Mandela Fought to Work WITH His Oppressors

This post is written by Andrew Marin, President and Founder of The Marin Foundation

In the wake of today’s announcement that Nelson Mandela has passed away at the age of 95, without a shadow of a doubt I believe the greatest legacy that Mandela left us, and something that we would do well to listen to today!, is that in his first speech after being released from 27 years in prison, Mandela said:

“Let bygones be bygones.”

Mandela would go on to say that he would work to ensure there would never be apartheid of any form in South Africa again. This means that Mandela refused to allow the dominant majority blacks impose the same system of oppression upon the white Afrikaners which they had imposed on the blacks for the better part of the past three hundred years.

As Desmond Tutu would recount, Mandela set the tone of forgiveness and reconciliation from his first words of freedom by making all blacks realize the rainbow nation must be blacks working with the whites who oppressed them in order for things to get better. It also must be noted that such an attitude by the oppressed towards their oppressors is not fair, should never have had to be, and causes the oppressed much more toil, pain, and unnecessary humility and humiliation.

I say it time and time and time again; and yet I keep getting laughed at and criticized every time I do–History has proven that culturally, sociologically, diplomatically, anthropologically, politically, and religiously, that in order for holistic sustainable change of advancement to happen, the oppressed must seek reconciliation through forgiveness and work with their oppressors to see, as Mandela said, “ideals become reality.”

Memories are real; and at times, real hurtful. But Mandela realized, before many others, that such painful memories can no longer be an excuse for the oppressed to turn into the oppressors.

So for all of those from both ends of the spectrum fighting for their singleminded beliefs to become the dominant lens which culture views, governs, and engages itself and others, just know that your dime-a-dozen mentality of self-professed correctness is not worth the free space on the internet it inhabits.

Real change; real equality; real holism; real togetherness; do not happen through an end result where one worldview dominates all others. It can only happen when each member starts to live into the belief, as MLK suggested, that our shared humanity’s decisions dictate our shared humanity’s future.

Partisan activists and haters will call such a vision a pipe dream, idealistic, simplistic, childish, or whatever other derogatory label one wants to dismiss the hard work of such true activistic reconciliation. But I can easily refute such ignorance with two words:

Nelson Mandela.

“If you want to make peace with your enemy, you have to work with your enemy. Then he becomes your partner.” -Nelson Mandela

Much love.

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About Andrew Marin

Andrew Marin is President and Founder of The Marin Foundation (www.themarinfoundation.org). He is author of the award winning book Love Is an Orientation (2009), its interactive DVD curriculum (2011), and recently an academic ebook titled Our Last Option: How a New Approach to Civility can Save the Public Square (2013). Andrew is a regular contributor to a variety of media outlets and frequently lectures at universities around the world. Since 2010 Andrew has been asked by the United Nations to advise their various agencies on issues of bridging opposing worldviews, civic engagement, and theological aspects of reconciliation. For twelve years he lived in the LGBT Boystown neighborhood of Chicago, and is currently based St. Andrews, Scotland, where he is teaching and researching at the University of St. Andrews earning his PhD in Constructive Theology with a focus on the Theology of Culture. Andrew's research centers on the cultural, political, and religious dynamics of reconciliation. Andrew is married to Brenda, and you can find him elsewhere on Twitter (@Andrew_Marin), Facebook (AndrewMarin01), and Instagram (@andrewmarin1).

  • Jonenred

    Mandela legalized abortion in the mid 90′s, killing 1 million babies

    • Michael Albert

      Please tell us how your concern for babies runs so deep you have adopted many underprivileged children, and seen to it that hundreds of others have their physical, social an spiritual needs met through an outpouring of your financial resources and time. Or have you just spent your time yelling outside of women’s health care clinics? Or something in between? Or none of the above?


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