A year of animals, blogging and Patheos

Bandit, Bailey and Scout, summer 2011. A year later, two dogs are still here, and they can't be left alone together in the same room.

I was excited this week to receive a notecard in the mail from the staff at Patheos, congratulating me on my one year anniversary blogging about animals and faith.

Really? A whole year? Where did the time go?

I love writing here. The columnists, bloggers and editors have been kind and welcoming, and I love hearing from readers who have shared photos, shared thoughts and engaged in discussions on a variety of animal-related topics. It’s been a nice change from my decade-plus experience covering entertainment.

Personally, life is a lot different at my house, animal-wise. Last year at this time, I had three dogs who were happily enjoying life. Two were my Border collies, and one was a rescue pup we’d been fostering and had just decided to keep.

By the end of May 2011, our oldest dog Scout would be diagnosed with an aggressive form of digestive cancer and given 30 days to live. Adding to the stress, as summer progressed the newest member of the family proved to be a challenge as she incorporated herself into the dog pack. There were escalating fights, fights that by fall had resulted in stitches (for darling husband, who was injured trying to break up a fight) and injuries to Bandit that required he and Scout to be separated from their sister and that Bailey be looking for a new home.

We ended 2011 with Scout still here, but his end was clearly in sight; he and Bandit were living in one part of the house, Bailey in another, to avoid fights between Bailey and her brothers. And me? I was an emotional wreck.

Here we are in May 2012. Thankfully, Scout defied the doctor’s 30 day predictions; he passed away this past January, seven months post-diagnosis. Except for his last few weeks, you would never have known he was sick. God is really so good to our animals.

We’ve been actively looking for a new home for Bailey, where she can be the only dog, but there are more dogs than homes available, and despite the fact that she’s a fabulous dog when she’s not with Bandit, we haven’t had any takers. So we’ve been doing extensive training and behavior modification with Bailey and Bandit, and while they still can’t be left alone together, in the last month or so have been able to take them for walks. In public. Together. Without fights.

That’s progress, my friends. Fabulous progress.

Living proof that lots of love, patience and positive-training methods can work miracles. Look, their tails are touching and no one is bleeding!

Those experiences have been fodder for writing, but also offered me some great opportunities to expand my circle of animal friends.

I’ve met a lot of very passionate  people in the animal welfare community who do a lot of behind-the-scenes dirty work most pet owners never see. They deal with the most neglected animals, see the most abusive situations, and deal with some of the most miserable people you could ever imagine. I love that I’m able to give voice to their causes. Getting to see the bigger animal welfare picture has been eye-opening, to say the least.

I’ve had the opportunity to shadow a local dog trainer, take more training classes, indulge my passion for dog communication and behavior, and then share that information to help readers learn how to have better relationships with their pets.

Professionally, though, I’ve learned that taking on issues in the animal community in my blog can sometimes put a bull’s eye square on your back, regardless of what side of the issue you’re on. For example, say that Cesar Milan is an interesting guy with a great heart for animals and get attacked by his opponents. Say you don’t like some of his methods and get attacked by his fans. I expected that kind of angry response (and got it) when I wrote about Christianity and entertainment. I didn’t expect it when I started writing about animals.

But that’s OK. In the end, just like in the Christian community (where I felt the friendship and wrath of readers for more than decade) the good far, far outweighs the bad. I’m glad to be here and glad to be able to learn from my fellow Patheos bloggers, to share ideas, and to hear from readers whose views on animal rescue, dog behavior and other animal issues fall across a broad spectrum.

It’s been a good year. Here’s to another! Woof!

Bake a cake to celebrate the Dog Whisperer’s 150th episode and you could win a call from Cesar Millan

OK, Cesar Millan fans, enemies and cake bakers extraordinaire: What I am about to say is either going to make you very happy or make you so mad you’ll throw darts at my picture just because I shared this news*:

Nat Geo Wild, the channel from National Geographic that is home to Cesar Millan’s the “Dog Whisperer,” is celebrating the show’s 150th episode with a cake contest. Between now and Friday, February 10th at midnight, bake a cake in honor of the “Dog Whisperer”‘s 150th show – the topic that night is “Home-Wrecking Hounds”, if you need an idea – and then post a photo of your cake to Instagram with the tags #natgeowild and #happy150.

Select photos will be featured on the Nat Geo WILD Facebook page throughout the week leading up to the premiere of Dog Whisperer’s 150th episode on Saturday, February 11th at 8:00 p.m. ET/PT. Cesar’s favorite cake will be announced on Instagram during the premiere. The winning photo will be featured on the homepage of CesarsWay.com and the winner will receive a call from the Dog Whisperer himself.

What would would you do with a few minutes of Cesar Millan’s undivided attention on the phone? Chat about dog behavior or training methods? Discuss cake decorating? Sing a birthday song in Spanish? Well, get baking and decorating, and you may have the chance!

Nat Geo WILD and National Geographic Channel recently joined Instagram as @NatGeoChannels to share photos of upcoming shows and behind-the-scenes happenings.  Follow @NatGeoChannels on Instagram for more information. You can read the entire press release here.

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* And now, since I have your attention, I need to get something off my chest:

I do not hate Cesar Millan, despite what many of  you have inferred from my review of his appearance here in Rochester. I think he’s a super entertaining, nice guy. I don’t necessarily dig all of his training methods, but you can’t fault the guy for his commitment to animals, to shelter dogs, to raising awareness about problems with owners and helping them understand where they’ve missed the mark. I found a lot that he says that I agree with; I also think if we had coffee we’d talk a lot about where we disagree.

So my advice to you is this: if you bake, if you have a barkery, if you like to design cakes but you are not a Cesar Millan fan, set aside those differences and have some fun. It’s great publicity for your business, if nothing else. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that it’s lot better to find ways to get along with people in the hopes of opening an honest dialogue than just b*tching and moaning nonstop across Facebook and the internet about what a jerk he is, or what a jerk I am, or what a jerk anyone is who doesn’t publicly condemn him and everything he’s ever done. There. I’ve said what I wanted to say. Now get baking! What are you waiting for?

(PS: If you’re planning to bake a cake for me to eat or for you to throw at my face, I like white cake with chocolate frosting …)

If dogs think and feel, do aversive training techniques cause harm?

“It’s better to be hurt by someone you know, accidentally, than by a stranger, on purpose.” – Dwight K Schrute, “The Office”

Oh boy. Dog trainers are butting heads again over a post on Ruth Crisler’s blog, called “Undo Temperance.” Butting heads figuratively, of course. Because we don’t want to ever butt heads literally. That would be aversive. Although if I understand Crisler’s post, she’s not opposed to an occasional aversive head butt.

But I could be misreading the whole thing. In which case you can yank my collar or give me a cookie. Whichever method  you prefer.

I read Crisler’s post at the request of a friend who saw my review of the Cesar Millan event in Rochester, NY. It was my first experience with Millan, so I wrote what I thought and felt and saw and experienced. Who knew a review could cause such a ruckus? (Or that so many people don’t understand the concept of a review?)

Just so we’re clear, when it comes to dog training, I’m the idiot in the room – it’s engraved on my collar, in rhinestones. “Idiot.” (See, I saved you the trouble of having to point that out when you comment!)

And as another disclaimer: I cannot nor do I desire to respond to Crisler’s entire post, word for word. Again, I’m an idiot. And I’m not a dog trainer. But there are a few things that caught my eye and I’d like to share some thoughts.

Crisler opens the post with this question to dog trainers:

“If your dog was to be subjected to an aversive, would you rather it occurred randomly or control the timing yourself?”

She points out that if an accidental “aversive”, like stubbing a toe while catching a Frisbee, doesn’t harm a dog forever, then a purposeful aversive shouldn’t either. She writes: [Read more...]

Review: Cesar Millan’s The Pack Leader Tour

Last night I attended "An Evening With Cesar Millan" at the Auditorium Theater in Rochester, NY.

Last night I attended the Rochester, NY appearance of America’s most famous dog trainer, Cesar Millan, in town for his “The Pack Leader” tour.

In the interest of full disclosure, until that point my exposure to Millan was limited. I’d never seen his show, never seen him train a dog or talk about training a dog, never read his book (although I do have a copy of “Cesar’s Way”, picked up at the used bookstore, in my to-read pile).

I had seen him profiled on CBS Sunday Morning and found him charming and interesting, and was impressed that he had about 30 dogs off leash while I was at my wit’s end with three warring dogs and a cat. Woof!

So when people talked about what a horrible, inhumane trainer Cesar Millan is, I really didn’t have an opinion about him one way or the other. As a Christian, I’ve been on the receiving end of the judgmental finger pointing so I try to avoid doing that to others. I’d heard comments that ranged from “He’s rude” to “Let’s get the shotguns”. Honestly, I can’t form an opinion based on that. I needed to see for myself.

And after watching Millan’s performance last night, I now have an opinion. [Read more...]