When a fundie asks you about your stance on the issue of homosexuality..

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First remind them that people are not issues, they are children of God. Then go all snarky on their ass and answer with a few questions of your own.   What is your stance on eating bacon wrapped shrimp? Have you visited poly-cotton blend factories to talk about the will of God lately? Do you [Read More...]

United Church of Christ files lawsuit challenging North Carolina marriage laws

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One of the most important reasons I am struggling with shedding the label Christian is that I remove myself a step from my beloved tribe. According to a press release dated April 28, 2014 written by Connie Larkman of the UCC. “The General Synod of the United Church of Christ (UCC) has filed suit against the [Read More...]

May the road rise to meet you

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May the road rise to meet you,  may the wind be ever at your back.  May the sun shine warm upon your face,  and the rains fall soft upon your fields.  And until we meet again,  may God hold you in the palm of his hand. – Traditional Irish Blessing I recently returned from a [Read More...]

Leaving church to search for Christ

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Sometime near the end of what I now call World Vision Week I had a dream. As the blackness of slow-wave sleep dissolved, I found myself in the completely mundane and peaceful kitchen I once shared with my ex-wife. As we puttered around, putting away the evening’s dishes, I sensed a shadowy presence swooping past [Read More...]

Mediating Faith Online: A Chat with Clint Schnekloth

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By now y’all probably realize I’ve taken a pretty deep hit with all the “Christian” shenanigans last month (and frankly for all time) and I’m struggling to find anything nice to say about anything that is Christian.  In the middle of my most recent theological melt down (I’ve had so many) I promised the good [Read More...]

World Vision’s courage changed my mind: becoming ex-lesbian

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Friends and family, in the wake of the courageous World Vision stand to continue to deny same-sex couples employment, I have searched my heart, prayed around the clock and have come to a very difficult decision. See, it was in a moment of weakness that World Vision announced they would include homosexuals in their ranks [Read More...]

Dreaming dreams and seeing visions: Nadia, Rachel, Tony et al.

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I had an odd dream last night. Maybe this dream is the result of the spicy bean bowl I made for dinner, maybe it was melatonin gummies that helped me get the best night sleep in a month, maybe it came to me as a result of the creeping feeling that I need to walk [Read More...]

Thank you Fred Phelps

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A couple of y’all have asked me why I have been strangely quiet about Fred Phelp’s passing so I guess I should try my best to answer. Because thinking about this man and his legacy makes me mad, it hurts like hell and brings out the worst in my heart. As a Christian, a lesbian [Read More...]

Grieving the death of a gay marriage

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Warning: this post feels like a hot damn mess of a dozen mismatched thoughts dumped out like a pail of dog-chewed Lincoln Logs. So be it.   It’s been just three months since I moved out of the house that I believed would be my forever home. Three months since I stepped across two distinct [Read More...]

Happy Birthday Phyllis

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I am sitting on my tiny front porch listening to the lonely wail of a train in the cool southern night trying to find the words to wish someone beautiful, talented, graceful (in all the ways) and incredibly special to me an amazingly happy birthday! I can’t seem to recall the circumstances of our first [Read More...]


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