Don’t Try to Fix It—Pray!

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I recently came upon this image: Text: When life doesn't fit, don't worry, be critical, or try to fix it. Instead, take your problem to Jesus and leave it there. It's one thing to pray in addition to actually doing things to fix a problem in your life, but praying instead of doing things to fix a problem in your life is something else altogether, and that seems to be what Max Lucado is promoting here.Of course, this idea that prayer alone can be sufficient to fix a pro … [Read more...]

The Courtship Mask

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I recently posted excerpts from an article written by Shoshanna Pearl, which began like this: When I got married, I expected my husband to be that alpha male that my dad was; but he was not. We would be driving down the road and he would say, “Where do you want to eat?” I would smile and say, “Wherever you want to eat,” expecting him to quickly turn in to this or that place without hesitation. Instead, he would smile and say, “I don’t care. I want to take you where you want to go. Where would yo … [Read more...]

But What If Your Husband Tells You Not to Submit?

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When I write about submission, especially in the context of Debi Pearl's book, Created To Be His Help Meet, commenters frequently ask what Debi would say to a woman whose husband told her not to submit. I think we have our answer, or at least as close as we're going to get to an answer. It's an article by Debi's daughter Shoshanna Easling. My Dad was not the type of guy to check with you before he made a decision. We would be driving down the road when all of a sudden he would pull in to a … [Read more...]

Why I Never Went Trick-or-Treating as a Child

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Paul S. Taylor of Answers in Genesis is worried.While I would argue that Halloween has always been a dubious and anti-Christian festival, carefully observant parents have noticed that in recent years the godless nature of the event has increased and realize that even more caution is warranted. This problem has occurred hand-in-hand with the slide into godlessness generally associated with an evolutionary worldview, in which God is not central to our lives, and death and the occult are … [Read more...]

Closing the Fire Escape

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A few weeks ago, I discussed a chapter from one of Gothard's IBLP seminar textbooks titled "How To Build the Spirit of a Marriage." Today I want to come back to that chapter to discuss something often called "closing the fire escape." Here Gothard is discussing things a wife can do that damage a marriage. When she lacks a grateful spiritAn ungrateful wife is a public rebuke to her husband. By her spirit she communicates the message, "My husband does not know how to make me happy." U … [Read more...]

Counseling in the Hands of Emotionally Abusive Parents

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One summer home from college, my parents insisted that I meet with our pastor. I was questioning evangelicalism and exploring other Christian faith traditions, and my parents were very concerned about me. So they set up a meeting and sent me off. I could have refused, I suppose, but I was living with them and dependent on them for transportation, so I really wan't in a place to put up too much of a fuss. The meeting could have been a whole lot worse, and besides, it was just the one meeting. Mo … [Read more...]

How Not To Combat Sexual Abuse

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Next week Frontline Family Ministries is holding National Sexual Abuse Prevention Week for Homeschoolers. You would think this would be something I would support, right? I've talked before about a culture of looking the other way in homeschooling communities, the way homeschooling can make detecting  abuse more difficult, and fundamentalist and evangelical beliefs that let offenders off the hook. Spending a week raising awareness and promoting prevention should be a good thing, … [Read more...]


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