That lovable man who abuses you


One reason some women remain in abusive relationships that no one ever talks about. [Read more...]

Healthy self-esteem or narcissist? Here’s how to tell!


We’re all attracted to confident people. The problem lies in the two kinds of people who exude it. [Read more...]

All there is to say about Ferguson


The revolution will be live. [Read more...]

Dude: Being a Christian doesn’t mean your girlfriend has to be one, too


He says that he wants to be with her, but can’t because she’s not a Christian. [Read more...]

Her husband wants to explore his bisexuality


Her husband wants to sleep with a man. How should she feel about this? [Read more...]

What sexual abuse steals from its victims–and how they can get it back


Young people who are sexually abused by someone they love are through that trauma robbed of something essential that those never so betrayed keep intact with them throughout their lives: their ability to trust in themselves to know when they are safe and when they are not. The lesson abused kids learn is that in [Read More...]

Tell me/us about your weather


What’s going on with the weather where you live? [Read more...]

The mother we never had


If your mother’s unhappiness—her pain, her dysfunction, her drama—was more precious to her than you could ever be. [Read more...]

Your abuser can’t know himself like you know him


This is for anyone in an abusive relationship. [Read more...]

Yoga pants in public


Walking to our car after our yoga class last night my wife and I were chatting about her wearing her yoga pants in public. [Read more...]