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	<title>Comments on: Would You Give Your Life For a Symbol?</title>
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		<title>By: Rowan</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/12/would-you-give-your-life-for-a-symbol/#comment-227959</link>
		<dc:creator>Rowan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 18:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quick question: If the communion wafer is the body of Jesus Christ, and poking through it would harm him, what happens when you chew...? &gt;.&gt;  Perhaps they should all swallow it whole, and let Christ burn in the acid of millions of stomachs... &gt;.&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quick question: If the communion wafer is the body of Jesus Christ, and poking through it would harm him, what happens when you chew&#8230;? &gt;.&gt;  Perhaps they should all swallow it whole, and let Christ burn in the acid of millions of stomachs&#8230; &gt;.&gt;</p>
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		<title>By: Maekern</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/12/would-you-give-your-life-for-a-symbol/#comment-227929</link>
		<dc:creator>Maekern</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 14:22:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Note that those who believe in the doctrine of transubstantiation believe that the wafer becomes literally the body of christ, and that it is not just a symbol. This would certainly have an effect on how a person viewed the wafer issue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Note that those who believe in the doctrine of transubstantiation believe that the wafer becomes literally the body of christ, and that it is not just a symbol. This would certainly have an effect on how a person viewed the wafer issue.</p>
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		<title>By: GentlePath</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/12/would-you-give-your-life-for-a-symbol/#comment-227740</link>
		<dc:creator>GentlePath</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2008 15:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is why the belief in life after death is dangerous: people become willing to die for stupid shit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is why the belief in life after death is dangerous: people become willing to die for stupid shit.</p>
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		<title>By: The Nerd</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/12/would-you-give-your-life-for-a-symbol/#comment-227699</link>
		<dc:creator>The Nerd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2008 07:28:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is nothing wrong with him putting his own life on the line.  It&#039;s when he&#039;s willing to put others&#039; lives on the line for his symbol that there&#039;s a problem, and I think all to many people have taken that dangerous step.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is nothing wrong with him putting his own life on the line.  It&#8217;s when he&#8217;s willing to put others&#8217; lives on the line for his symbol that there&#8217;s a problem, and I think all to many people have taken that dangerous step.</p>
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		<title>By: Jed</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/12/would-you-give-your-life-for-a-symbol/#comment-227654</link>
		<dc:creator>Jed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 21:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you really expect believers to be rational?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you really expect believers to be rational?</p>
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		<title>By: Desert Son</title>
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		<dc:creator>Desert Son</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 14:41:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zen tenet:  &quot;a symbol is like a finger pointing at the moon.  Don&#039;t look at the finger, or you&#039;ll miss the beauty of the moon.&quot;

I don&#039;t happen to think this particular symbol points at any tangible moon (i.e. god as real), but it certainly could point to things like service, charity, hope, love (unfortunately this particular symbol could also point to things like exclusivity, murder, incest, bigotry, and so forth).

Sounds like maybe the person in the story isn&#039;t seeing the moon.

But history is fraught with examples of people, over time, coming to revere the symbol, long after they&#039;ve forgotten about the moon.

No kings,

Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zen tenet:  &#8220;a symbol is like a finger pointing at the moon.  Don&#8217;t look at the finger, or you&#8217;ll miss the beauty of the moon.&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t happen to think this particular symbol points at any tangible moon (i.e. god as real), but it certainly could point to things like service, charity, hope, love (unfortunately this particular symbol could also point to things like exclusivity, murder, incest, bigotry, and so forth).</p>
<p>Sounds like maybe the person in the story isn&#8217;t seeing the moon.</p>
<p>But history is fraught with examples of people, over time, coming to revere the symbol, long after they&#8217;ve forgotten about the moon.</p>
<p>No kings,</p>
<p>Robert</p>
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		<title>By: efrique</title>
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		<dc:creator>efrique</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 09:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t imagine the thinking of anyone that puts symbols above human life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t imagine the thinking of anyone that puts symbols above human life.</p>
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		<title>By: Bruce</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 05:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Does your friend have family, maybe even children?  I guess this means his family comes second to God.  I hope his family is OK with this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does your friend have family, maybe even children?  I guess this means his family comes second to God.  I hope his family is OK with this.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Daubert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Daubert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 03:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Siamang Says:

&lt;blockquote&gt;Doesn’t a moral and intellectual honesty demand that we disrespect certain ideas? Even ideas popularly held at times?

Reading what you wrote, I can’t tell if you’re clearly saying that we must respect other people, their right to hold their own opinion… or something else, which is that you are demanding that I respect THEIR opinions.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I understand the fuzziness point you make, in part because I believe that both statements are true in many (most?) cases. Respecting people includes respecting their thoughts - even if you disagree with them. That doesn&#039;t mean you can&#039;t disagree with them. It doesn&#039;t mean you can&#039;t state you disagree with them. Of course you can. But it also means that generally some of the mocking tones we often take (and I include myself in that)around ideas we disagree with quickly descend to personal mocking by default. 

At least until you understand another person&#039;s thought well enough so that you can articulate that person&#039;s reasons for holding a viewpoint (which is rare) then while you may still disagree with them, you (and I)have no basis to disrespect them. A few years ago I taught a class in Christian ethics in Nebraska. I asked people to tell me whether they were for or against the death penalty as a part of the first class. I then made them research and write a paper on all the reasons supporting the OPPOSITE opinion. Students hated the assignment. It caused huge angst for them. But what I hoped they would learn is to not just disagree with others but to try to understand them. After checking and listening - some ideas are still wacky and worthy of little attention. But we tend to decide that based on lack of information and curiosity because we let our world view speak for us rather than thinking them through in a more intellectually honest and open way.

Take for example, the tone about how a specific small group of Roman Catholics handled the presence of someone who didn&#039;t think what they thought about communion. It quickly included a somewhat mocking disagreement about the presence of Christ in communion (which is actually a distraction from the central issue which is how the Christians and the atheists treated each other during the incident). Rather than comments on church and state, public funding uses in state universities, treatment of guests in public settings, etc. more than few comments easily descend into what a foolish thing it was to think what Catholics think and so it wasn&#039;t a big deal anyway. 

The truth is that disagreeing with the idea doesn&#039;t automatically give us the right to be disruptive in the midst of it. It may in some cases involving intentional civil disobedience. Nor does the presence of outsiders as visitors in public settings give the Catholic Church the right to make a mountain out of a molehill in a campus worship service(which I believe they did in the campus incident and they were wrong to do so).

Anyway, at the moment those are my thoughts as a lurking &quot;friendly Christian.&quot; I hope it clarifies what I meant a bit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Siamang Says:</p>
<blockquote><p>Doesn’t a moral and intellectual honesty demand that we disrespect certain ideas? Even ideas popularly held at times?</p>
<p>Reading what you wrote, I can’t tell if you’re clearly saying that we must respect other people, their right to hold their own opinion… or something else, which is that you are demanding that I respect THEIR opinions.</p></blockquote>
<p>I understand the fuzziness point you make, in part because I believe that both statements are true in many (most?) cases. Respecting people includes respecting their thoughts &#8211; even if you disagree with them. That doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t disagree with them. It doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t state you disagree with them. Of course you can. But it also means that generally some of the mocking tones we often take (and I include myself in that)around ideas we disagree with quickly descend to personal mocking by default. </p>
<p>At least until you understand another person&#8217;s thought well enough so that you can articulate that person&#8217;s reasons for holding a viewpoint (which is rare) then while you may still disagree with them, you (and I)have no basis to disrespect them. A few years ago I taught a class in Christian ethics in Nebraska. I asked people to tell me whether they were for or against the death penalty as a part of the first class. I then made them research and write a paper on all the reasons supporting the OPPOSITE opinion. Students hated the assignment. It caused huge angst for them. But what I hoped they would learn is to not just disagree with others but to try to understand them. After checking and listening &#8211; some ideas are still wacky and worthy of little attention. But we tend to decide that based on lack of information and curiosity because we let our world view speak for us rather than thinking them through in a more intellectually honest and open way.</p>
<p>Take for example, the tone about how a specific small group of Roman Catholics handled the presence of someone who didn&#8217;t think what they thought about communion. It quickly included a somewhat mocking disagreement about the presence of Christ in communion (which is actually a distraction from the central issue which is how the Christians and the atheists treated each other during the incident). Rather than comments on church and state, public funding uses in state universities, treatment of guests in public settings, etc. more than few comments easily descend into what a foolish thing it was to think what Catholics think and so it wasn&#8217;t a big deal anyway. </p>
<p>The truth is that disagreeing with the idea doesn&#8217;t automatically give us the right to be disruptive in the midst of it. It may in some cases involving intentional civil disobedience. Nor does the presence of outsiders as visitors in public settings give the Catholic Church the right to make a mountain out of a molehill in a campus worship service(which I believe they did in the campus incident and they were wrong to do so).</p>
<p>Anyway, at the moment those are my thoughts as a lurking &#8220;friendly Christian.&#8221; I hope it clarifies what I meant a bit.</p>
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		<title>By: stephanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 01:17:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know if someone put a gun to my head, I&#039;d be very likely to hand them my wallet if they asked, despite all the administrative and financial woes that would entail. Why on earth wouldn&#039;t I destroy something that really wouldn&#039;t create any more grief than the actual act?
It&#039;s a silly question anyway, even when I did believe I wasn&#039;t dumb enough to think that God&#039;s very word was in an anthology picked over by a group of officials two centuries after his son&#039;s death. People can&#039;t keep facts straight ten years after an event, why on Earth would I think two hundred years was more accurate?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know if someone put a gun to my head, I&#8217;d be very likely to hand them my wallet if they asked, despite all the administrative and financial woes that would entail. Why on earth wouldn&#8217;t I destroy something that really wouldn&#8217;t create any more grief than the actual act?<br />
It&#8217;s a silly question anyway, even when I did believe I wasn&#8217;t dumb enough to think that God&#8217;s very word was in an anthology picked over by a group of officials two centuries after his son&#8217;s death. People can&#8217;t keep facts straight ten years after an event, why on Earth would I think two hundred years was more accurate?</p>
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