Being a bit more like Thumper…

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A week or so ago my Rabbi sent a newsletter about "being like Thumper".You know,"If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."I've been thinking a bit about it lately, especially in light of my [forever ongoing] legal drama. I've been thinking about the posts I've written. I've been honest, but I haven't always been kind. Is it really harmful to say the truth? I mean, is it so bad? Surely telling the truth, even if unkind, isn't a bad thing? Isn't honesty a … [Read more...]

Honoring a Bad Mom on Mother’s Day

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Today is Mother's Day.That means that everywhere both online and off, it's about moms. This weekend's Facebook feed has been filled with pictures of my friends with their moms, both past and present. Statuses saying how awesome their maternal parent was and how thankful they were for their moms. The commercials on the radio blast how it's "not too late" to get mom that gift she deserves. (Because capitalism never rests!)I am happy for my friends that they all have such a great … [Read more...]

Dear Indiana

I live in Indiana. I've spent most of my life in Indianapolis, although I was born in the east coast and my entire family is from the east coast. I don't think I will ever leave Indiana, although that's only because I am remarried and I don't think my ex-husband will ever move either. So here I am. And really, my state sucks. Especially now when we insist on wasting taxpayer money by pushing for a bill that many of us don't want.That bill is HJR-3. It was formerly known as HJR-6 before it … [Read more...]

Shabbat with the Kiddos

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I posted before about wanting to do Shabbat more often and have been more-or-less successful at doing that, especially for the past few weeks. My older children seem to enjoy it, despite it being foreign to them. I'm suprised at how easily they have embraced Shabbat traditions. It's been harder for me to get in the routine than for them, really. But they love it - special plates and a special dinner, lots of bread, usually some desserts, lighting the candles and praying over the wine (or grape … [Read more...]

….But You Eat Ham, Right?

So, my mom called me the other day. The conversation unfolded like this:Mom: "Hey, I have a question for you.""Okay.""Do you eat ham? "My mind immediately jumped to my inner desire to go vegan. How'd she know? I backtracked...better ask why.Me: "Um yeah, I eat ham. The kids like it too.....why?""Oh, we were trying to decide between ham and turkey for Christmas and since you were converting to Judaism we wondered if you were eating ham."...aha. So we went from not talking about … [Read more...]

Five Ways to Celebrate Thanksgivukkah

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Image sourced from thisreidwrites 2013 is a pretty special year when it comes to kicking off the winter sprint of American holidays, because this year Thanksgiving and the start of Hanukkah occur on the same day. It's being dubbed everything from "Thanksgivingukkah" to "Thanksgivukkah". I prefer the latter, but I've seen it all.ThanksgivingThanksgiving is annually celebrated by Americans on the fourth Thursday of November. Its status as a national holiday did not occur until … [Read more...]

How Elmo is Helping Me Convert to Judaism

Once upon a time when it was way too late for 18 month-olds to be awake, my son sang gleefully from beneath the covers. "Elmo's world!" he said as he tapped my phone with fingernail. His feet kicked happily.You see, he's become quite attached to the show since he discovered it on Netflix. Since then, it's been the go-to show alongside a few other PBS favorites (Dinosaur Train, better known as "Grr! Roar!" to my toddler, is one such show) when we need a safe distraction for our rambunctious to … [Read more...]


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