“How have you and you wife Genie stayed together for almost 50 years given that, quite frankly, Frank, you were once such an A-hole?”

"How can I make my relationships and my life work?"Hint:It isn't anything you'll learn about male or female orgasms online.The Alpha Males on Wall Street and running Silicon Valley have nothing to teach you.The Alpha Females at your local Women's Studies program have nothing for you either...A happy life is about......choosing to not be a male or female "Alpha" jerk and put people first, not career, position or income.Be "powerful" if you must... but...in only … [Read more...]

How to Keep Your Mate Even If You Are A Semi-Evolved Recovering Evangelical Controlling Bastard

  Following her mother's example my first child  Jessica returned love for my clumsy-to-bad-to-mean "fathering..." She was born when I was 18 but I eventually grew up. When she was a young adult I asked Jessica to forgive me for the times I'd pulled her hair, for the slaps and unkind yelling she endured as a young child.Forgive as you would be forgiven is not a prescriptive command but a factual description of what heals human relationships. If I've learned … [Read more...]