.”

Really? I have searched the writings of St. Ignatius Loyola, founder of the Society of Jesus, and have not found anything to indicate that the Jesuit tradition of cura personalis refers to encouraging people to practice intrinsically disordered behavior. What I have found is that Ignatius deeply regretted the sins of his youth, and strove to instill moral virtue in those who were under his spiritual care. He wrote to the Jesuit scholastics at Alcantara in 1543:

We should be careful to preserve great purity of heart in the love of God, loving nothing but Him, and desiring to converse with Him alone, and with the neighbor for love of Him and not for our own pleasure and delight.

The Church teaches compassion for people who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies. “This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial,” says the Catechism, adding that “[they] must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition” (CCC 2358).

What is more, as has been noted by Daniel Mattson—a Catholic who lives with a homosexual inclination and is committed to chastity—the Church does not define people by their sexual attraction. Mattson, in his excellent essay “Why I Don’t Call Myself a Gay Christian,” points to the “Pastoral Letter on the Care of the Homosexual Person,” written by Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger (now Pope Benedict XVI) when he was head of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. In it, Ratzinger has something to say about cura personalis (emphasis mine):

The human person, made in the image and likeness of God, can hardly be adequately described by a reductionist reference to his or her sexual orientation. Every one living on the face of the earth has personal problems and difficulties, but challenges to growth, strengths, talents and gifts as well. Today, the Church provides a badly needed context for the care of the human person when she refuses to consider the person as a “heterosexual” or a “homosexual” and insists that every person has a fundamental Identity: the creature of God, and by grace, his child and heir to eternal life.

If Georgetown were truly practicing cura personalis in the spirit of St. Ignatius Loyola—who insisted the members of his Society think with the Church—it would not encourage  those with homosexual tendencies to broadcast their disordered inclinations. Rather, it would give them the support they need in order to live chastely. But the radiant white light of chastity is exactly what is missing from Georgetown’s “Coming Out” rainbow.

  • Joshua Gonnerman

    Coming out is most fundamentally, not about sexual activity, but about a person owning their orientation. Is it, in fact, necessary for every Catholic to be so absolutely opposed to everything about gay people that they must oppose, not just immoral activity, but even a basic owning of one’s orientation? I believe it is not.

    • C. Gopher

      Exactly: we can’t condemn groups just for supporting people who are gay. Support does not equal “encouraging homosexual activity”.

    • http://letterstochristopher.wordpress.com Daniel Mattson

      Joshua Gonnerman says: “Coming out is most fundamentally, not about sexual activity, but about a person owning their orientation. Is it, in fact, necessary for every Catholic to be so absolutely opposed to everything about gay people that they must oppose, not just immoral activity, but even a basic owning of one’s orientation? I believe it is not.”

      What orientation does anyone have other than to the opposite sex? Though Gonnerman and I may feel subjectively oriented towards the same sex, we are not, objectively speaking, oriented that way, a topic which we have debated at great length, both in On The Square and countless times in the fora of The Gay Christian Network. He embraces a gay identity–I do not. Both of us are committed to chastity, and committed to the sexual morality of the Catholic Church, but on this most fundamental of issues, we have very disparate views.

      There is nothing in the anthropology of the Church that supports this notion of “owning one’s orientation” or “coming out” in acknowledgment of an orientation to the same sex. It is taken as a given that all men and women are oriented towards their sexual complement–even if they subjectively feel oriented towards the same sex. Obviously, when we feel subjectively oriented towards the same sex, something is greatly amiss in our persons, which is why the Catechism states that this “inclination is objectively disordered.”

      As the Church teaches, we are both body and soul, and within the body, as Blessed John Paul II speaks so eloquently, truths about who we are in relation to both others and to God are revealed to us through our bodily form. There is no one who is physiologically oriented towards the same sex. Though I may become aroused solely by the same sex, the sexual arousal within my body is oriented towards one purpose: union with the opposite sex. This is my true orientation. Insofar as my arousal is caused by another man, I am revealing the disorientation of my sexual and romantic affections. What the Church calls us to do is not to own our supposed same sex orientation, but rather to acknowledge that what we live with is in fact a sexual disorientation. It is only then that we will find freedom, and it is only within this context that the Church’s teaching on homosexuality makes any sense whatsoever. To “come out” as oriented towards the same sex is to be at cross purposes with ourselves and to choose a false and subjectively chosen singular “lived experience” in opposition to the universal truth of what it means to be created male and female. The current bizarre sexual alphabet soup that people subjectively choose to own for themselves (and which seems to be expanding all the time) has nothing to do with the teachings of the Church or of God. There are two letters that matter: M and F, and owning anything other than the sexuality of our complementary maleness or femaleness is embracing a lie about the human person.

      • bernie thomas

        Dan, You are so on target. Why should any of us identify with our seemingly intractable “disorientations”? Those who are seemingly congenitally irritable or lazy or moody don’t label themselves such. Certainly in some fora it is helpful to announce what particular temptations one struggles with, but it is strange to identify with those temptations as opposed to identifying with the struggles undergone by others who experience the same temptations. You are a very welcome voice of balance. Thanks for engaging in these discussions.

  • Thomas R

    I’m thinking maybe they mean something more than just saying you have an orientation, or disorder if one prefers, but I admit this article is at times unclear. Is Georgetown encouraging the kind of “coming out” where you join Courage or just practice chastity on your own? Or something more like rejection of the teaching? What I know of Georgetown I think it’s understandable to kind of assume it’s the second.

    And from what I’ve talked to people, not in the online world, the idea of being open about one’s orientation and chaste is still a tad confusing for people. The Catholics I know feel if you’re chaste you should never mention your attractions ever. I don’t mention my same-sex attractions to the Catholic I know in life, although I have both attractions, because I think it would do more harm than good for the foreseeable future. Although I have to admit this has, now that I’m in my thirties and overweight, become not that much of a trial anymore. On the other side gays, online, have generally told me how “lonely” I must be and when I say I’m not they just kind of get annoyed or assume I’m lying. So anyway to most people I think “coming out” would still mean “as sexually active with homosexuality” for most folk.

    • Dawn Eden

      Thomas R, check out the links I provided to Georgetown’s LGBTQ Resource Center. If they are promoting chastity or Courage, they hide it well. Their OUTober events (linked in my post) include a talk by a Human Rights Campaign staff member. Look up what the HRC has to say about the Catholic Church’s teachings on sexuality. It’s not favorable.

      • Thomas R

        I was thinking that was what was meant. The above poster made me wonder enough to kind of do the “it depends on what they mean.”

        Sadly I do think “coming out” usually does not mean as a chaste SSA or Gay person. (Some chaste do choose to identify as Gay/Lesbian rather than SSA, I think Eve Tushnet does, for reasons of solidarity or comprehensibility as Same-sex-attracted is longer to say/specific)

  • Angela Sealana

    Dawn, right on. Thank you for taking the time to gather these thoughts.

  • Lay Catholic Fan Of St. Ignatius

    Dawn
    Your post is heroic! You have captured the essence of the issues and formulated them in a manner to easily to understand. The deeper issue is the war that is waging within the Society of Jesus itself. The war between strait and gay Jesuits. The gay Jesuits have balkanized themselves in power circles, think Universities and America Magazine. The strait Jesuits are are relegated to obscure outposts and the High Schools. Internationally know Jesuit priests like Pacwa and Fessio are not apart of traditional Jesuit missions and are typically shunned by the gaybalkan’s.

  • http://www.mamageekminis.com Joy

    Hey, Dawn, can I make a request? Can you please include the full text of your posts in your RSS feed, so that I can read them in my Reader, and not have to click from there on every post of yours I want to read in full, and thus have to read it on your site? Thank you!

    • Dawn Eden

      Joy, thanks for the request. I’m not sure how to fix that, as I think it’s a Patheos issue. Will forward your request to the tech person there.

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  • Ted Seeber

    I gave up on Georgetown with Sandra Fluke. Nothing they do can shock me anymore. They aren’t even Catholic In Name Only- they’ve abandoned the Church.

  • http://www.patrickcoffin.net Patrick Coffin

    As Dawn Eden has described in disturbing detail, Georgetown University — as with many “institutions in the Jesuit tradition” — sits toward one end of a spectrum of attitudes toward homosexuality. Commenter Daniel Mattson articulates a vision of chastity and sanity that avoids the extremes of that spectrum (God Hates Fags vs God Hates Chastity), which is one reason why he will be appearing on “Catholic Answers Live” radio show on November 2, 3-4 PM PST, 6-7 EST on Living With Same Sex Attraction. Check local listings or listen live at catholic.com/radio. If you want a charitably expressed corrective to many sincere but mistaken notions of what a truly Catholic anthropology of same-sex attraction looks like, or to hear a good story well told, Dan Mattson will take your calls then at (888) 318-7884, toll-free.