A “shotgun wedding” refers to a couple getting married because the woman had gotten pregnant. (The term conjures up the image of her father pointing his shotgun at the groom.) That doesn’t happen so much anymore. Instead, according to a recent study, we are having “shotgun cohabitation,” in which getting pregnant becomes the impetus for the couple living together.
Now this is bad, but it also is a testimony to something good. The mother and the father need to be together to raise a child. That is, in fact, one of the natural foundations of marriage. But even when marriage is dismissed and even when this ideal is often not realized, the impulse remains for parents to take care of their child. And at least half of the cohabiting parents are still together after five years.
The study also shows that cohabitation has become the “poor person’s marriage.” [Read more...]