Why Do Christians Deny the Power of Love?

Why Do Christians Deny the Power of Love? July 19, 2018
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When it comes to love, many Christians have a pretty low opinion of it. Sure, it’s great. But there’s so much more they would rather focus on. Things like Justice and Wrath, and Sovereignty and Judgment, for example, are much more important to them than love.

To Christians like this, the Gospel is more about escaping the eternal flames of hell than it is about knowing a God who loves us enough to lay down His life for the world.

I’ve actually had Christians leave our house church fellowship because we “spend too much time talking about love.” [Seriously]. One man recently left me a long voicemail message about how he was leaving our group because we only wanted to focus on God’s love. He then went on to suggest that God’s love is also about punishing sinners who stray from His law.

This is not an isolated case. Truth be told, many Christians are offended by this continual focus on love. They don’t want to sing about it. They don’t want to meditate on it. They don’t want to believe that God’s love is the most important thing.

To them, love is a squishy, mushy, mamby-pamby syrup that is best taken in small doses.

What’s more, they tend to see love as a sign of weakness and connect it to what they term as an “over-emphasis on emotions.” What they want is to spend more time on doctrines, and to focus on the “Word of God” which, in their terminology, is code for “The Holy Bible”, not what the Bible says it is, which is Jesus.

I started to reflect on this phenomenon recently. I wondered why so many Christians today seem to undervalue the love of God. Why do they see it as being synonymous with weakness and human emotion?

I want to ask them: “Is God weak?” Of course not. God is the most powerful being in the Universe. I mean, heck, God created the Universe and holds everything in it together. Of course God is powerful.

Yet, God is love. So, if God is love, then how can love be weak or powerless?

Another question I’d like to ask is: “Why would a Christian trust in any other power?” Most Christians who guffaw at the power of love tend to favor the power of physical weapons. They trust in guns, or the State, to protect them. They would rather have their faith in the power to inflict death on others than to trust in the power of God’s love to transform from within.

Understand something: The power of a gun is rooted in the power of fear and death. The power of intimidation is tied to use of force and the threat of violence.

But don’t we know that God’s perfect love casts out fear? Do we really believe that? Maybe not. But if we do believe that love renders fear powerless, then we must admit that all weapons are useless.

Now, those who properly wield the power of love are more powerful than those who brandish weapons of fear and death. However, like anyone else, we need to learn how to use our weapons skillfully in order to be effective.

No one can just buy a machine gun or a high-powered sniper rifle and expect to be an expert marksman without any training. No one can purchase a katana or a compound bow and become proficient with these weapons without years of practice and hours of instruction.

Learning to use the power of love is no exception. If we want to learn how to use the most powerful force in the Universe effectively, it will take an entire lifetime to hone our skills and see results.

This is why we need to spend hours together focused on the love of God.

God is love. There is nothing stronger.

No power in heaven above or hell below is greater than pure love.

Love disarms us. Love transforms us. Love overcomes hate. Love defies the grave.

Love is wider, higher, longer and deeper than anything we can comprehend.

We cannot ever be separated from this love. Nothing can ever take it from us. It is eternally embedded within every person’s heart who abides in Christ.

All human power is based on fear and death. God’s love is the ultimate power that erases fear and conquers death.

So, like it or not, anyone who chooses the power of death and fear has already lost the war.

Love is the greatest power in the Universe. Love created the Universe. Love sustains the Universe.

Without love we are nothing.

And the greatest thing about love is that love never fails.

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Keith Giles new book Jesus Unbound: Liberating the Word of God from the Bible”, is available now on Amazon and features a Foreword by author Brian Zahnd.

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  • Keith, what you say about love is worth careful consideration. What are we thinking?

  • Al Cruise

    Great post. Thanks.

  • Matthew

    I just learned this past weekend that love as the highest ethic was unheard of
    until Christianity came onto the scene. Sadly, as Christians, we are known for
    so many other things, but not very often for this 🙁

  • Matt Agajanian

    It would seem to me that in order to feed into the Fundamentalist/Born-Again, extremist, narrow-mindedness, overly conservative, purist, or other extremist immaturity, it is easier psychologically, mentally to hate than to actually exert work and effort to love. For me, this explains why Christlike love is both foreign or unheard-of. Hate, unloving sentiment is easier for the aforementioned because these cater to their automatic reflexes of bias, prejudice, disgust for the outside world. That, to me explains why these Fundamentalists, Born-Agains find it so easy to equate today’s world as Sodom & Gomorrah. Anything to reinforce the prejudice that stems from there are over seven-and-a-half billion people that are different from them. From that vantage point, hate is easier than loving those who are different in any way, shape, or form.

  • Derrick Roberts

    I’m a fundamentalist and Born Again. The Church described in this piece isn’t one I recognise. Every church I’ve been a member of has been fundamentalist, born again and evangelical and we talk about and marvel at God’s love more than anything else.