Out of the (little black) Box

Thanks to my friend Russ for taking this pic of all the poor souls at Target last night. If it comes a storm in the Dallas/Fort Worth area tonight, these dudes are all set.

Hey. Watch this real quick. When you're done tossing your pink frosted cookies, come back and we'll chat: Love Story, or beginning of epic slasher flick? Ok. Thanks for coming back. Now, where do we begin: a)terrible acting, b) shameless commercialization of love, or c) icky gender roles and the notion that women are afraid of loud noises? I'm going to go with 'all of the above' and say D) The dangerous notion that love can fit into a little black box. Advertisers have their way … [Read more...]

The Risk of Relationship

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A follow-up to yesterday's discussion re: "Moral Compromise."  We are talking about the beginnings of transformation. The sharing of real stories, real relationships; engaging open discourse and genuine interest in those we mark as 'other.'  Time and again we find that once an 'opinion' or an 'issue' becomes about a real live person, everything changes. That truth goes both ways. Always. There is still a long way to go down the road to equality and inclusion of LGBT folks, in all … [Read more...]

$*^! Jesus Says: Wedding Edition

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Mary: Jesus, you aren't going to believe this. They have run out of wine. Jesus: I told you this was going to be a lame party. I totally didn't want to come. Mary: Yes, well, but i knew there would be some nice girls here... Jesus: ANYway...i guess somebody's going to have to make a run. Mary: Yes, I suppose. Unless...well, you know. You could do some party tricks. Jesus: Woman! And of course, I mean "woman" in the most sincere and respectful tone, and not at all the the … [Read more...]

The Rhythms of Grace

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Last week, I signed my 4-year-old daughter up for her first dance class. !!  I bought tights and leotards, and she's been wearing them around the house for weeks now. I'm trying to teach her the grande jette. Because, you know, it is always preferable to begin the (beginner, toddler, community center) class from a more advanced perspective than your peers. Oh, yeah. I'm going to be that mom. Consider yourselves forewarned. Thing is, while the 'retired' dance teacher in me is thrilling at … [Read more...]

In Due Time

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Guest post: Kent Somers is Sports Writer for the Arizona Republic. He covers the AZ Cardinals and the NFL. When he's not on the road, doing the most awesome job ever, he worships and serves at Foothills Christian Church. You can follow him on twitter the rest of the time. What are you waiting for? As a young(er) person, I thought life moved at my pace and on my timetable. College, marriage, job, kids; I wouldn’t say I saw them as tasks that needed to be completed, but they were on the … [Read more...]

To Sing While We Wait

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Our new baby nephew was born in Kentucky very early this morning. I'm reminded of how much waiting for Christmas--if you do it right--is like the experience of waiting for a real and actual baby. Much anticipation, a little discomfort (more than a little if you are the mother!) and such good news of great joy upon arrival. When the gift of new life comes to any family, it affirms our hope of a future, and the certainty of God's presence and faithfulness in all things. I'm sharing an Advent … [Read more...]

Week 1, Day 4: Our Every Gift

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When I was a sophomore in college, my grandparents got new furniture, and got rid of the old. Among the outgoing stuff: two slate blue, la-z-boy recliners. They were, honestly, the most comfortable chairs on the planet. Plush and inviting, they rocked, they leaned back, they had just enough give and just enough support to make for the perfect sitting situation. Imagine my great joy upon learning that these chairs needed new homes. One of them came to live with me, and transformed my tiny dorm … [Read more...]

A Measure of Elf Awareness

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I’ll just admit it. The Elf on the Shelf creeps me out. I mean, something that watches every move I make, reports back to Santa, and can run around my house at night? No, thank you. Jenny, the fabulous Bloggess, expressed distaste for said elf more aptly and colorfully than i ever could. But don't go see her if you find my language to be occasionally borderline or offensive. Let's just say, she does not use %*$&#@ symbols. She's not a preacher. She can say what she means. But language … [Read more...]

An Empty House

A Tao of Christmas shopping, from a wannabe minimalist: So, i buy most of my kids' clothes at consignment sales. Also sell stuff there, so i almost break even. I go to this one sale twice a year (because it is at my church and i get to shop early!) While i'm shopping for clothes, i also keep my eyes peeled for good toys at super cheap prices. I buy a few here and there, so by the time Christmas rolls around, I buy each kid one new thing, and i'm pretty much done. They get about 4 gifts each, … [Read more...]

Thin Places: Sanctuary

I love Halloween. Seriously, when else do you get to be a rockstar-gypsy-cowgirl AND eat lots of candy? Ok, maybe i do that every day, but still. On Halloween, it's FESTIVE. And there are decorations, and the candy-calories don't count (as everybody knows). And this year, i had the joy of trick-or-treating with my kids, on the first year they were big enough to really get it. And there is nothing like watching them march up to the door with the big kids and take their place in the order of … [Read more...]