PHOENIX — The greatest traditions sometimes start by accident.
Just ask Jamal Hinton and Wanda Dench. The Tempe teen and Mesa grandmother were brought together last year by an accidental Thanksgiving invitation text message, and they reunited this week to have a second helping and cement a tradition.
“It was really nice having everybody here,” Dench told The Arizona Republic on Saturday. “We got to laugh about last year and reminisce about how it all blew up on our phone and how I had to change my number. We had a laugh and a good time.”
Wrong number, right time
Need a rundown of the inadvertent dinner invite seen ’round the world?
Dench intended to send the Nov. 15, 2016, group text message to a few family members, inviting them over for Thanksgiving dinner. But one grandson had changed his number six months earlier and failed to mention it to Grandma.
It instead wound up going to Hinton, then a 17-year-old high schooler.
The ensuing text message conversation was instant Internet gold. …
As the posts took life, the Internet had a very reasonable question about a very real conundrum: Do you honor the accidental invitation and have the stranger over for dinner?
The answer was yes for Dench. Because that’s what grandmas do. …
Fast-forward to this year, and Hinton said he and Dench have chatted about once a week. She usually asks about his future plans — law school and becoming a sports agent. He looks forward to hearing about how the rest of the family is doing.
He thinks of her in some ways like an adopted grandmother. She made 2017’s dinner invitation official about a month ago, and they locked in the time a couple weeks ago, sans the side of social-media hubbub.
“For him to continue with the relationship, I’m just really pleasantly surprised,” Dench said. “We’re more of extended family and, best of all, friends.”
This year’s dinner was more subdued, which was a welcome change. Dench met Hinton’s girlfriend, Mikaela Grubbs, and the family — extended and otherwise — spent the afternoon together. That is, before Hinton left to go to his other grandmother’s house.
Dench offered Hinton a “standing invitation” for Thanksgiving dinner going forward.
And Hinton gladly accepted.
“The world is becoming a better place than it used to be,” Hinton said Saturday. “I’m loving it. I love that you don’t have to know someone or know their background to be nice to them.”
Hinton redeemed himself this year, too.
He brought the pumpkin pie.