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	<description>by Hemant Mehta</description>
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		<title>By: Allison Rix</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/24/this-story-is-missing-something/#comment-564183</link>
		<dc:creator>Allison Rix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 09:32:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To all of you who chose to bash me, shame on you.  My daughter took this rope from school without me knowing.  She rolled her window down one inch and dropped the rope.  I was driving how was i supposed to know.  Shame on you for judging a family that suffered a freak tragedy.  If you only knew what we have gone through over the past two years maybe you would reconsider your nasty thoughts.  Maybe you have eyes in the back of your head.  If your child has ever fallen, had stitches, or broken a bone, shame on you.  I guess I should blame you.  To those that supported me, thank you.  There really are good people out there.  All you nasty bloggers go get a job and a life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To all of you who chose to bash me, shame on you.  My daughter took this rope from school without me knowing.  She rolled her window down one inch and dropped the rope.  I was driving how was i supposed to know.  Shame on you for judging a family that suffered a freak tragedy.  If you only knew what we have gone through over the past two years maybe you would reconsider your nasty thoughts.  Maybe you have eyes in the back of your head.  If your child has ever fallen, had stitches, or broken a bone, shame on you.  I guess I should blame you.  To those that supported me, thank you.  There really are good people out there.  All you nasty bloggers go get a job and a life.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt Stone</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/24/this-story-is-missing-something/#comment-230823</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt Stone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 16:31:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am actually surprized you find the no God mention such a noteworthy thing. So what?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am actually surprized you find the no God mention such a noteworthy thing. So what?</p>
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		<title>By: SarahH</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/24/this-story-is-missing-something/#comment-230143</link>
		<dc:creator>SarahH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 00:10:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, well, I kind of can&#039;t stand MySpace due to formatting issues, so I don&#039;t have an account and therefore can&#039;t comment there (although I&#039;m intrigued to find a Trekkie who likes all the non-Enterprise series with the &lt;em&gt;exception&lt;/em&gt; of later season of DS9... those are the best seasons of any ST series, ever!  You&#039;re quite an anomaly).  

And I&#039;m still closeted enough in certain ways to keep my facebook account completely separate from the rest of my online self.  So I guess you&#039;ll just have to start a real blog or join the forums :-)  Otherwise, see you around the comments, and also: nice top hat!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, well, I kind of can&#8217;t stand MySpace due to formatting issues, so I don&#8217;t have an account and therefore can&#8217;t comment there (although I&#8217;m intrigued to find a Trekkie who likes all the non-Enterprise series with the <em>exception</em> of later season of DS9&#8230; those are the best seasons of any ST series, ever!  You&#8217;re quite an anomaly).  </p>
<p>And I&#8217;m still closeted enough in certain ways to keep my facebook account completely separate from the rest of my online self.  So I guess you&#8217;ll just have to start a real blog or join the forums <img src='http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Otherwise, see you around the comments, and also: nice top hat!</p>
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		<title>By: David D.G.</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/24/this-story-is-missing-something/#comment-230140</link>
		<dc:creator>David D.G.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 23:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, my &quot;blog&quot; is simply comments I make in the various blogging sections on my pages at such places as MySpace and Facebook.  There are many more at the MySpace one, since I&#039;ve had it longer; the URL is http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&amp;friendid=4357289.

Thanks for taking an interest -- I&#039;m flattered!


~David D.G.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, my &#8220;blog&#8221; is simply comments I make in the various blogging sections on my pages at such places as MySpace and Facebook.  There are many more at the MySpace one, since I&#8217;ve had it longer; the URL is <a href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&#038;friendid=4357289" rel="nofollow">http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&#038;friendid=4357289</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for taking an interest &#8212; I&#8217;m flattered!</p>
<p>~David D.G.</p>
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		<title>By: SarahH</title>
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		<dc:creator>SarahH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 22:10:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David D.G. - do you have a link to your blog?  I&#039;ve been reading more lately and I&#039;m interesting in browsing yours, if you wouldn&#039;t mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David D.G. &#8211; do you have a link to your blog?  I&#8217;ve been reading more lately and I&#8217;m interesting in browsing yours, if you wouldn&#8217;t mind.</p>
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		<title>By: David D.G.</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/24/this-story-is-missing-something/#comment-230106</link>
		<dc:creator>David D.G.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 21:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, great.

Within minutes of my reading this fine post, I received an email from a fundie friend of mine who credits God for fixing her family&#039;s current medical-bill crisis.

She&#039;s giving God the credit, instead of:

* The people in the charitable organization that paid for her husband&#039;s hospital bill when he had a heart attack.  (Even if it is a religious charity, which it may well be, the point is that &lt;em&gt;people&lt;/em&gt; contributed money to it, and &lt;em&gt;people&lt;/em&gt; decided to award some of this money to them to help them out.  God played no part in this whatsoever.)

* The state agency that paid for her fancy impaired-vision equipment (an agency funded by &lt;em&gt;their own taxes!&lt;/em&gt;).

* The insurance company that paid for their daughter&#039;s throat surgery and orthodontics (even though &lt;em&gt;they paid&lt;/em&gt; for this insurance, and it&#039;s just &lt;em&gt;doing what it&#039;s supposed to do!&lt;/em&gt;).

(*facepalm*)

I&#039;m not even going to bother pointing out the stupidity of this to them; it would only upset them, not enlighten them.  But I had to blow off a little steam here about it, and I may blog about it at slightly greater length.  It&#039;s just depressing.


~David D.G.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, great.</p>
<p>Within minutes of my reading this fine post, I received an email from a fundie friend of mine who credits God for fixing her family&#8217;s current medical-bill crisis.</p>
<p>She&#8217;s giving God the credit, instead of:</p>
<p>* The people in the charitable organization that paid for her husband&#8217;s hospital bill when he had a heart attack.  (Even if it is a religious charity, which it may well be, the point is that <em>people</em> contributed money to it, and <em>people</em> decided to award some of this money to them to help them out.  God played no part in this whatsoever.)</p>
<p>* The state agency that paid for her fancy impaired-vision equipment (an agency funded by <em>their own taxes!</em>).</p>
<p>* The insurance company that paid for their daughter&#8217;s throat surgery and orthodontics (even though <em>they paid</em> for this insurance, and it&#8217;s just <em>doing what it&#8217;s supposed to do!</em>).</p>
<p>(*facepalm*)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not even going to bother pointing out the stupidity of this to them; it would only upset them, not enlighten them.  But I had to blow off a little steam here about it, and I may blog about it at slightly greater length.  It&#8217;s just depressing.</p>
<p>~David D.G.</p>
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		<title>By: Andre</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 19:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just my humble opinion...

I guess the problem most people (including myself) have with atributing good things to god, is that it implies that god helped you, but chose not to help the others in which the situation turned out the other way..

Such as in a car accident, or fatal disease like cancer when someone attributes their success to god while forgetting about vast numbers of people, that would be just as worthy of some divine help, that don&#039;t make it through the same situation...

But I guess that&#039;s all in god&#039;s plan, right ? (as a religious person would quickly say after reading this post)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just my humble opinion&#8230;</p>
<p>I guess the problem most people (including myself) have with atributing good things to god, is that it implies that god helped you, but chose not to help the others in which the situation turned out the other way..</p>
<p>Such as in a car accident, or fatal disease like cancer when someone attributes their success to god while forgetting about vast numbers of people, that would be just as worthy of some divine help, that don&#8217;t make it through the same situation&#8230;</p>
<p>But I guess that&#8217;s all in god&#8217;s plan, right ? (as a religious person would quickly say after reading this post)</p>
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		<title>By: Randy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 18:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanking god would be a meaningless action. God didnt stop to help, god didn&#039;t reattach the hand. I guess she should blame god also for her daughters injury. Trying to attribute human bravery and skill to a supernatural being cheapens the actions of those that actually did something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanking god would be a meaningless action. God didnt stop to help, god didn&#8217;t reattach the hand. I guess she should blame god also for her daughters injury. Trying to attribute human bravery and skill to a supernatural being cheapens the actions of those that actually did something.</p>
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		<title>By: Randy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 17:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I liked the fact that the &quot;angels&quot; were people that stopped to help and not supernatural faeries. So much talk these days of &quot;guardian angels&quot; and all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked the fact that the &#8220;angels&#8221; were people that stopped to help and not supernatural faeries. So much talk these days of &#8220;guardian angels&#8221; and all.</p>
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		<title>By: Linda</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2008/09/24/this-story-is-missing-something/#comment-230055</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 17:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I simply want to know what part of the tragedy should be the part where we mention god.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Beats the heck out of me!  I didn&#039;t say that we should mention God.  I just felt that Hemant&#039;s comment seemed a little patronizing.  Using the word &quot;should&quot; in this case sounded somewhat judgmental to me.

My question was intended to examine the mindset that would criticize a person (in this case, the mother) if they wanted to thank God for something good that happened to them.

&lt;blockquote&gt;And I was not questioning your intention.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Maybe you &quot;should&quot; have. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I simply want to know what part of the tragedy should be the part where we mention god.</p></blockquote>
<p>Beats the heck out of me!  I didn&#8217;t say that we should mention God.  I just felt that Hemant&#8217;s comment seemed a little patronizing.  Using the word &#8220;should&#8221; in this case sounded somewhat judgmental to me.</p>
<p>My question was intended to examine the mindset that would criticize a person (in this case, the mother) if they wanted to thank God for something good that happened to them.</p>
<blockquote><p>And I was not questioning your intention.</p></blockquote>
<p>Maybe you &#8220;should&#8221; have. <img src='http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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