And I Thought I Knew How to Pray…

I have known Vinny Flynn for years.  I’ve seen him at the Catholic Marketing Network and various other events in the Catholic world.  I’ve prayed with Vinny and his family, leading the Divine Mercy Chaplet from their post in the front pew on EWTN.

But I’ve never read any of his books—until now.

Flynn, the best-selling author of 7 Secrets of the Eucharist, has just released a very helpful guide to Eucharistic adoration, called 21 Ways to Worship.

Whether you are a regular visitor to the adoration chapel, or you are still wondering whether to dip your toes into the still pond of silent prayer, Vinny’s little book will inspire you. 

If you visit Jesus on His own turf frequently, you’ll appreciate Vinny’s helpful ideas for strengthening your prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.  If you’ve never been in the chapel on a quiet night, Vinny offers advice to make you at ease and to help you deepen your life in Christ.
Some examples:

  • Keep a journal, in which you write while in the presence of the Eucharistic Lord;
  • Tuck photos of loved ones under the red and white rays in the image of the Divine Mercy, then imagine Jesus touching each of them;
  • Stop your own prayer and just wait patiently, listening to what God has to say to you.
  • Don’t be afraid to pray to Our Lady during your time in the chapel.  Would you be upset if someone visited your home and talked to your mother?
  • Pray the Divine Office, the Liturgy of the Hours.  If words are difficult to find, the beautiful rhythms and the love evident in the Psalms can inspire you.  And you’ll know that you’re praying with the universal Church—that all over the world, priests and religious (and an increasing number of lay people) are praying with you.
  • In “Get a Tan!”, Vinny reminds us that just being in the presence of God is life-changing.  He encourages you to “Son-bathe”, to bask in the holy light of His presence and His grace.
  • Don’t be afraid to sleep!  If you are likely to snore, perhaps it’s best to warn others in the chapel with you and to ask them to wake you, if you bother their personal prayer.  But Vinny reminds you how tenderly a parent regards a child who climbs up to sit beside him, to cuddle even while napping.  Your heavenly Father understands and smiles.

If we’ve fallen short—if we’ve been angry, negative, judgmental, unforgiving, Vinny offers tools to cleanse our souls.  He quotes Ephesians 4:31-32:

Get rid of all bitterness, all passion and anger, harsh words, slander, and malice of every kind.  In place of these, be kind to one another, compassionate, and mutually forgiving.

So we not only need to get rid of these things (curses), Vinny explains; we also need to put something else in their place (blessings).  Vinny teaches us to do this by using the three “R’s”:

  1. Repent.  “Oh Lord, there I go again.  I’m sorry, Lord.  I repent of that reaction; I repent of the thoughts, the judgments, the anger, the words I uttered.”
  2. Revoke.  “I revoke all those negative, unkind thoughts, Lord.  I un-think them, and I un-say those words.”
  3. Replace.  “I replace those ‘curses’ with a blessing, Lord.  I forgive him and I bless him, and I ask that You bless him, Lord.”

There is so much more.  21 Ways to Worship offers something for everyone, in a down-to-earth, friendly presentation.  And a bonus:  Vinny tops the book off with a selection of prayers suitable for adoration.

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Saturday Special: A Garden of Roses for Our Mother

Rosary and prayer book given to Mary, Queen of Scotts by Lord Herries during her flight to England

In this Marian month, I continue my weekly focus on Mary, the Mother of God. 

This week:  the Rosary.

“The holy Rosary is a powerful weapon. Use it with confidence and you’ll be amazed at the results.”

- Saint Josemaria Escriva

This is the Rosary of the Seven Sorrows–a seven-decade rosary originating in France

I confess:  I’ve sometimes had a difficult time praying the Rosary.

I could try to persuade you that I prefer a more intense, less repetitive form of prayer.  But you’d see through that in a second:  Devout Catholics pray the familiar Hail Mary’s and Our Fathers while meditating on the “Mysteries”—scenes from the life of Christ, drawn from the Scriptures.   The Rosary is a deep and comprehensive meditation.

I could tell you that I’m too sophisticated—that the Rosary is for medieval peasants, not for modern-day professionals.  But you’d point out that great saints like Josemaria Escriva and Louis de Montfort, and great philosophers like Blessed Pope John Paul II considered it the most profound of prayers.

This is different! A Rosary Garden, where you can pray while walking the stones on a summer’s day.

Alas, I am an undisciplined wanderer.  Holding that thought—continuing in meditative prayer for fifteen minutes—seems beyond reach.

But I try. 

This is a favorite, because it’s so personal. I bought this carefully sculpted large Rosary as a gift for my husband in Savannah–but it actually came from Rome, where shavings of alabaster from stained glass windows–like the Holy Spirit window in St. Peter’s Basilica–are formed into a resin, then molded into chunky beads.

St. Bernard of Clairvaux said of the Rosary,

“To meditate on these things has been my wisdom, and here I have found everything that was necessary or profitable for me to know….  I always bear these mysteries in my mouth and always preach them, as you know; I am always meditating on them in my heart, as God knows.  And of these things I always write, as everybody can see.  For this is and always will be my loftiest philosophy:  to know Jesus, and Him crucified.

Here, some interesting Rosaries to inspire you to prayer.

7-Year-Old Steals Car to Avoid Going to Church

I’d love to tell you that my children, when they were young, always loved going to church…. But no. 

They were pretty virtuous youngsters, and I was immensely proud of them; but sometimes they were in the middle of a game with friends or they were watching TV, and they just didn’t want to get in the car and drive to Mass.  We did it anyway; they were not permitted to miss; but I hated that it sometimes seemed that I was “punishing” them by requiring that they attend the Sunday liturgy, when the neighbor children could stay home and enjoy the sunshine.

I never had THIS happen though!  This little seven-year-old boy stole his dad’s car and drove toward home, just to avoid going to church.