The past couple of months have been a rather grueling time. I knew moving an entire household would be difficult work, but I wasn’t prepared for just how long the process would drag on. There are still boxes of non-essential items littering my living room and hallway as I try to find ‘a place for everything and everything in its place’.
There were many little bumps along the way; situations I hadn’t foreseen or planned for. Lots of these were, of course, mundane considerations. How exactly do you pack boxes of clothes for five people and then continue to wear clean clothes each day until those boxes are finally unpacked? Exactly how many boxes of books will my friends carry up three flights of stairs? But many of these questions came from my spiritual practice, and specifically my religious items.
We’ve all heard the jokes about Pagans being a bunch of magpies, and Heathens generally have a fair amount of their own religious ‘bling’. I am no exception. A certain amount of that is our consumerist culture, but I think much of it also stems from the inherent physicality of our religions. For many Christians, a bible is a bible is a bible, and it is holy in the same way as any other bible. Our religions are very different.
A necklace I dedicated and gave to Freyja, a statue of Nerthus that has been processed around my land many years in a row, my great grandfather’s tie clip: these things are sacred to me in a way that no other necklace, statue, or tie clip can claim. They cannot be replaced if they are broken or lost, and even packing them in boxes feels as if it should be done with a certain amount of reverence. I can’t just pull them off the altar and toss them in a box with my mounds of craft supplies or instrument cables.
For most Heathens, these altar items are only one aspect of moving from one place to another. Land wights and house spirits must also be considered. Some Heathens believe their house wights move with them from home to home; others believe that each home has its own wights that it is helpful to establish a reciprocal relationship with. Personally, I come from a home where my mother and grandmother often talked about the spirit of the house – or as my mother came to call it later, the house’s personality.
I am inclined to feel that each place has its own distinct personality and wight, intrinsically tied to that place and generally unmoving. So leaving my old home means not only leaving behind the sights and spirits of familiar trees, flowers, and wildlife; but also the spirit of the building itself. Making myself a home in a new place means that I must get to know the wights that dwell there, become comfortable with them and allow them to get to know me.
- Before moving anything into your new home, make sure to greet the local wights. This means the spirits of the land as well as the house wights. Every spirit is a little different, but generally my house spirits have liked homey and nice-smelling things. Tea, fresh baked cookies, oils that smell like apple pie, things like that. If a realtor might use it to make a place seem more inviting, your house wights will probably like it. Remember that even today, the hearth/kitchen is the heart of the home; you will likely have the most success reaching out to the spirits there.
- Make your altar one of the last things you pack and the first you unpack. This sends a clear signal about your priorities not only to the wights, but also to your Gods and ancestors. They are one of the most important things in my life, and little gestures like this go a long way towards showing that.
- Say some words over your altar when packing and unpacking. It’s probably obvious, but it’s good to be clear to everyone involved about what’s going on. If you’re smart, you probably asked your ancestors for their advice prior to committing to a new place to live; but even if you did it’s good to give them a heads up. Just like older relatives who love to receive calls about the events in your life, big or small, your ancestors will likely be a little miffed if you don’t let them know you’re moving.
- Before completely leaving your old home, thank the spirits there who have helped and supported you. Even if their help and support was just not bothering you during your stay, they deserve your thanks.
And there you have it! I can’t come and pack boxes for anyone (at least not until mine are unpacked) but hopefully you can avoid any unforeseen spiritual hiccups by giving some consideration to the sacred things and the spirits that surround us.