Their survey and profile system does take religion and religious importance into account and it seems to match appropriately.

I was matched with some theists too, but nobody far out there. Plus, I indicated I was open minded to “spiritual but not religious” so I’m sure that was part of it.

The lady “ringtailroxy” is right. Upon getting to this southern state 3 years ago, I went to free thinker’s meetup. The male members are exactly like ringtailroxy described that even I was turned off. Even I wanted to meet women and men like myself not paunchy, older, slovenly, ones with stains on their shirts. I think I’ll buy Richard Dawkins scarlet “A” lapel pin for for when I put on jacket.

It is ridiculously hard to find atheist women in the US, though. Or maybe I just have bad luck. I met my current gf when she was a graduate student in a physical sciences department at a major research university in a large, very liberal city. And she’s a theist. Gah!

And about Hugh Laurie, my gf says he got better with age. Not at all attractive in Blackadder, Jeeves & Wooster, etc. Definitely hot House-era. And by the 4th (last) season of A Bit of Fry and Laurie, he was beginning to look pretty good, apparently.

Dunno. She thinks Alan Rickman is hot too. All right, he’s got an awesome voice, but attractive – and as Snape, too? A fat, pasty, old wanna-be goth?

On the other hand, if she thinks men get more attractive as they age, all the better for me, I suppose

Maybe its just that i grew up with him on blackadder as the idiot Georges, or as the goofy comic with Stephen Fry on Fry and Laurie, but it seems that as soon as he forgets to shave the girls all swoon.

Not that i’m complaining, as a beard wearer i prefer more ladies to be into hairiness

When my atheist husband found me, I wasn’t completely convinced of the whole “No god” thing. I was right on the edge and just needed a tiny little nudge to non-belief.

Maybe single atheist men can just look for open minded thinkers and push them over? It certainly would open up more possibilities. But really, if someone isn’t a crazy “I speak the truth and you’re going to hell” religious person, it’s probably worth a shot if there is a true connection there.

First step for you might be “Move out of Cincinnati.” Or try the UU churches – one in Clifton, one in Finneytown. I had great conversations with atheists at both.