CTBHHM: In Which Debi Mangles Another Bible Character


Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 277-279Today we get the rest of Sarah's story. In this section Debi reads into the Bible, urges abused women to blame themselves, and sees a Sarah I don't see. The Bible has lots of different stories that can be used to illustrate some really important points and themes (as with any body of mythology), but Debi seems bound and determined to take complex and interesting stories and make them two dimensional. While Abraham was learning to obey God, Sarah was … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: Beautiful Sarah, and Abraham’s Lie

Abraham's lie

Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 275-277This week we start a new chapter---"Heirs Together in the Grace of Life"---and we get another Bible story---Sarah. Are you ready? Sarah the Beautiful If I had been the one authorizing exceptions, I would have released Sarah from obeying her husband on at least two occasions, but I would have been wrong. Sarah chose to obey Abraham even when he lied and told her to lie because he was afraid of what could happen if the king knew she was his wife. … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: In Which Debi Explains Abigail


Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 270-272This week we get to see Debi's treatment of David, Abigail, and Nabal. Abigail's StoryThe Scripture records one "exception" story, where a woman was forced by the law of the land and the preservation of her people to act contrary to her husband's will. It is the famous love story of David and Abigail. Actually, Esther also acted contrary to her husband's will to save her people. It's worth noting that there are other cases where women have acted … [Read more...]

“Women Have Always Fought”


If you're anything like me, you've been fascinated by the recent articles alleging that as many as half of all Viking warriors may have been women:Researchers at the University of Western Australia decided to revamp the way they studied Viking remains. Previously, researchers had misidentified skeletons as male simply because they were buried with their swords and shields. (Female remains were identified by their oval brooches, and not much else.) By studying osteological signs of gender … [Read more...]

Strong-Willed Child: Flushing Dobson Down the Toilet


By VictoriaOriginally posted on Saving Victoria StrongThe Strong-Willed Child, chapter 2, pp. 29-30So we begin Chapter 2 with a wordy story about a mother of a 3-year-old girl in Kansas City who meets Dobson and at first thanks him for his book Dare to Discipline. Apparently, “…they (this girl’s parents) bought the book and learned therein that it is appropriate to spank a child under certain well-defined circumstances. My recommendation made sense to these harassed parents, wh … [Read more...]

In Which Kevin Swanson Faces Consequences


There has been a new development in the events we've been following all week. If you don't have the background, reading my piece on the WORLD Magazine article, my piece on Farris's recent white paper, and my piece on Swanson's radio broadcast will bring you up to speed. The gist is that WORLD Magazine published an article covering abuse and neglect in the Christian homeschooling world, Michael Farris published a white paper condemning "patriarchal" homeschool leaders and abuse and neglect, and Ke … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: The Bottomless Line


Created To Be His Help Meet, p. 270Today Debi sums up her section on when women are allowed to disobey their husbands. Next week we'll cover the story she finishes this section with---that of Abigail. The Bottom LineIf a wife has an attitude of rebellion, she can find a thousand different exceptions to obedience. But if a wife is really seeking God and asking for wisdom from on high, she will be able to discern the difference between her own controlling spirit and those rare instances … [Read more...]