Reality Matters

I just read Greta's recent post, "Truth Is Not Boring," and this quote stuck out to me: There’s something JT Eberhard says a lot in his talks, and he said it again in some of his responses to de Botton: Caring about reality is a moral obligation. You can have the best intentions in the world, but if you’re not committed to understanding how the world really works, you’re going to make bad decisions: decisions that hurt yourself and others around you. You’re going to let your child die when medic … [Read more...]

Tarot Cards and Me

This is a slightly edited repost from last summer that I thought my readers might enjoy. Growing up, I was always afraid to look at tarot cards. Not that I came in contact with them much, of course, but I'd see them for sale at a local bookstore and stay far, far away. I'd read Frank Peretti and other authors talking about witchcraft and tarot cards and the like, and the demonic influence these things invited. In Peretti, the demons were real and physical, plaguing people and looking for an … [Read more...]

Coming out (as an atheist) is a journey not an event

For those raised in religious families surrounded by religious friends and relatives, coming out as an atheist is a big deal. It means risking the potential - and in many cases the likelihood - of losing friends and experiencing damaged relationships with relatives. It may even mean facing emotional manipulation and the pain of rejection. It means a complete change of identity.Personally, I don't see coming out as an atheist as a one time thing. For some it may be, but for me at least, it has … [Read more...]

On anonymous blogging and “coming out” as an atheist

I hope my readers don't think less of me for this, but there is a reason I blog anonymously. The truth is, I'm not out completely to all of my family members. And at the moment, that's okay. For me, coming out as an atheist is a journey rather than an event.Basically, I stopped talking to my parents about my spiritual journey some years ago, and they probably assume I am still frozen where I was: Christian, but not of their specific brand. For the time being, I let them assume that. Why?I … [Read more...]

A humorous post on reading Bible story books to my daughter

Any atheist parent with religious relatives will have to figure out how to deal with the Bible story books their children will inevitably be given for birthdays and Christmas. This is something that's been on my mind lately because a Noah's Ark board book has suddenly become my young daughter's favorite book.Some atheist parents may just return Bible themed story books when their children receive them as gifts, and that's fine, but I didn't want to do that. Now I know I could just read them to … [Read more...]

Searching for the Baby in the Bathwater

This is a slightly edited repost of a post I wrote when I first started blogging last summer. I'm reposting it for new readers. This post explains how I moved from evangelical Christianity to atheism over a process that took some years to complete. Here is the original.  Everyone who leaves the Quiverfull movement, Christian Patriarchy, or evangelical or fundamentalism in general has a long journey in front of them. They have to sort through everything they have always believed and determine … [Read more...]

Sunday Mornings, Guilt, and Reconceptualization

Growing up, I attended church each and every Sunday. It was just . . . what we did. Sunday mornings was for church. Period. My parents used a Bible verse to back up the importance of church attendance: Hebrews 10:25Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching. In other words, going to church was commanded by God. It wasn't optional. And if you didn't go to church, you would be … [Read more...]


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