Trading Bibles for Science

I already like this better than Smut for Smut.

The Eastern Connecticut Atheist and Freethinker Fellowship is holding a “Science for Bibles” exchange in which anyone can turn in a Bible and get a fantastic science book in return:

The event is being held to honor “The National Day of Reason,” an alternative to the sectarian “National Day of Prayer” also held on May 3rd each year. Anyone who brings a Bible to the event will receive a free copy of one of several scientific publications: Charles Darwin’s “Origin of Species,” Carl Sagan’s “Cosmos,” or Richard Dawkin’s “The Magic of Reality.”

I don’t know how they’re going to keep the atheists away… Hell, my Bible collection is *huge* and I could easily part with some of them for a few good science books. (Note to atheists: Stay away! Christians need these books more than you do!)

Group member Kristin Bales hopes the event will inspire atheists who are afraid to talk about their identity. “Coming out as an atheist in a Christian-dominated society can be a frightening thing,” she explains. “Our group provides a safe place to discuss your ideas without fear of rejection.”

If you’re someone who would genuinely like to trade your holy books for something worthwhile, the event occurs on May 3rd from 11:00a-3:00p in Putnam, CT at 189 Main Street.

You Won’t Believe What Great-Grandma Didn’t

Thomas Lawson recently published the book Letters from an Atheist Nation: Godless Voices of America in 1903. It transcribes articles that were written for the Blue Grass Blade, a freethought newspaper that’s over a century old, articles that answer the question, “Why are you an atheist?”

Check out the trailer:

It’s amazing that our great-grandparents were fighting the good fight over 100 years ago. (Well, not mine… because they were… you know… brown.) In some areas, we’ve made huge strides, but the fact that we’re still debating many of the same things shows we have a long way to go.

Sex & God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality: A Review and An Interview with Author Darrel Ray

The news has been at capacity lately with attacks on issues of sexual freedom, and this book by psychologist Dr. Darrel Ray could not be more important to us all.

Sex & God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality. The bold title and cover image of this book will supply you with endless entertainment from the odd glances you will receive; I made several people uncomfortable at Hobby Airport last month.

Religions of all kinds use our powerful sex drives to infect us with ideas that benefit the religion and hurt and inhibit our ability to be truly human.  Religion’s goal is to propagate religion.  Sex is one powerful method for achieving this.

Straight from the first page, this book flows naturally and Dr. Ray’s words come through as the voice of a good friend, explaining what your parents should have when they sat you down for the “big talk.”  This book systematically reveals the dangers of religious sexual programming, and guides you towards releasing these sexual shackles and live an ethical sex life, free from religious sanctions.

The chapters meander through the ills of religious influence on human sex and sexuality: from limiting our pleasure and shaming and controlling us, to creating unhealthy relationships with ourselves and others.  One point this book reinforces is that even if you are a secular person, religion is influential in your sex life.

At first, I was concerned that Sex & God would only be approached by secular people interested in the subject matter, but it seems palatable by a much wider audience and suitable for the secular and religious at a variety of life stages.  One feature of Darrel’s writing that I found quite useful was the inclusion of easy to process analogies, such as the following:

Religion tries to give us maps of sexuality that are no better than a 2,000-year-old map of my hometown.  In addition, each religion also tries to convince us that their map is never wrong or inaccurate.

Darrel’s extensive research on Sex and Secularism, referenced in this book, clearly shows that religion’s stranglehold on sex diminishes the quality of our lives.  If there was one message I took from Sex & God, it’s this: It’s due time to break free from religion’s grasp and embrace a healthy attitude towards sex and sexuality.  The control that religions have had our collective sex lives has lasted far too long and life is short.

You may think that these old scriptures mean little today, that nobody stones people for adultery or sells errant daughters into slavery, but millions of Jews and Christians actually read these Old Testament books and believe that their god dictated the words.  How can those words not have some impact?

Sex & God will help you begin a journey towards a satisfying secular sex life and help those around you develop one, too. 

An expert in the field of psychology for over 30 years, Dr. Darrel Ray holds degrees in religion, Sociology/Anthropology, and psychology. His curiosity of religion’s ability to infect minds led him to write The God Virus and Sex & God.

Darrel Ray, author of Sex & God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality

What advice would you give to people still struggling with religious residue in their sex lives?

There is no magic bullet, but changing your thinking about sex and sexuality is a good start. That is part of why I wrote Sex & God, to help people re-frame their thinking and reprogram themselves away from religious sexuality toward secular sexuality.

What is the most surprising response you have received to this book?

The number of people who have already written or pulled me aside to tell me how some part or other in the book really changed their view of their own sexuality. One lifelong atheist talked to me over coffee a few weeks ago; he went on for half an hour about how surprised he was to find so many religious ideas in his thinking. While he was never religious, he was raised in a religious family and had no idea how many things he had simply accepted without question from early training.

One woman wrote a very long email to tell me to say that she and her husband had two very long talks about the book that exposed a number of destructive religious ideas in their marriage. She actually thanked me for saving her marriage! These and many other responses, really are surprising.  I had no idea the book would have that kind of impact on people.

What is the most important message you would like readers to walk away with?

Examine your ideas about sexuality. Take a microscope to the things you have always believed. Look at ideas that may lurk just below your consciousness yet influence your behavior, body image, self esteem, etc. First and foremost, look at the “should’s” in your life. When I hear people saying, “I should this” or “I shouldn’t that” I hear religion talking — especially if it is related to sexuality.

Love yourself, love your body, its the only one you will ever have. Think about it, religion makes people feel guilty about normal behavior and desires. That has to have an effect on people.  It has to distort their view of themselves, their bodies, their relationships and much more. Being religious means believing you are never good enough; you are imperfect and in need of constant forgiveness, especially around sex.

What challenges did you face in bringing this book to fruition?

The biggest challenge was getting it just right. This is a huge subject on a very sensitive topic. I wanted to stay close to the science be careful to not to go places the science does not support. At the same time, the science is moving fast, so I wanted to make sure my conclusions were on solid ground and based on research that was not likely to change. Beyond that, the writing was a pure joy. This is my fourth book and who knows how many articles I have published. When I am writing a book, I write every day for a few hours. It becomes a part of almost every day. When the project is finished, I seem to go through withdrawal. Sex and God is a subject that has been near and dear to me for decades, so to write a complete work on the topic is a unique opportunity.

Do you expect to explore sex and sexuality in a future book?

I am just focusing on this book right now. I have no idea what I might write next — if anything. For me, writing a book is very organic and exhausting. I have ideas for months or years, then one day I start writing and a book appears! When I started writing The God Virus, I thought I was writing an article or two or three … I was writing a book before I knew it.  I am very fortunate to have two wonderful editors who have worked with me on my last three books. They keep things tight and focused when I go off on the details of the sex lives of 48 Amazonian tribes in Brazil — that got edited out — but it sure is interesting.

What are you working on now?

I am working on promoting the book which means doing a HUGE amount of travel and speaking.  As an author, I am fortunate that I enjoy speaking as much or more than writing. In the 6 weeks since the book came out I have given a dozen talks and have another 30 or so scheduled in the next 4-6 months. Next to sex itself, there is nothing like talking about sex to a group of people, hungry for new ways to think about their sexuality and anxious to eliminate religious sex from their lives.  It is incredibly gratifying.

If readers would like to read up on sexual freedom, are there any books you would recommend?

Yes, there are a number of great resources. First I would recommend Sex at Dawn, by [Christopher] Ryan and [Cacilda] Jethá.  I think it is the second best work on the subject.  I’ll let you guess what is the first best.  Next I would say, The Myth of Monogamy by [David] Barash and [Judith] Lipton; they really cracked the egg open on how humans and other species mate. Next, I recommend The Ethical Slut by [Dossie] Easton and [Janet] Hardy. Ironically, I think Robert Heinlein’s Stranger in a Strange Land, is one of the best books on human sexuality. I don’t read fiction much — especially science fiction — but around 1990 a friend of mine kept insisting that I read it. I finally did and have been grateful ever since. There are many books on sex and sexuality, but far too many of them have a spiritual or religious tone; there is plenty to learn and appreciate about our sexuality without throwing invisible forces and spirits.

According to Book Describing Members of the Vineyard Church, ‘God Is Not Unlike a Stuffed Snoopy’

In a New Yorker review of T. M. Luhrmann‘s “When God Talks Back: Understanding the American Evangelical Relationship with God,” Joan Acocella points out how desperate members of the Vineyard church are to point out their relationship with god… and how every meaningless action seems to be a sign from him:

This casualness carries over to conversations with God. The Vineyarders asked him “for admission to specific colleges, for the healing of specific illness — even, it is true, for specific red convertible cars.” Some Vineyard women had a regular “date night” with Jesus. They would serve a special dinner, set a place for him at the table, chat with him. He guided the Vineyarders every minute of the day. Sarah told Luhrmann how, one day, after a lunch at a restaurant with fellow-parishioners, she was feeling good about herself, whereupon, as she was crossing the parking lot, a bird shat on her blouse. God, she explained to Luhrmann, was giving her a little slap on the wrist for her self-satisfaction.

Bonus points to Acocella for getting the word “shat” into the New Yorker.

She also points out how the author (an anthropologist) compares this group’s religious beliefs to that of an imaginary best friend:

Not surprisingly, Luhrmann compares the Vineyarders’ beliefs to children’s thought processes. She discusses their views in relation to D. W. Winnicott’s theories about transitional objects. For some evangelicals, she says, God is not unlike a stuffed Snoopy.

Cue the religious hordes getting angry. Because it’s always mockery or insults when someone point out the obvious.

(Thanks to thenoisyoyster for the link!)

The American Humanist Association Gets Into ePublishing

The American Humanist Association announced yesterday that Humanist Press — their publishing arm since 1995 — would now be the first freethought publisher to put out brand new books in electronic form (for Kindles, Nooks, etc). (Note: Prometheus Books, which also focuses on the freethought community, puts out ebooks as well, but their focus has historically been on the print versions.)

It’s the AHA’s attempt to break into the burgeoning ebook world and it stands to be fairly successful. There aren’t too many publishers for atheist books but there’s an audience out there that’s hungry for them.

Working with e-publishing software from Impelsys, Humanist Press ebooks will take full advantage of the available features, including interactive reader commentary, author videos, and useful web links. Ebooks from Humanist Press will be available at all the major online sites, including Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Google Ebooks, and the Apple iBookstore. They will also be available from our own website: www.humanistpress.com.

The first title to be released under HP will be Herb Silverman‘s Candidate Without A Prayer: An Autobiography of a Jewish Atheist in the Bible Belt. (A hardcover edition of the book will be published simultaneously, courtesy of Pitchstone Publishing.)

Last week, the AHA announced this endeavor at the National Press Club:

There’s another potential upside to this. If AHA can make this work, it means 1) More atheist authors could find exposure for their work and 2) There could be more competition in the atheist publishing world, leading to a more diverse assortment of books for us.

Right now, most of the books for atheists put out by mainstream publishers are all about disproving the existence of god or showing why religion is bad. Think Richard Dawkins, Sam Harris, Daniel Dennett, Christopher Hitchens — great books but not a ton of variety. They’re geared toward people who still believe in god, not at those of us who already know better.

With more publishers focused exclusively on our community, and more opportunities to publish books, you may start to see, for example, an uptick in books about raising families without religion, books for children of atheist parents, books about dealing with religious friends/family, etc.

Right now, those books might be out there, but they have a tough time finding an audience — or a publisher. This venture has a lot of potential, so let’s hope it succeeds.

Hide That Naughty Word from All the Christians!

When I wrote I Sold My Soul on Ebay, the Christian publishers had two rules regarding my writing:

1) Every mention of God had to be capitalized. (It didn’t make a difference to me.)

2) You can’t swear. (It wasn’t an issue since I usually don’t, anyway…)

After that, they let me write whatever I wanted and they helped me along the way.

Rachel Held Evans is writing a book for a (different) Christian publisher in which she follows the Bible as literally as possible regarding how to be a good Christian woman. One of the passages deals with her own upbringing and the abstinence movement:

I signed my first abstinence pledge when I was just fifteen. I’d been invited by some friends to a fall youth rally at the First Baptist Church, and in the fellowship hall one night, the youth leader passed around neon blue and pink postcards that included a form letter to God promising to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. We had only a few minutes to add our signatures, and all my friends were signing theirs, so I used the back of my metal chair to scribble my name across the dotted line before marching to the front of the room to pin my promise to God and to my vagina onto a giant corkboard for all to see. The youth leader said he planned to hang the corkboard in the hallway outside the sanctuary so that parents could marvel at the seventy-five abstinence pledges he’d collected that night. It was a pretty cheap way to treat both our bodies and God, come to think of it.

The publishers have a slight problem with that passage.

It contains the word “vagina.” And not in a strictly anatomical way, either, but in a way that suggests it has a purpose outside of post-marriage-baby-making.

Rachel writes on her site:

My editor noted that it would be tough to get this particular reference to “vagina” through the Christian bookstore gatekeepers, so we took it out and replaced it with…sigh… “privates.” (I know, I know.)

The issue, Rachel says, wasn’t with the publishers so much as the fact that certain Christian bookstores wouldn’t carry the book if it contained that word. And that would hurt book sales. So she was tempted to side with her publishers (Thomas Nelson) on this one…

But then she realized that Thomas Nelson had put out some books by male authors and the same rules didn’t seem to apply. Once again, I quote Rachel verbatim:

… in To Own a Dragon, the ever-talented Donald Miller writes, “I felt as though all the men in the world secretly met in some warehouse late at night to talk about man things, to have secret handshakes, to discuss how great it was to have a penis and what an easy thing it was to operate…”

So it’s fine when he writes “penis,” but it’s not ok when she writes “vagina”?

What’s up with that? What do the evangelical book publishers fear will happen? That Christian girls are going to open up Rachel’s book and somehow realize for the first time that — Oh my god! I have a vagina!?

I hope Rachel fights to keep that word in there. Whatever she loses in sales by not having the book appear in certain Christian bookstores, I’m sure she’ll make up in online sales from people who support an author who stands up for women, fights hypocrisy within the Christian world, and has, you know, some integrity.

Greta Christina’s Wonderful New eBook Is Now Available

Several years ago, Greta Christina wrote a post about why atheists are angry that still resonates with a lot of people today.

She has now fleshed out those thoughts and turned it into a wonderful new book, Why Are You Atheists So Angry? 99 Thing That Piss Off the Godless:

I read it a few weeks ago and wasn’t kidding or exaggerating when I offered this blurb:

Greta has done something truly impressive with this book: She explains in a calm, reasonable, and thoughtful way exactly why she’s a pissed-off, angry atheist. She’s not alone, though, and it’s not only other atheists who will agree with her. In fact, I *dare* religious people to read this book and not come away furious at the often awful impact faith has had on the world, even if they don’t believe they’re responsible for it. I may be a “friendly atheist” online, but Greta definitely speaks for me in this book.

Even if you’re an atheist and know damn well why you’re angry, treat yourself to this book. I know, it’s like you’re buying a book designed to frustrate you, but it’ll also inspire you to channel your rage into action. Better yet, tell your religious friends to buy it. They need to understand where we’re coming from.

If Kindle isn’t your thing, the book will be available for the Nook and in print form soon.

Greta, congratulations for doing something monumental and timely — It takes a lot of work to put together a book like this, especially without the help of a publisher or agent. When you’re that talented and savvy, you don’t need either.

Do We Have Free Will? Sam Harris Says No

Today marks the release of Sam Harris‘ new eBook, Free Will. A couple of exclusive excerpts from the book are below!

I had a chance to read the book a couple of weeks ago. As someone who prefers to avoid most philosophical discussions, I found this book easy to understand and quick to read. I’m in no place to argue for or against his thesis, but Harris definitely leaves you with a lot of food for thought and presents some compelling anecdotes to hammer his points home.

After discussing the cases of two criminals:

As sickening as I find their behavior, I have to admit that if I were to trade places with one of these men, atom for atom, I would be him: There is no extra part of me that could decide to see the world differently or to resist the impulse to victimize other people. Even if you believe that every human being harbors an immortal soul, the problem of responsibility remains: I cannot take credit for the fact that I do not have the soul of a psychopath. If I had truly been in Komisarjevsky’s shoes on July 23, 2007 — that is, if I had his genes and life experience and an identical brain (or soul) in an identical state — I would have acted exactly as he did. There is simply no intellectually respectable position from which to deny this. The role of luck, therefore, appears decisive.

On the choices we make in life:

Take a moment to think about the context in which your next decision will occur: You did not pick your parents or the time and place of your birth. You didn’t choose your gender or most of your life experiences. You had no control whatsoever over your genome or the development of your brain. And now your brain is making choices on the basis of preferences and beliefs that have been hammered into it over a lifetime — by your genes, your physical development since the moment you were conceived, and the interactions you have had with other people, events, and ideas. Where is the freedom in this? Yes, you are free to do what you want even now. But where did your desires come from?


Penn Jillette’s Next Book

Penn Jillette got quite a bit of attention for his book God, No!: Signs You May Already Be an Atheist and Other Magical Tales:

Publishers Lunch is now announcing (via email) that Jillette just signed a deal to write a sequel:

NYT bestselling author of GOD, NO! and larger half of magic act Penn & Teller, Penn Jillette’s EVERY DAY IS AN ATHEIST HOLIDAY, a new collection of spiritual rants and humorous ravings, spanning the hidden horrors of Christmas carols, family celebrations, Fourth of July, Halloween and beyond, to Sarah Hochman at Blue Rider Press, for publication in November 2012, by Agency for the Performing Arts (World).

Just in time for when you’re buying Christmas gifts…

Neil deGrasse Tyson’s Latest Book Will Be Published Next Week

So, Neil deGrasse Tyson’s latest book Space Chronicles: Facing the Ultimate Frontier comes out next week! (And, says one commenter, it’s already available on Kindle.) Who’s excited? You’re excited.

The book explores “NASA and the future of space travel.”

Dr. Tyson referenced some of the contents of the book in an interview for this site last summer.