MATTHEW TALBOT: Inspiration and Hope for Alcoholics

He was not wealthy.

He was not educated.

He was not well known.

He was an alcoholic.

But Matthew Talbot is on his way to becoming a saint.

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 Matthew Talbot was born in 1856 to a poor family in the North Strand area of Dublin, Ireland—the second of twelve children.  His father was a heavy drinker, as were most of his brothers.

Matthew left school at the age of 12 to work in a wine merchant’s shop. It was there he began drinking, and he continued to drink after he found work in the whiskey shops near the docks.  Like many young Irish lads, Matthew Talbot frequented pubs in the city with his brothers and friends, spending all his wages and running up debts.

One night in 1884, out of money and out of credit, Talbot was unable to buy a drink.  He returned home and told his mother that he was prepared to “take the pledge” (stop drinking). After sixteen years of heavy drinking, Talbot did stop that day—and he maintained his sobriety for the remaining 40 years of his life.  From that time, he worked earnestly to repay all of his debts.

It is now known that the rehabilitation program he implemented incorporated the “Twelve Steps” of Alcoholics Anonymous—although these steps would not be formulated for another fifty years.

Talbot had been an indifferent Catholic during his drinking days; but in sobriety, he grew in holiness.  He became a Third Order Franciscan, and he gave of what little he had to help the poor and the Church.  He lived an austere life, sleeping on a plank bed with a piece of timber for a pillow.  He relied on the grace which came from daily attendance at Mass, and from constant prayer.

Matthew Talbot died on his way to Mass on June 11, 1925.  The medical examiner was surprised to find that Talbot had wrapped heavy penitential chains and cords around his waist, arm and legs.  Word of his holiness spread quickly throughout Ireland, and the cause for his canonization was begun almost immediately.

On October 3, 1975, Pope Paul VI declared him to be Venerable (worthy of honor)—the first step along the way toward canonization.  He is the patron of alcoholics.

 Matt Talbot Included in a Station of the Cross

In St. Mary Magdalen Church in Media, Pennsylvania, the Stations of the Cross have been recreated by artist Robert McGovern.  Each painted Station includes an image of a saint or a holy person, inspiring the faithful to greater holiness.  Matthew Talbot is pictured in the Third Station (Jesus Falls the First Time).

 Official Prayer for the Canonization

of Venerable Matt Talbot

“Lord, in your servant Matt Talbot you have given us a wonderful example of triumph over addiction, of devotion to duty, and of lifelong reverence of the Holy Sacrament.

May his life of prayer and penance give us courage to take up our crosses and follow in the footsteps of Our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.

Father, if it be your will that your beloved servant should be glorified by your Church, make known by your heavenly favors the power he enjoys in your sight.

We ask this through the same Jesus Christ Our Lord. Amen.”

KNIGHT RIDER—AN INCURABLE ROMANTIC? David Hasselhoff Regrets His Divorces

David Hasselhoff regrets his divorces.

Describing himself as “deeply romantic,” the handsome star of Baywatch and Knight Rider claims that he’s always wanted to be with one person all his life.

You don’t say!? 

See, I’m not a big fan of the Entertainment channel; but I seem to recall that Hasselhoff has had quite a few personal “issues” which might make marital bliss a near impossibility.  First married to Catherine Hickland in the 1980s, Hasselhoff left that marriage after five years and married Pamela Bach, with whom he had two children. 

His personal life—during the two marriages and in the ensuing years—has been marred by infidelity, addiction, drunken rage, and custody disputes.  He has submitted to treatment for alcoholism, but was subsequently hospitalized for alcohol poisoning.  He was captured on film, lying in a drunken stupor on a hotel room floor, in a widely-circulated videotape produced by his own daughter.  Oh, oh, and one particularly poignant quote from the star himself:  “There are many dying children out there whose last wish is to meet me.”

In all, Hasselhoff doesn’t seem like the kind of guy a self-respecting woman would chain herself to for life.  It sounds, in fact, like what he really wants is not a real live woman with whom to build a life of hopes and dreams.  What Hasselhoff misses, actually, is a kind of vassal—a woman who loves him unconditionally, who boosts his flagging ego, and who asks nothing in return.

To which I—and most of the women of the world—say, “Yeah, right!”

Do you remember K.I.T.T., Hasselhoff’s indestructible talking car from his “Knight Rider” days?  K.I.T.T. was kind of a Lone Ranger/Tonto combo, offering free advice for the beefy star.  Maybe K.I.T.T. could give him a talking-to, suggesting that he clean up his act, get some personal counseling to address those burning ego issues, face up to his mortality and turn to God, and Be All That He Could Be. 

NO GREATER LOVE: Facing Kidney Failure, Priest Receives the Gift of Life From His Friend

May he be faithful to the ministry that he receives from you, Lord God, and be to others a model of right conduct.

–From the Prayer of Consecration, Rite of Ordination to the Priesthood

On the day of his ordination, a young priest expects to offer a lifetime of loving service to Christ and His Church.  Through his prayer and his ministry, he will lead his flock to a deeper understanding of their faith; he will walk with them in joy and sorrow, sharing their joy at the baptism of a child and the joining of two young lovers in holy matrimony, and comforting them at the passing of a parent.

But when a priest fails in his ministry because of addiction, he experiences shame, loneliness and remorse.  Perhaps he once drank only socially; but gradually his past experiences or his inner turmoil cause him to turn more and more frequently to the bottle.  His tolerance for alcohol increases, and he finds himself spiraling deeper into denial and deeper into alcoholism.  He arrives at Guest House with a broken spirit, powerless to help himself.  Coming together with priests from across the country who are facing the same struggle, he takes the first steps toward recovery—and in this shared experience of healing, deep friendships are forged.

So it was in 1996 when Father Jim Callahan (Minnesota), Fr. Dan McCloskey (Delaware), and Fr. Cathal Gallagher (South Dakota) entered the alcoholism treatment program at Guest House.  Together with other priests and their counselors, each man began the process of unraveling years of excuses and painful secrets, and uncovering the reasons behind his addiction.  Their shared experience of priestly ministry and renewed spirituality—and eventually, their grateful sobriety—forged a life-long friendship; and the three have remained close.

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Fast forward to Spring of 2010.  Father Dan had been facing critical kidney failure.  He was weakened after months of dialysis when Fr. Jim stepped up to offer one of his kidneys to help his friend.  It was a good match—and on April 22, 2010, with a lot of prayer support from their Guest House friends, the priests underwent transplant surgery with a top kidney specialist at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester.  In his weakened state, Father Dan lost a lot of blood and required not one, but two surgeries—but in the end, his life was saved. 

In the weeks following the surgery, both priests required careful monitoring and assistance.  Their close friend Father Cathal became their post-surgery caretaker.  Explaining how the event affected the three priests, Father Cathal wrote:

“Guest House may be a haven for the vulnerable.  The secret of one’s brokenness is no longer a secret.  But being vulnerable, one’s heart is more open, your ways are more gentle, and good solid friendships are created and nurtured.”