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		<title>By: TLCC CARE Sheet 2/27/11 &#8220;Falling In Love&#8230;with the Lost&#8221; series 4 of 8 &#124; &#8230;we see through a glass, darkly.</title>
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		<dc:creator>TLCC CARE Sheet 2/27/11 &#8220;Falling In Love&#8230;with the Lost&#8221; series 4 of 8 &#124; &#8230;we see through a glass, darkly.</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] blog called &#8220;The Friendly Atheist&#8221; considers evangelistic methods that don&#8217;t work.  Have you tried any methods mentioned [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 16:08:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bagheera clearly knows nothing about what we&#039;re talking about or where we&#039;re coming from and just wants to grab a few souls.

Come off it, parrot. Take your copy-paste gibberish somewhere else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bagheera clearly knows nothing about what we&#8217;re talking about or where we&#8217;re coming from and just wants to grab a few souls.</p>
<p>Come off it, parrot. Take your copy-paste gibberish somewhere else.</p>
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		<title>By: Bagheera</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bagheera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 05:54:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The best way to evangelize? Tell the Evangel (Good News) Tell what Christ has done to save sinners. Apart from God&#039;s grace no one would believe the Gospel. Is there anything more foolish than preaching? But that is by design. In His own words:

God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, &quot;Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best way to evangelize? Tell the Evangel (Good News) Tell what Christ has done to save sinners. Apart from God&#8217;s grace no one would believe the Gospel. Is there anything more foolish than preaching? But that is by design. In His own words:</p>
<p>God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, &#8220;Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Zach Alexander &#187; Father Jake stops the insanity</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/05/09/whats-the-best-method-for-evangelism/#comment-250871</link>
		<dc:creator>Zach Alexander &#187; Father Jake stops the insanity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 05:53:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] listening to atheists! This by trawling the comments on Friendly Atheist&#8217;s recent post on annoying evangelists. Tags: Anglicans, blogs, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Owen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Owen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 09:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I unfortunately can&#039;t respond to the question as I can&#039;t recall the worst experience I&#039;ve had with an evangelist - but I can respond to it&#039;s opposite, my best experience.  Asking for the best experience I think would actually be revealing to a lot of people, and is, in my opinion, a better question to ask.  

I was brough up in the unitarian universalist church, as was a close friend of mine(whom I had no clue was brough up in my church, albeit 2 years after me).  We were confronted in a mall at a monthly meeting we held there by some evangelists as we were leaving around christmas.  We both gave long explanations of why we had doubts, the base being a)people who , in good faith, have believed things we now as a culture know to be wrong(such as slavery and the inquisition) were despite their &#039;faithh, despite their &#039;personal relationship to God&#039;, wrong.  If they, in all good faith were wrong, how could these evangelists know they were right in their -interpretation- of what they believed.  And b) I had just read &#039;Who Wrote the Bible&#039; by Richard Friedman, and recounted to the evangelists the real story behind the golden calf &amp; the breaking of the tablets of the ten commandments.  We ended up leaving with no real resolution, as with all confrontations with evangelists. 

But a year later, again at our monthly meetings, we were confronted by evangelists.  Again, we engaged them in conversation, again offering similar statements which tried their faith - and eventually, after about half an hour, they asked if we were there a year previous.  A group from their church had come to prosoletize the mall at christmas, and in the end, they all left their church - some entirely, some to less evangelical churches.  We had deconverted them by getting into their worldview, and creating serious problems - it wasn&#039;t by streight out telling them they were wrong, it was our core argument that we both could be wrong.  I can handle the fact I could be wrong - their worldview couldn&#039;t.  

The real challenge is not to bash heads with the religious, but to convince them of the error of their ways.
The way to do this is not from our view, but from theirs.
The question we need to be asking is not &#039;what is the worst experience you&#039;ve had&#039; but &#039;how can we effect real change&#039;  - because as much as conversations with evangelists can feel like smashing your head against a brick wall, it can work, and we as a group need to figure out how to do that on a larger scale.  It can be done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I unfortunately can&#8217;t respond to the question as I can&#8217;t recall the worst experience I&#8217;ve had with an evangelist &#8211; but I can respond to it&#8217;s opposite, my best experience.  Asking for the best experience I think would actually be revealing to a lot of people, and is, in my opinion, a better question to ask.  </p>
<p>I was brough up in the unitarian universalist church, as was a close friend of mine(whom I had no clue was brough up in my church, albeit 2 years after me).  We were confronted in a mall at a monthly meeting we held there by some evangelists as we were leaving around christmas.  We both gave long explanations of why we had doubts, the base being a)people who , in good faith, have believed things we now as a culture know to be wrong(such as slavery and the inquisition) were despite their &#8216;faithh, despite their &#8216;personal relationship to God&#8217;, wrong.  If they, in all good faith were wrong, how could these evangelists know they were right in their -interpretation- of what they believed.  And b) I had just read &#8216;Who Wrote the Bible&#8217; by Richard Friedman, and recounted to the evangelists the real story behind the golden calf &amp; the breaking of the tablets of the ten commandments.  We ended up leaving with no real resolution, as with all confrontations with evangelists. </p>
<p>But a year later, again at our monthly meetings, we were confronted by evangelists.  Again, we engaged them in conversation, again offering similar statements which tried their faith &#8211; and eventually, after about half an hour, they asked if we were there a year previous.  A group from their church had come to prosoletize the mall at christmas, and in the end, they all left their church &#8211; some entirely, some to less evangelical churches.  We had deconverted them by getting into their worldview, and creating serious problems &#8211; it wasn&#8217;t by streight out telling them they were wrong, it was our core argument that we both could be wrong.  I can handle the fact I could be wrong &#8211; their worldview couldn&#8217;t.  </p>
<p>The real challenge is not to bash heads with the religious, but to convince them of the error of their ways.<br />
The way to do this is not from our view, but from theirs.<br />
The question we need to be asking is not &#8216;what is the worst experience you&#8217;ve had&#8217; but &#8216;how can we effect real change&#8217;  &#8211; because as much as conversations with evangelists can feel like smashing your head against a brick wall, it can work, and we as a group need to figure out how to do that on a larger scale.  It can be done.</p>
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		<title>By: cipher</title>
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		<dc:creator>cipher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 19:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;So according to you Darryl personal actions and choices don’t matter? It doesn’t matter if someone never supported Bush or his policies? If they share the label “Christian” or “evangelical” with someone who does, they’re just as culpable?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

You know, Mike, I&#039;ll say this - I would like to see progressive evangelicals being a &lt;em&gt;lot &lt;/em&gt;more vocal about these issues. I&#039;ve felt for some time that at least part of the reason the conservatives were able to seize control (denominationally and otherwise) is that liberals and moderates allowed them to. In recent years, you have people like Jim Wallis speaking out, but, even then, he&#039;ll only go so far. I think they have a sentimental attachment to that world, and they display a reticence about criticizing their &quot;brothers and sisters in Christ&quot; too vehemently. Jim wants to bring the conservatives to the table; I heard him say as much in a public talk he gave in Boston about three years ago. It influenced my opinion of him, frankly. I&#039;m not keen on engaging them, as I don&#039;t think conservative evangelicals understand dialogue; they only understand monologue. I&#039;d like to see Jim and the rest of you becoming visibly and publicly as angry as are those of us on the secular left.

And you can tell him I said so!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>So according to you Darryl personal actions and choices don’t matter? It doesn’t matter if someone never supported Bush or his policies? If they share the label “Christian” or “evangelical” with someone who does, they’re just as culpable?</p></blockquote>
<p>You know, Mike, I&#8217;ll say this &#8211; I would like to see progressive evangelicals being a <em>lot </em>more vocal about these issues. I&#8217;ve felt for some time that at least part of the reason the conservatives were able to seize control (denominationally and otherwise) is that liberals and moderates allowed them to. In recent years, you have people like Jim Wallis speaking out, but, even then, he&#8217;ll only go so far. I think they have a sentimental attachment to that world, and they display a reticence about criticizing their &#8220;brothers and sisters in Christ&#8221; too vehemently. Jim wants to bring the conservatives to the table; I heard him say as much in a public talk he gave in Boston about three years ago. It influenced my opinion of him, frankly. I&#8217;m not keen on engaging them, as I don&#8217;t think conservative evangelicals understand dialogue; they only understand monologue. I&#8217;d like to see Jim and the rest of you becoming visibly and publicly as angry as are those of us on the secular left.</p>
<p>And you can tell him I said so!</p>
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		<title>By: Darryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 19:04:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;So according to you Darryl personal actions and choices don’t matter? It doesn’t matter if someone never supported Bush or his policies? If they share the label “Christian” or “evangelical” with someone who does, they’re just as culpable?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

No.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>So according to you Darryl personal actions and choices don’t matter? It doesn’t matter if someone never supported Bush or his policies? If they share the label “Christian” or “evangelical” with someone who does, they’re just as culpable?</p></blockquote>
<p>No.</p>
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		<title>By: Bryn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bryn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The worst evangelizing style from my personal experience is not taking &quot;no&quot; for an answer.  One Saturday, I received a visit from 2 people from the church up the road inviting me to their church.  I told them, &quot;No, thank you.  I&#039;m an atheist.&quot; politely and told them I hoped they would enjoy the rest of their day.  One week later, Saturday, 3 people are on my doorstep, 2 of whom had been in the group last week.  I told them, &quot;No.&quot; again, a little less politely and asked them to not come back.  One week later, Saturday, guess what?  I now have *5* people on my doorstep and the spokesman for the group is the minister from the church.  This time, I told him that I&#039;d been contacted three weeks in a row, they were on my doorstep after specifically being asked not to come back and it was now verging on harassment.  The minister tried to argue that it was his &quot;right, as a Man of GOD&quot;, yeah, you could hear the caps in his voice, &quot;to spread the &#039;good word&#039;.&quot;  I informed him that it was my right as a citizen to take out a No Contact Order on him, his church and his membership, as well as being my right to contact the news media with a really interesting story (&quot;Church harasses atheist in own home!  Film at 11!!&quot;).  They left and didn&#039;t come back the next week.  Or ever again.  

As far as what would work?  Nothing.  I know the story.  I know the drill.  I probably know the bible better than the person making the attempt, so don&#039;t even go there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The worst evangelizing style from my personal experience is not taking &#8220;no&#8221; for an answer.  One Saturday, I received a visit from 2 people from the church up the road inviting me to their church.  I told them, &#8220;No, thank you.  I&#8217;m an atheist.&#8221; politely and told them I hoped they would enjoy the rest of their day.  One week later, Saturday, 3 people are on my doorstep, 2 of whom had been in the group last week.  I told them, &#8220;No.&#8221; again, a little less politely and asked them to not come back.  One week later, Saturday, guess what?  I now have *5* people on my doorstep and the spokesman for the group is the minister from the church.  This time, I told him that I&#8217;d been contacted three weeks in a row, they were on my doorstep after specifically being asked not to come back and it was now verging on harassment.  The minister tried to argue that it was his &#8220;right, as a Man of GOD&#8221;, yeah, you could hear the caps in his voice, &#8220;to spread the &#8216;good word&#8217;.&#8221;  I informed him that it was my right as a citizen to take out a No Contact Order on him, his church and his membership, as well as being my right to contact the news media with a really interesting story (&#8220;Church harasses atheist in own home!  Film at 11!!&#8221;).  They left and didn&#8217;t come back the next week.  Or ever again.  </p>
<p>As far as what would work?  Nothing.  I know the story.  I know the drill.  I probably know the bible better than the person making the attempt, so don&#8217;t even go there.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Clawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Clawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 20:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Those suicidal “values voters” share the blame for this debacle–no matter how many of them voted for John Kerry.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

So according to you Darryl personal actions and choices don&#039;t matter? It doesn&#039;t matter if someone never supported Bush or his policies? If they share the label &quot;Christian&quot; or &quot;evangelical&quot; with someone who does, they&#039;re just as culpable? 

Shall we apply that same standard to atheists as well? Do you want to be held responsible for every stupid or evil thing any other atheist has done?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Those suicidal “values voters” share the blame for this debacle–no matter how many of them voted for John Kerry.</p></blockquote>
<p>So according to you Darryl personal actions and choices don&#8217;t matter? It doesn&#8217;t matter if someone never supported Bush or his policies? If they share the label &#8220;Christian&#8221; or &#8220;evangelical&#8221; with someone who does, they&#8217;re just as culpable? </p>
<p>Shall we apply that same standard to atheists as well? Do you want to be held responsible for every stupid or evil thing any other atheist has done?</p>
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		<title>By: Darryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 19:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s about outcomes.  Outcomes, rather than surveys, tell the story.  Evangelicals have for almost thirty years been a reliable voting block for the Repbulicans.  According to many pundits and strategists they made the difference in the last two Presidential election cycles.  Look at the Congress:  it&#039;s been filled with radical Christian Republicans and scared moderates who know where their support comes from.  We can&#039;t get shit done now.  We&#039;re in a war we can&#039;t get out of, and Wall Street has sold the country down the river.  Get real. Those suicidal &quot;values voters&quot; share the blame for this debacle--no matter how many of them voted for John Kerry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s about outcomes.  Outcomes, rather than surveys, tell the story.  Evangelicals have for almost thirty years been a reliable voting block for the Repbulicans.  According to many pundits and strategists they made the difference in the last two Presidential election cycles.  Look at the Congress:  it&#8217;s been filled with radical Christian Republicans and scared moderates who know where their support comes from.  We can&#8217;t get shit done now.  We&#8217;re in a war we can&#8217;t get out of, and Wall Street has sold the country down the river.  Get real. Those suicidal &#8220;values voters&#8221; share the blame for this debacle&#8211;no matter how many of them voted for John Kerry.</p>
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