“We forgive because we know God is so forgiving”

Today, I continue my 100 day series remembering the twentieth anniversary of Rwandan genocide. Please join me in prayer for those lives lost and impacted in this tragedy. #NeverAgain. LMH

Survivor Viviane N’Habimana with perpetrator Boniface Hakizimana at the Community Healing and Reconciliation Program in Rugango Parish in Butare Diocese, Rwanda. The five year project (2008-2012) helped improve social cohesion among Rwandans facing the consequences of the 1994 genocide. Catholic Relief Services implemented the project in partnership with the Peace and Justice Commission of the Catholic Church of Rwanda and five dioceses. It promoted the use of non-violent conflict management, community healing approaches, peace values and reconciliation. Over 37,000 volunteers and 300 priests and religious leaders were targeted to debate and reflect on challenges and strategies of achieving reconciliation in Rwanda. 

Today, I want to point you to a beautiful article by my friend Helen Blakesley. Helen is the CRS regional information officer for West and Central Africa. She is based in Dakar, Senegal and was a special part of my trip to Rwanda. She recently wrote the article “Rwanda 20 Years After Genocide” for Catholic Relief Services:

Forgiveness. It’s perhaps one of the most challenging of the Christian values. It’s difficult to fathom a woman turning to the man who killed her entire family and saying, “I have forgiven you.”

Yet that is what is happening in Rwanda, with the support of Catholic Relief Services.

This year marks 2 decades since the genocide of 1994. Twenty years ago, Rwanda was a country in ruins. About 1 million people were killed in just 100 days. The fighting left about 300,000 children orphaned or separated from their families and half a million women widowed (many of whom were HIV positive through rape). Three million people fled the country as refugees. Over a summer, approximately half of the Rwandan population disappeared.

Rwanda’s social and political structures were destroyed, its economy and infrastructure disintegrated. The reasons behind this crisis of catastrophic proportions are complex. Propaganda and intra-racial hatred stirred up over decades is one “explanation,” if there can ever be an explanation for such atrocities.

But as I stood on a hillside in Rugango Parish in southern Rwanda last fall, looking out to the banana fronds and the terracotta rooftops as night fell, it was hard to imagine this orderly country was once a host to chaos.

Read the full article

About Lisa M. Hendey

Lisa M. Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the bestselling author of The Handbook for Catholic Moms and A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms.


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