Here’s the situation:
- At the Catholic school in question, from what I’ve heard, parents no longer buy their daughters’ Communion dresses at Sears or J.C. Penney. Today’s fashions more likely come from bridal shops, where they carry price tags up to $750.
One mother, who had found a “great price” on a dress for only $375, was furious because another girl in the second grade class was planning to wear the same dress. The mom went out and bought six more dresses—but to her dismay her daughter, age seven, loved the original dress and could not be persuaded to wear a different one.- Although the traditional white dress has long been a symbol for purity and innocence, this year the school had permitted students to wear ivory dresses as well. Not such a big deal, perhaps, but my friend worried that it further reduced the sacramental celebration to “just another day.”
- And after Mass, today’s students headed home, or to the local country club or hotel ballroom, for an extravaganza with fine dining, expensive gifts, and probably a rock band.
So what do YOU think? Does all this hoopla at a child’s First Holy Communion distort the meaning, focusing the child’s attention on superficial things while the real meaning, the reception of Jesus into one’s heart, is relegated to a distant second place? Or do the fancy dress and shoes (or new suit and tie for the little guys), fresh haircut, and big party serve to remind young children what a singularly important event this really is?
Please share your own experiences. Be prepared to explain WHY you made the choice you did. Would you do it differently (one way or the other), if you could?


You see, the proceeds from the sale of Girl Scout cookies are divided: You may be happy with your local Scout leader, happy with the projects undertaken by your local Girl Scout Council. However, while a portion of the proceeds of cookie sales remains within the local Council, the funds are shared with the State and National organizations to help in their administrative costs. So every dollar spent on Tagalongs and Lemon Chalet Cremes will help to advance the Girl Scouts’ liberal far-left policies.
A HEALTHY ALTERNATIVE TO GIRL SCOUTS USA
He was not wealthy.

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