If Only These Pastors Would Share Their Secret with Their Congregations

A lot of Christian leaders have an opportunity to do the right thing on marriage equality before they get steamrolled by history.

So what’s stopping them? Just their Biblical convictions? That’s true for many… but not all of them, as Sally Quinn notes:

I have had a few religious leaders confide in me that they were not personally against gay marriage but could not take that position publicly for fear of losing their congregations. Think of the conflict and, yes, shame they must be feeling now and how it will only worsen with time. One day, they will have to come around or they really will lose their congregations. They have one thing going for them. Most religions believe in redemption. They’ll need to pray for it big-time.

As we’ve learned from so many of the graduates of the Clergy Project, when you carry a secret that would shock your congregation, saying it out loud can be devastating, but the freedom you get from having a clear conscience is sooooo worth it.

Or you can keep your job and continue preaching to a flock of bigots, watch all the teenagers leave the church never to come back, and further marginalize yourself while the rest of the world embraces equality.

Personally, I wouldn’t mind seeing that. But for the sake of the LGBT in my life, some of whom are still religious, it would be a powerful statement to make from the pulpit if those pastors had the courage to do the right thing.

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