Taking out the garbage your parents taught you about yourself

A theme central to much of the work I do on my blog and with my writing clients (and to the novel I recently finished writing) is how essential it is for anyone seeking for themselves a better psychological life to properly and thoroughly analyze and assess their childhood relationship with their parents, especially if, as adults, they [Read More…]

Psychopaths sleep just fine

The fact that you’re worrying about whether you’re good proves that you’re good. [Read more…]

Here’s what happens when you yell at your employees

Never yell at your employees. Here’s why. [Read more…]

5 ways to make your girlfriend (or boyfriend) kind of start hating you

I get a lot of letters from men worried that they’re blowing their relationship with the woman they passionately love. Here are five things they’re doing wrong. [Read more…]

10 Reasons It’s Wrong to Evangelize in the Workplace

LADIES AND GENTLEMEN! Welcome to the first of three rounds in this Head to Head debate sponsored by Patheos.com! [Read more…]

Sexual abuse and the pressure to forgive

If you’ve been sexually abused, the last thing on earth you need to worry about is forgiving your abuser. [Read more…]

She has no sex drive. Is it immoral to allow her husband to sleep with his ex?

Is it immoral for a woman without a sex drive to allow her husband to have sexual relationships with his ex? [Read more…]

Dear happy celebrators of Mother’s Day

Something to share with those who maybe don’t quite get where you’re coming from. [Read more…]

When your parents love who they want you to be more than who you really are

Sometimes all it takes is a kind word or two. [Read more…]

10 Tips for Becoming an Amazing Husband

Hey, you don’t stay married for 35 years without learning a thing or two … [Read more…]