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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2009/04/28/changing-your-religious-affiliation/#comment-303891</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 01:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Travis,

You will find that, if you hang out here, that atheists represent a large swath of opinion related to the nature of &quot;spirituality&quot;.  Some hold that there is actually no such thing as spirituality... any such feelings are all just in our heads.  Others hold that there is a part of reality that is forever beyond the scope of science, but this is also something quite different than the supernatural stories listed in the world&#039;s holy books. Many fall somewhere in-between.  Almost all of us who hang out at this site simply want to be an equal player at the table of life and live in harmony with others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Travis,</p>
<p>You will find that, if you hang out here, that atheists represent a large swath of opinion related to the nature of &#8220;spirituality&#8221;.  Some hold that there is actually no such thing as spirituality&#8230; any such feelings are all just in our heads.  Others hold that there is a part of reality that is forever beyond the scope of science, but this is also something quite different than the supernatural stories listed in the world&#8217;s holy books. Many fall somewhere in-between.  Almost all of us who hang out at this site simply want to be an equal player at the table of life and live in harmony with others.</p>
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		<title>By: Sabio Lantz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sabio Lantz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 00:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmmmm, we thought about UU, but you had to be a democrat to join -- OK, there were a few token Republicans there but everyone whispered as they pointed them out to us.
I am libertarian, I am sure we are consider even more looney.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmmmm, we thought about UU, but you had to be a democrat to join &#8212; OK, there were a few token Republicans there but everyone whispered as they pointed them out to us.<br />
I am libertarian, I am sure we are consider even more looney.</p>
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		<title>By: Travis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Travis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 00:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the first time I have ever been on this site and it is the first time that I have seen these specific numbers about the Church and people leaving it. I think the talk about &quot;spirituality&quot; being real or not real depends on experience. For myself I have encountered the supernatural with my own two eyes and for me I cannot discredit that. Jesus has changed my life in so many ways I cant help but believe in Him and the spirituality. I really do respect everyone&#039;s comments and I look forward to hopefully learn more about how friendly atheists view life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the first time I have ever been on this site and it is the first time that I have seen these specific numbers about the Church and people leaving it. I think the talk about &#8220;spirituality&#8221; being real or not real depends on experience. For myself I have encountered the supernatural with my own two eyes and for me I cannot discredit that. Jesus has changed my life in so many ways I cant help but believe in Him and the spirituality. I really do respect everyone&#8217;s comments and I look forward to hopefully learn more about how friendly atheists view life.</p>
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		<title>By: Brooks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 00:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with what others have said about the difficulty of defining what spiritual but not religious means.  Like do they mean what other comments have said about finding communities and rituals or is it like people who are Buddhist atheists that might not believe in God but believe in reincarnation or atheists who believe in tarot cards?  I have to admit that even though I&#039;m an atheist and don&#039;t believe there&#039;s a god answering my prayers, sometimes I still &quot;pray&quot; as a form of meditation.  I don&#039;t expect anything to happen and I know I&#039;m just talking to myself, but I just do it out of habit from my days as a Christian and because it&#039;s the way I&#039;m most used to meditating.  Does this make me hypocritical to use prayer as a form of meditation when I know it doesn&#039;t actually do anything supernatural?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with what others have said about the difficulty of defining what spiritual but not religious means.  Like do they mean what other comments have said about finding communities and rituals or is it like people who are Buddhist atheists that might not believe in God but believe in reincarnation or atheists who believe in tarot cards?  I have to admit that even though I&#8217;m an atheist and don&#8217;t believe there&#8217;s a god answering my prayers, sometimes I still &#8220;pray&#8221; as a form of meditation.  I don&#8217;t expect anything to happen and I know I&#8217;m just talking to myself, but I just do it out of habit from my days as a Christian and because it&#8217;s the way I&#8217;m most used to meditating.  Does this make me hypocritical to use prayer as a form of meditation when I know it doesn&#8217;t actually do anything supernatural?</p>
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		<title>By: Desert Son</title>
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		<dc:creator>Desert Son</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Others have touched on the semantic problem of this question, and I think it&#039;s difficult in part because of the related semantic issue of post-acceptance translation of &quot;spiritual needs&quot; into temporal and phenomenological understanding.

That is, the recognition that &quot;spiritual needs&quot; aren&#039;t spiritual at all (in the sense that they&#039;re separate from our consciousness, our physical being, the mechanisms of the universe, and so forth), but just components of the human experience, grounded in our biology, time, and brain processes.

It doesn&#039;t make the beauty of a Bach cello concerto any less beautiful, it seems to me, to realize that the sounds I&#039;m enjoying appeal to those facets, both biological and experiential, of my being that gravitates toward music (especially since not everyone likes Bach, or cello music, or classical music, etc).  The same with the music of The Who, or Thelonious Monk, or with the spectacle of a sunset in the desert, or great sex, or deep space imagery captured on film, or collective joy in a social setting like a concert or a ball game victory, or whatever.

But the profound experience of those things is not evidence of spirituality, whether spirituality implies mind/body dualism, &quot;powers&quot; beyond space and time, angels and/or demons, psychic powers, coincidence as anything other than coincidence, intricately devised divine plans, etc.  In other words, are &quot;spirit seekers&quot; really seeking community in which to share their enjoyment of the phenomenal common to us all, or are they really seeking actual spirits (Who ya gonna call?)?

If they&#039;re seeking community (and associated rituals, and there are all kinds of secular rituals), that can certainly be found outside a church or other religiously-affiliated circumstance.  If they&#039;re really seeking spirits, though, the real trick seems to be connecting those individuals back to the physical world without the need for dualism.

How to make &quot;spirit seekers&quot; realize that the beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring moments in life are no less beautiful, uplifting, and awe-inspiring just because there&#039;s no supernatural &quot;counterpart&quot; component out there?  Another way of saying, how to make &quot;spirit seekers&quot; realize that it&#039;s o.k. that there are no spirits (or at least, no evidence to suggest there are spirits at this point, so don&#039;t worry about it).

No kings,

Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Others have touched on the semantic problem of this question, and I think it&#8217;s difficult in part because of the related semantic issue of post-acceptance translation of &#8220;spiritual needs&#8221; into temporal and phenomenological understanding.</p>
<p>That is, the recognition that &#8220;spiritual needs&#8221; aren&#8217;t spiritual at all (in the sense that they&#8217;re separate from our consciousness, our physical being, the mechanisms of the universe, and so forth), but just components of the human experience, grounded in our biology, time, and brain processes.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t make the beauty of a Bach cello concerto any less beautiful, it seems to me, to realize that the sounds I&#8217;m enjoying appeal to those facets, both biological and experiential, of my being that gravitates toward music (especially since not everyone likes Bach, or cello music, or classical music, etc).  The same with the music of The Who, or Thelonious Monk, or with the spectacle of a sunset in the desert, or great sex, or deep space imagery captured on film, or collective joy in a social setting like a concert or a ball game victory, or whatever.</p>
<p>But the profound experience of those things is not evidence of spirituality, whether spirituality implies mind/body dualism, &#8220;powers&#8221; beyond space and time, angels and/or demons, psychic powers, coincidence as anything other than coincidence, intricately devised divine plans, etc.  In other words, are &#8220;spirit seekers&#8221; really seeking community in which to share their enjoyment of the phenomenal common to us all, or are they really seeking actual spirits (Who ya gonna call?)?</p>
<p>If they&#8217;re seeking community (and associated rituals, and there are all kinds of secular rituals), that can certainly be found outside a church or other religiously-affiliated circumstance.  If they&#8217;re really seeking spirits, though, the real trick seems to be connecting those individuals back to the physical world without the need for dualism.</p>
<p>How to make &#8220;spirit seekers&#8221; realize that the beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring moments in life are no less beautiful, uplifting, and awe-inspiring just because there&#8217;s no supernatural &#8220;counterpart&#8221; component out there?  Another way of saying, how to make &#8220;spirit seekers&#8221; realize that it&#8217;s o.k. that there are no spirits (or at least, no evidence to suggest there are spirits at this point, so don&#8217;t worry about it).</p>
<p>No kings,</p>
<p>Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Mathew Wilder</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mathew Wilder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel the same way as David D.G. In his first comment. I don&#039;t really see the difference between emotional needs and spiritual needs, if spirituality does not involve anything supernatural. I think Aj&#039;s three types helps clarify things, but unless it&#039;s clear which type he&#039;s talking about in any given case, and unless his three part definition catches on, I think talk of spirituality can obfuscate things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel the same way as David D.G. In his first comment. I don&#8217;t really see the difference between emotional needs and spiritual needs, if spirituality does not involve anything supernatural. I think Aj&#8217;s three types helps clarify things, but unless it&#8217;s clear which type he&#8217;s talking about in any given case, and unless his three part definition catches on, I think talk of spirituality can obfuscate things.</p>
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		<title>By: GG</title>
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		<dc:creator>GG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tend to nitpick on the word &quot;spiritual&quot; simply because I do not believe in a spiritual realm. So I do need to re-word it in order to feel more comfortable. 

When it comes to &quot;needs not being met&quot; I tend to think of emotional needs we all have that are best found in communities: being supported by others, socialized, learning and being heard, enjoying company, making friends, and being an involved member of a society. 

The number one thing I miss from my Christian days is the comfort and security of a community of like-minded people. These are what I think of as my &quot;needs&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tend to nitpick on the word &#8220;spiritual&#8221; simply because I do not believe in a spiritual realm. So I do need to re-word it in order to feel more comfortable. </p>
<p>When it comes to &#8220;needs not being met&#8221; I tend to think of emotional needs we all have that are best found in communities: being supported by others, socialized, learning and being heard, enjoying company, making friends, and being an involved member of a society. </p>
<p>The number one thing I miss from my Christian days is the comfort and security of a community of like-minded people. These are what I think of as my &#8220;needs&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually wrote a blog post last month on addressing those &quot;spiritual&quot; needs.
&lt;a href=&quot;http://punkideas.blogspot.com/2009/03/creating-humanist-culture.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Creating a Humanist Culture&lt;/a&gt;
I don&#039;t like the word &quot;spiritual&quot; when it is referring to non-metaphysical things.  So if the shortcoming is a lack of meaning, direction, or community, then I wouldn&#039;t consider it a &quot;spiritual&quot; shortcoming.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually wrote a blog post last month on addressing those &#8220;spiritual&#8221; needs.<br />
<a href="http://punkideas.blogspot.com/2009/03/creating-humanist-culture.html" rel="nofollow">Creating a Humanist Culture</a><br />
I don&#8217;t like the word &#8220;spiritual&#8221; when it is referring to non-metaphysical things.  So if the shortcoming is a lack of meaning, direction, or community, then I wouldn&#8217;t consider it a &#8220;spiritual&#8221; shortcoming.</p>
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		<title>By: Ruby Leigh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ruby Leigh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 18:56:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deviating from the comment theme a bit here, but while I think a group of atheist could provide elements such as community and belonging... it would be difficult to address spiritual needs -- because &quot;Going to Heaven&quot; sounds a lot better than cessation of life.  In the emotionally distraught mind set, an immeadiate demand for proof may not arise.

It seems to me that the Atheist perspective suggest that everyone makes decisions by logic -- however emotion, and passion factor in.  Many people (of all faiths and non-faiths) are void of Logic, that is because logic can sometimes be cruel, and often lacks mercy.

People will continue to switch from one belief to another, as long as they continue to experience being dissatisfied.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deviating from the comment theme a bit here, but while I think a group of atheist could provide elements such as community and belonging&#8230; it would be difficult to address spiritual needs &#8212; because &#8220;Going to Heaven&#8221; sounds a lot better than cessation of life.  In the emotionally distraught mind set, an immeadiate demand for proof may not arise.</p>
<p>It seems to me that the Atheist perspective suggest that everyone makes decisions by logic &#8212; however emotion, and passion factor in.  Many people (of all faiths and non-faiths) are void of Logic, that is because logic can sometimes be cruel, and often lacks mercy.</p>
<p>People will continue to switch from one belief to another, as long as they continue to experience being dissatisfied.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 18:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Kate. A UU congregation is a good community home for atheists. I enjoy visiting the local UU services in my hometown, and I don&#039;t have to give up any of my views on reality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Kate. A UU congregation is a good community home for atheists. I enjoy visiting the local UU services in my hometown, and I don&#8217;t have to give up any of my views on reality.</p>
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