The very definition of wrong


Got in the letter below. I answer following it. Dear John, I am currently in a relationship with another female. We have been together for a year now. She comes from a very conservative Christian background. She is in a constant battle with God over being in an intimate relationship with a female. She has [Read More...]

Is suicide a sin?


A young woman with reason to wonder asks if committing suicide is a sin. [Read more...]

Dear gayophobic Christian parents of America


“Prayer warriors needed to help me fight Satan for the soul of my daughter!” she wrote on Facebook. [Read more...]

My elderly parents have chosen a church that rejects me


What do you do when your parents choose a church that they know condemns you? [Read more...]

Southern Baptist pastor accepts his gay son, changes his church.


UPDATE: Pastor Danny and his son Drew were invited to the White House on June 30! Hi John, I wanted to introduce myself to you. My name is Danny Cortez and I pastor a small Southern Baptist Church in La Mirada, CA. We’re about a mile from Biola University in a very conservative neighborhood. Anyway, [Read More...]

Dancing cheek to cheek to cheek?


Dear John, As I read through your interview with a polyamorous woman (1 Man, 2 Women In A Polyamorous Relationship), I found myself tearing up. Because the woman you spoke with explained the whole love dynamic that I have been experiencing in my life for so long. I also appreciated her making the point that [Read More...]

My mom died late last night; I fear she is now in hell


This just came into my inbox. I know I don’t have to say this, but if you respond (and I believe she would like you to) please do so with all care and love. Dear John, My name is [K.], and I am 20 years old. I have never written or commented before now, though [Read More...]

To be young, gay, Christian, and afraid


That people want the Bible to say that being gay is a sin tells you more than anyone should have to know about people, and nothing whatsoever about God. [Read more...]

A gay ex-Christian stumbles over God Talk


Why should you let what others have done to Jesus ruin what Jesus has done for you? [Read more...]

A biblical man attracted to transgender women


All God wants is for you to be whomever you are—whomever he/she made you to be—with integrity and character. [Read more...]